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atm 1892

10-30-2007, 09:39 PM

Ok I have a dilemma that started in school today.

So before homeroom today I was walking with my girlfriend when two of my friends came up to me and told me that my former best friend was going around and hanging pictures on lockers of my twin sister and this other kid making out. Usually I'm not really that protective around her with boys, but this got me really pissed off. So I went over to the kid who was hanging the pictures and I basically threw him to the ground. I didn't punch him because there was a teacher close and I would have gotten suspended. Anyway, so he tried acting like he was all innocent and feeding me that classic line of bs that it was these other kids, who I strongly dislike. Anyway so basically after talking with a bunch of different people, I found out that about five kids were apart of this.

Now I'm stuck in a tough situation. Every ounce of me just wants to kick the living crap out of them. However, I really only see them in school and I don't feel like getting suspended. I thought about going to the office and telling the principal or something but I really don't want to be that kid who tells on people. So I'm not sure what to do and I know I'm probably gonna end up doing something stupid tomorrow in school so any advice would be greatly appreciated.

JLancer24

10-30-2007, 09:43 PM

Depends what grade youre in. I was in a situation last friday in which some d bag was talking about my mom and then when I confronted him it ended with him throwing a punch and then me getting him 1-2-3. I got 5 days of suspension but I kind of had something to prove since Im a freshman, I now know that that wasn't the best way to prove it. My advice is put him in his place, just don't fight him in school.

edit - If you're in HS, just tell some big upperclaasmen what he did and chances are that they will scare him for you.

double edit - I would say fight him. A big brother should never let anyone disrespect his little sister. Chances are your parents will understand. But if you think they will kill you, don't do it.

mnlax9

10-30-2007, 09:46 PM

that would have really made me mad.

you have a right to put him in his place and I think you should.

if i was more mature i would say talk to the kid and ask him to apologize to your sister. and you

atm 1892

10-30-2007, 09:54 PM

Well I'm a sophomore in high school and she's my twin sister. I wouldn't have a problem fighting any of them. I'm not saying that I would demolish them, but I could definitely hold my own.

Plus, my former friend who was apart of this is basically just a little girl. I don't think he has ever been in a real fight and anytime he has a problem with anybody he goes running to his brother and his friends who are basically a bunch of drug addicts who were kicked out of high school. These kids are basically insane and they could really care less what grade you are in or if they get arrested or anything so I'm not really sure about him.

goalie33fan

10-30-2007, 09:58 PM

Take him down. You don't mess with family.

THALAX

10-30-2007, 10:01 PM

You will get suspended. Big deal. I think that making sure a few punks give you and your sister some respect is worth getting suspended over.

atm 1892

10-30-2007, 10:20 PM

Why don't you let your sister deal with this? She was the one who was offended, you don't really need to step in. I know you're her brother and all, but let her be a big girl and handle it herself if she doesn't like what happened. If it turns into something bigger (right now this is rather minor, I actually think you're overreacting to the situation), then go to the right authoritative people. Otherwise, I really don't think it's worth getting suspended over.

Well one, thats disrespectful and embarrassing. I know she was pissed off and she was actually screaming at one of the kids who used to be my best friend but they all just kinda laughed it off. After that, they were all just making jokes about it and really didn't see anything wrong with it. What pisses me off even more that I have been best friends with one of these kid since kindergarten. Now this summer he changed and started doing stuff like this, even after my family basically took care of him, took him with us on vacation, and did everything for him. I was the only one defending him when nobody liked him last year and wanted to beat him up. Now he goes and does this. Also, how exactly do you expect her to take care of this situation when she's up against four guys? I know it really isn't that big but it pisses me off so much.

Lax'N'Roll

10-30-2007, 10:31 PM

Sit down and talk with him, out of school and ask him whats up and why hes acting like this

goalie33fan

10-30-2007, 10:37 PM

Well one, thats disrespectful and embarrassing. I know she was pissed off and she was actually screaming at one of the kids who used to be my best friend but they all just kinda laughed it off. After that, they were all just making jokes about it and really didn't see anything wrong with it. What pisses me off even more that I have been best friends with one of these kid since kindergarten. Now this summer he changed and started doing stuff like this, even after my family basically took care of him, took him with us on vacation, and did everything for him. I was the only one defending him when nobody liked him last year and wanted to beat him up. Now he goes and does this. Also, how exactly do you expect her to take care of this situation when she's up against four guys? I know it really isn't that big but it pisses me off so much.

Well then instead of beating him, ignore him and show him how crappy life will be for him with out a friend like you.

laxgoalie66

10-30-2007, 11:01 PM

Even if you fight out of school, somehow schools manage to suspend you. Here anyway, someone got suspended for saying Mrs. _____ SUCKS, fighting outside of school, and other things. I dont know how though.

But anyway, I say you should see whats the deal with those immature kids, or just get them back with photoshop hahah

cali feeder

10-30-2007, 11:06 PM

Try to talk with him, and see what the deal is. If he's still a douche about it and keeps on doing this crap, fight him outside of school. This is more a matter of family respect than just kids being jerks. If you do get suspended, hopefully you're principal will understand and somewhat respect the fact that you knew the consequences but did it anyways because they were messing with your family.

No one should EVER mess with family and get away with it.

Enjoi LAX

10-30-2007, 11:08 PM

Thats messed up, if anyone ever had the nerve to do that to my sis there would be an issue. I would never curb stomp someone, thats messed up but depending on the age, circumstance, so on I would most likely woop their arse.

abomb

10-30-2007, 11:10 PM

Just go up to one of the guys and be like "hey, I need to talk to you..." and then break his face when hes least expecting it. It will send a message to all the others. And when you get sent to the principals office, tell them why you f-ed him up and you'll get a 5 day suspension, they'll get in trouble as well this way.

cali feeder

10-30-2007, 11:12 PM

they'll get in trouble as well this way. Yeah. If your principal (or whoever deals with discipline) has any moral value at all, he'll understand what you did, and probably get them in trouble as well.

goalie33fan

10-30-2007, 11:17 PM

Grab him and drag him through the school and make him apologize to your sister in front of a big crowd and then make him kiss her shoes. Then just throw him on the ground and spit on him.

Or if you wanted to be a O.G. you could spray his house with some rounds.

Well you can get arrested for spitting on someone.

That is assault.

HRLAXER

10-31-2007, 12:35 AM

if hes a little girl and you can hold your own i would just pick on him. push him around and make sure that he knows better. and if he does anything again stomp him.

aussielax

10-31-2007, 04:54 AM

Ask the kids to apologize to your sister if they do then leave it. If they refuse violence/intimidation/threats of violence may be needed to ensure that this kind of thing doesn't happen again. Actually beating these kids down may not be necessary just mess with their heads a bit make them think you (and possibly some of your friends) are going to jump them and they will have learned their lesson.

veronalax33

10-31-2007, 08:54 AM

have your sister call them and tell them she wanted to hang out sometime, something like she forgives them, but just wants to talk about it a little. and if they do come, she won't be there: you will. give them a good ol can of whoop butt! ahahaaaaaa.

RIlaxin45

10-31-2007, 09:19 AM

Buzz1991

10-31-2007, 09:48 AM

If you see him in the hall rough him up a little. show you dominance, like the dog whisperer. Actually exactly like that southpark episode. If you give him a little then it will scare him more that just whooping him. Not that I'm anti violence but its all head games. I've had this situation almost exactly with on of my younger girlfriends, like a friend who's a girl. Disrespect cannot be tolerated.

atm 1892

10-31-2007, 11:30 AM

veronalax33

10-31-2007, 11:49 AM

think of it as 3 days of no school for punching a kid who deserved it.

sorry you got suspended man.

hvlacrosse311

10-31-2007, 11:51 AM

Well you can get arrested for spitting on someone.

That is assault.

are you serious? ive never heard that.

lslaxer

10-31-2007, 01:12 PM

I guesddddddddd

atm 1892

10-31-2007, 01:20 PM

I guess it's a little late now, but I was going to suggest talking to this kid. It seems like there might be something else going on in his life thats making him messed up. People who have been best friends since kindergarten don't just "break up" over the summer for no reason. I'm guessing he has other problems in his life. Too bad about the 3 day suspension, but you shouldn't have punched him.

Yea I didn't really plan on getting into that aspect to much on here but I know he has some family problems and a new girl friend that rules his life now. He basically whipped x 1000. Apparently she told him that he wasn't allowed to hang out with me, my sister, or any of his other friends he used to hang out with and he willingly agreed.

Meade Lacrosse

10-31-2007, 03:33 PM

YOu have a duty as an older brother.

Kill those kids.

WinnersLacrosse

10-31-2007, 05:04 PM

im a freshman and if i went to ur school i prbly would have beat them up for u ,couple days at home and i got to beat someone up who deserved it win/win scenario

Tehb2

10-31-2007, 05:31 PM

I'd probably advise against fighting. Suspensions don't exactly look good on your record, whether or not these kids deserve a beating. I've had times myself I wish I could just take someone aside and settle the problem with some punches, but I always have to put those thougts aside because I have future plans for going some places, plus the trouble I'd be in with my parents.

First off, try to get to some of these kids, and intimidate them a little. With the throwing thing as long as you aren't suspended, that works okay, but thats pushing it, because some kids don't care about going to a teacher to get you suspended. Some of them might get scared, especially this x-friend of yours, and manage to get the others to back down. If they continue to do these things to you and your sister, then you might want to see a principal if it is making you as mad as you are getting. You can probably get a harassment form, or get one for your ister since she is the subject of the pictures, and that probably looks way worse on a record. Either way, its best to try and end the problem soon if its real serious to you, and generally other kids understand when someone is taking a "joke" too far. Don't worry too much about "peer pressure" to remain silent, no one is going to give your house a drive-by or anything, and it'll pass over.

Although this is from my perspective. Some people just don't care about the consequences, and its a part of their character. We have one kid in my grade who punched out another kid on his soccer team freshmen year for making fun of him having been a male cheerleader at his middle school. I'm not sure, but I recently heard it had actually been a bet he made that made him do it, but he tackled this guy and gave him a few hits and his forhead balooned. Now everyone knows not to set this kid off, and we very gently mention anything about him and his cheerleading, so he doesn't turn on us.

goalie33fan

10-31-2007, 05:53 PM

are you serious? ive never heard that.

Yep.

Not only is it assault, but it is the most disrespectfully thing you can do to a person.

ATXlacrosse

10-31-2007, 06:06 PM

Yep.

Not only is it assault, but it is the most disrespectfully thing you can do to a person.
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Teach you sister how to fight then let her, take away his dignity by whooping his [no profanity]

RottingMind13

10-31-2007, 06:10 PM

anyone else realize that some places bring criminal charges for fighting in school? Either way, I think this case might fall in one of the exceptions to the rule where it is ok to just lay the kid out with a couple good punches. Even better if you bait so they swing first.

I see that you already got your 3 day suspension, but theres obviously still something there. Just make sure that you keep you guard up when these kids are around. In case they try to pull something.

THE_1protector

10-31-2007, 06:16 PM

someone dissing on your sis!?!? mess em up. protect your family. haha seriously though, dont let people dis on your sister, cause then other people will think its ok. and its not. maybe he just needs a very stern warning, if you know wat i mean. just a deterrent for any future incidents.

BurnSomeRope

10-31-2007, 06:24 PM

IMO i'd just beat the hell out of them, but to each man his own

Lax'N'Roll

10-31-2007, 07:39 PM

Well you can get arrested for spitting on someone.

That is assault.

Thats assault brotha!

ya double dog dare me?

dta06

10-31-2007, 07:50 PM

personally I think you did the right thing. I'm not close with my sister, but if someone did something like that to her I'd crack that kid in the face with no questions asked.

hvlacrosse311

10-31-2007, 08:10 PM

Yep.

Not only is it assault, but it is the most disrespectfully thing you can do to a person.

I can think of many more disrespectful things to do to someone. One of them is posting pictures of them making out with some guy for everyone to see.

goalie33fan

10-31-2007, 08:35 PM

I can think of many more disrespectful things to do to someone. One of them is posting pictures of them making out with some guy for everyone to see.

Nope, spitting is worse. Think about it. You get spit on in the face by someone. You don't know what was in there mouth or whats in there blood (diseases), there bodily fluids are on your face.

goalie diez

10-31-2007, 08:41 PM

fight him and show no mercy take all of themd own...if it was me the kid wouldve been donesky the instant i saw him

spyopticgoggles

10-31-2007, 08:58 PM

fight fire with fire. PS him kissing a guy or an ugly girl.

atm 1892

10-31-2007, 09:36 PM

Haha you all had good ideas and thanks for the advice. Apparently no one likes these kids and everybody was like coming up to me and talking about rumors people were spreading. Also the teacher who broke it up said to my friend and his homeroom that I did the right thing. Also, when I was sitting in the principals office my lacrosse coach showed up because he is one of the security guards. While they were sorting everything out he was really cool about it and he was telling me that he would have done the same thing and all that stuff. So I don't feel that bad about getting suspended anymore.

JLancer24

10-31-2007, 09:44 PM

Today was my last day of suspension Woohoo.

Atm, sorry bro but it sucks, go rent a lot of movies and T.V. Seasons because you will get bored out of your mind the first 2 hours.

NBCLAX23

10-31-2007, 10:23 PM

well technically its battery assult is the threat to do harm or in this case spit on them. Well my vote would be to give a swift jab to the nose

thepalehorse

10-31-2007, 10:25 PM

three ways to solve this,
1- you suck it up and except that hes a prick and ignore it
2- beat him to pulp outside of school, punisher style
3- find some dirt on him and go on your own smear campaign, explotation is key.

if it was me i know in this new p.c, non violence world of ours that if you lay a hand on him then he will reap you of all of your money in court. so you play the game hes doing and just get somthing that you know will get him so pissed and angry that he will want to fight you. if hes got the nuts to do that then strike back in a sensible way.

Lax'N'Roll

10-31-2007, 10:32 PM

he already solved the problem read the posts

he got into a scuffle and got suspended for 3 days

hvlacrosse311

11-01-2007, 11:14 AM

Nope, spitting is worse. Think about it. You get spit on in the face by someone. You don't know what was in there mouth or whats in there blood (diseases), there bodily fluids are on your face.

I think there are more disrespectful things you can do to people. For one calling a black person the n-word, or making fun of a Jewish person about the Holocaust or cracking a joke about someones race in general. Ive had a person spit in my face but what they did before that was much more disrespectful to me, but i took care of that.

Spit is gross but ive seen worse.

goalie33fan

11-01-2007, 11:54 AM

I think there are more disrespectful things you can do to people. For one calling a black person the n-word, or making fun of a Jewish person about the Holocaust or cracking a joke about someones race in general. Ive had a person spit in my face but what they did before that was much more disrespectful to me, but i took care of that.

Spit is gross but ive seen worse.

Those are mostly only offensive to that race. Spitting is worse because no matter where you are in the world it gives the same message. For the most part, if you called a French person a n-word, they wont know what you are saying English or French, but they know what getting spit in the face means.

abomb

11-02-2007, 12:20 AM

Those are mostly only offensive to that race. Spitting is worse because no matter where you are in the world it gives the same message. For the most part, if you called a French person a n-word, they wont know what you are saying English or French, but they know what getting spit in the face means.

et contrare!

In some parts of Africa, its acceptable and encouraged even as a way to greet someone. For that is how Ace Ventura befriended the chieftain of an important tribe.

Tehb2

11-02-2007, 12:58 AM

Being suspended isn't so bad, your just missing school.

goalie33fan

11-02-2007, 07:38 AM

et contrare!

In some parts of Africa, its acceptable and encouraged even as a way to greet someone. For that is how Ace Ventura befriended the chieftain of an important tribe.

I always thought that was a joke.

cinc15

11-03-2007, 05:34 PM

cinc15

11-03-2007, 05:40 PM

personally I think you did the right thing. I'm not close with my sister, but if someone did something like that to her I'd crack that kid in the face with no questions asked.

completely agree

OwlsLax

11-03-2007, 08:00 PM

beat the living crap out of him

SwRLaX10D

11-03-2007, 10:08 PM

Well today wasn't so great. I didn't plan on fighting one of the kids and I was just gonna talk to him and stuff. I made the mistake of pushing this kid and he just like went off and tried to attack me. He didn't do much and he didn't even punch me but I got him once. Anyway, I got suspended for three days, my parents are pissed as hell about the picture, and those kids are gonna be in pretty big trouble.It was worth it.

It helps to have older friends or aqauintances. During one of the weeks my brother was home from college for Winter break last year, we and a few of his friends were out and at some party I'm getting stuff thrown at me.They were these drunk a-holes and I let it slide, so I just gave them the "WTF?" look. A few minutes later, a beer can hits the back of my head and whatever liquid was still in there spilled out. When I got up, they got up. Buuut, when my bro and his friends, who were rather tall and/or big, got up they sat themselves back down. I guess they must've saw the "USAFA" on his sweatshirt or something...

You should tell the dirtbag's parents about this...that'll hopefully get something done. But you gotta be there, incase he denies so you can object to his lies.

atm 1892

11-03-2007, 11:11 PM

You should tell the dirtbag's parents about this...that'll hopefully get something done. But you gotta be there, incase he denies so you can object to his lies.

I'm pretty sure they already know and I don't think he denied it. But anyway, he's apparently in pretty big trouble and the administration at my school was pretty serious about it and were threatening to press charges for sexual harassment and all that stuff.

On another note, my dad has been leaving hints that he wants me and my friends to kick the crap out of the other kids.

Enjoi LAX

11-03-2007, 11:18 PM

I'm pretty sure they already know and I don't think he denied it. But anyway, he's apparently in pretty big trouble and the administration at my school was pretty serious about it and were threatening to press charges for sexual harassment and all that stuff.

On another note, my dad has been leaving hints that he wants me and my friends to kick the crap out of the other kids.

Listen to your dad....