Girl Problem Megathread!

[<<RANGER>>]

Aahhh I listened to the girl's friends and I got screwed. But don't listen to me. I'm sure that you could get your doubles to give you some alone time...

[Stringer4Lax]

I really hate posting in this thread because most of the time I have no problems at all, with anyone.

But this girl i've like since 7th grade (i'm in the 10th now...should mention that 2 people use this account my brother and I) anyway, i have liked her forever it seems, but she's the kind of girl thats flirty with everyone, sending a bunch of false signals. I've been told by my Ex that she likes me like a brother...(I hate these words) but at the same time she seems like she really likes me. Now i've got to determine to ask her or not...(Main problem is she has a gay friend, hes actually gay not just saying this, that i think hates me a lot... so i'm wondering if that will kill my chances)

Thanks

[oaktonlax23]

Um...well ive never really had problems with girls ya know? but its just this one girl im so confused about. ya so i havent really known her that long like since fall? we met at my ex-gfs party and since then i talk to her pretty much every day in almost every class(we have almost the exact same schedual) and until now ive really liked as a friend, but lately ive really started to like her. Alright so enough background well my main problem is that like many girls she is sorta a flirt and she acts this way among like her best guy friends which is like me and my best friend. Ya so a week back my best friend comes up to me and is like yo i actually really like the girl and im like o cool dood. and im not sure if im willing to mess with our friendship for this chick cause were also neighbors and we chill almost everyday. but i really like this chick and like i was just let it go but lately me and the girl are really i guess clicking? and i started thinking that id really like to start going out with this girl. but i sucks cause my school is getting out in like 2 weeks so id have to make my move soon. also she wouldnt really b able to chill this summer because she is going to be at lax tournys all summer, but we re going up to the beach at the same week. but to top things of she just went to prom with her ex-bf and they had a great time aparently. so im just looking for advice.

Thanks

[rubeo990]

...

It is quite possible that you've hit the much-dreaded friend zone. That's what it sounds like.

Anyway, if you really value your friendship with her, let it be. There will be other girls who you'll want to ask out. It's a very rare thing you'll find a very close and valuable friend.

[middyman911]

^^^^^^
Just ask if its cool w/ him, if not then back off.

[oaktonlax23]

well things changed a little from yesterday lol but ya it turns out that im going to another school next year and repeating my soph year so.....does this help or hurt me? and apparently her ex-bf and her arent getting back togther so...help? lol
thanks

[QBYattackmen15]

alright so for SOME reason i like this girl that ive actually posted about before in this thread. i went a while without really liking her but we still talked. and now for some reason i like her again. i sorrrrrrta asked her out once and she said she didnt want a bf. which i sorta thought was true cause she hasnt had on in a long time. shes in 10th(so am i) and she hasnt had one since like...7th or 8th grade. i mean i can either one, go after her one more time or 2, try to just get over it. im not really sure. just wondering what you would do in this situation. Also like..i dunno shes just so amazing that its like i want her so bad that its hard for me to get over her. just looking for some help. Its liek for some reason for almost all these guys its like whoever they go after they end up getting but ti doesnt work that way for me.

[cheesehead]

i just got dumped by my girl, for a girl :sad: :banghead:. i gotta tell you that ruins your whole day . you know you're a terrible boyfriend when...
EDIT: feel free to lol
EDIT II: QBYattack i has the same problem, and when i do get her, this happens

[FlintHillLax#19]

ooo cheese head that is pretty bad lolz

[MastersD4rce]

oh damn cheese, thats rough. turned her gay, hope that never happens me!

[Lighning15]

i let them get ahead and then pull ahead at the end so they know you can win but your still making it fun for both by keeping it a close game

[cheesehead]

yeah i guess she would rather go to a clam bake than play with my dpole, if you know what i mean. but seriously, i'm thinkin of just giving up on dating for good. i rarely get a girl to go out with me (try once a school year MAYBE and if i'm very very lucky i gets a second date :hot:), and when i do it never works out. theres an ok sized list of stupid stuff i've been dumped for, i'd share it but im too lazy. anybody got any help. you can keep :rofl: if you want to :thumbsup:

[Lacr0sse15]

cheesehead - that sux. something similar happened to my friend. but the girl went out with another guy first for a few weeks. now she wants this other girl AND my firend at the same time...

anyway, my dilemma - so i like this girl in my history class. unfortunately, we didn't really start talking until recently and this was the last class i could talk to her before the summer ( i go to a smart person school every other day and i probably won't see her for the rest of the year unless i get lucky on monday ). the last day of school is tuesday. She is now grounded from EVERYTHING so i probably can't chill with her until late summer or next school year. i told her to get a pre-paid phone or use the home phone when no one else is home or awake to call people (me...) but I don't want to get her in more trouble or anything like that. Ideas? opinions?

[IEatWrapChecks]

Lacr0sse, Id say just call her via her housephone, not much else you can do.

My Problem-I was riding my bike to my local athleitic store, endurance sports, to grab some hockey tape. And on my way there(to the sripmallesk complex) these girls (who I have never seen before in my life) were like hey and nice shoes im geussing in a joking/harassment type fashion. So basically what I want to know is what to do when a situation such as this arises

[NHlax23]

IEATWrapChecks- Hit them in the face with a brick

[lebolax44]

wrap checks-
if you dont know the girls, then who really cares

[cheesehead]

say some thing back like nice rolls or nice muffin top, something to make them self concious about their looks. might not make them too happy but i don't really care much for the entire female population at the moment (see last page). also avoid riding a bike if you can, i naturally feel like a dbag while im riding mine, even in a bike race
p.s.-lovin the avatar

[<<RANGER>>]

Be like
"hey, did you ever hear about the big bad wolf?"

(They Answer no)

You:"Thats funny, the other little piggies did..."

[lids369]

here's my situation. I'm moving to a different state in 2 weeks and my friend, whom I have secretly liked for a long time wanted to hang out before I moved and she wanted to go to a movie, etc. Should I let her know how I feel? She likes this guy but he's going to a different school so she doesn't like him anymore (I hope/think)

[CtLaxin]

here's my situation. I'm moving to a different state in 2 weeks and my friend, whom I have secretly liked for a long time wanted to hang out before I moved and she wanted to go to a movie, etc. Should I let her know how I feel? She likes this guy but he's going to a different school so she doesn't like him anymore (I hope/think)

ha I say why not, you leaving in 2 weeks if it goes bad you wont have to see the girl. The only thing is be cautious and if it works out do not get connected to this girl

[BluejayBlitz9]

tell her how you feel...hope for the best

its all risk vs reward...

risk- she may not like you back, very akward once u move

reward - you have a beautiful gf and you two are closer than ever

i say go for it

[maveriklax1]

so... i like this girl alot.. and she just broke up with her boyfriend (had been dating for like a year and a half)
I'm just looking for some suggestions on what to do

[cheesehead]

ok here we go again...
-girl i like
-goin to a movie or something thursday
-not sure if it's a date or what
-should i tell her i like her?

[DTX_Goalie]

ok here we go again...
-girl i like
-goin to a movie or something thursday
-not sure if it's a date or what
-should i tell her i like her?

Dont tell till your there. And pull out the simple yawn and stretch. Or my personal favorite the slider. On the yawn and stretch she'll get it before you actually get your arm around her so if she leans toward you your good if she doesnt hit her in the face with a brick. Another good move is be like hey wanna count shoulders and start with your outside shoulder then move her outside one and leave it there.

[DTX_Goalie]

whatever just risk it dude

[laxobsesive359]

Lacr0sse, Id say just call her via her housephone, not much else you can do.

My Problem-I was riding my bike to my local athleitic store, endurance sports, to grab some hockey tape. And on my way there(to the sripmallesk complex) these girls (who I have never seen before in my life) were like hey and nice shoes im geussing in a joking/harassment type fashion. So basically what I want to know is what to do when a situation such as this arises

dude, if that happened to me then i'd play along. be like "yea i know their sweet arent they?" Just to turn the joke back on them

[laxman 9990]

just be like- sweet face

[hometownlax18]

DTX - personally love both of those, and if the girl likes u she'll prbly think its funny/cute, and if she doesn't u were gunna get shut down doing it so at least that way u can laugh about it later

cheesehead - if she wants to go to the movie w. u she prbly has at least some interest, unless ur goin w. a buncha other ppl so i say go for it w. DTX's advice

[wmaclax]

maveriklax- how long ago did she break up with him

[laxobsesive359]

two words: friend zone

[oviedolax]

what exactly is the friend zone? ive seen it being said in this thread like 1000 times but i dont know what it is

[Stringer4Lax]

No idea what the friend zone is..Tsk Tsk.

Its where a girl (that you like) only wants to be friends...It sucks, hard.

[oviedolax]

oh ok, thanks

[HeadHeartHustle]

Lacr0sse, Id say just call her via her housephone, not much else you can do.

My Problem-I was riding my bike to my local athleitic store, endurance sports, to grab some hockey tape. And on my way there(to the sripmallesk complex) these girls (who I have never seen before in my life) were like hey and nice shoes im geussing in a joking/harassment type fashion. So basically what I want to know is what to do when a situation such as this arises

say "Ya, i know. thanks" ride slowly away. then hopefully you see them again....if they were good looking.

or you could hit em in the face with a brick

[HVlaxa7]

I got a problem. (never thought i would actually use this thread, haha i just laughed at everyone else)

At the moment, i'm wheeling two chicks. One is interested in lacrosse, the other hates it. That should be a giveaway right there huh? No.
They both are cool but the one who likes lax is a little hotter. I know neither will ever talk to me again if they find out about each other. Definitely don't wanna give up either though.

I'm thinking dump the lax hater. But she will tell everyone (and all my friends hate her to begin with, like would rag on me sooo hard for even being with her in the first place(which they don't know)) So she'll tell everyone, and she will make up a story that somehow embarrasses me.


Should i keep em both and just slowly fade away from the lax hater?

Or keep em both, and then all of the sudden drop the lax-hater?
do as you chose but when/if they findout, your whole reputation will go down the drain

[HVlaxa7]

If you guys have ever been rejected do you ever talk to that girl again or do you find it too awkward.?

[chucktownattack]

I have a problem. I really like this chick but she kind of has something going on with my best friend. And she likes my personality and thinks I'm 'hot', but she won't go out with me. Then she expects me to help my best friend pick out clothes and stuff, and I'm thinking 'Why would I help him win you over?'. My question is: Is it legit to go out with this girl if she breaks up with my best friend? Also, is it wrong if I try to get her to go out with me while she's dating my friend?

[AlbanyPower25]

hey guys i have a problem

Ok so i have been best friends with girl since the beginning of the year. We are soo close, she comes over to hangout with me all the time, we talk about everything, and she is completly honest about everything with me. Some situations have happened where i have gone to a dance with a girl and at the dance my best friend gets all upset and says she wants to be with me and have me ditch the girl im with. My best friend always gets pissed off and jealous when im with other girls or hangout with them. But she always tells me we are just best friends. But i like her more than that but i havent told her yet. We are kinda going through a little rough patch cause she found out i hungout with this girl she doesnt like one day and my best friend has been upset about it and i have been trying to talk to her and things arent going well. Now my best friend is awesome she is really hot, very athletic, lacrosse, XC, and soccer, she does really well in school and her family is quite wealthy. I love my best friend more than just a best friend and im just worried if i tell her how i feel im gonna ruin what i have going on right now with her. So guys gimme some advice please

[THALAX]

or should I just say I want to be with her or I move on?


Do that. Unless you want to keep on dealing with her being non-decisive, thats your best choice. If she still says no then you just saved yourself a lot of time worrying about a girl that will only and always just be a friend.

[LacrosseDan]

delete please.

[mnlax9]

hey guys i have a problem

Ok so i have been best friends with girl since the beginning of the year. We are soo close, she comes over to hangout with me all the time, we talk about everything, and she is completly honest about everything with me. Some situations have happened where i have gone to a dance with a girl and at the dance my best friend gets all upset and says she wants to be with me and have me ditch the girl im with. My best friend always gets pissed off and jealous when im with other girls or hangout with them. But she always tells me we are just best friends. But i like her more than that but i havent told her yet. We are kinda going through a little rough patch cause she found out i hungout with this girl she doesnt like one day and my best friend has been upset about it and i have been trying to talk to her and things arent going well. Now my best friend is awesome she is really hot, very athletic, lacrosse, XC, and soccer, she does really well in school and her family is quite wealthy. I love my best friend more than just a best friend and im just worried if i tell her how i feel im gonna ruin what i have going on right now with her. So guys gimme some advice please



have you ever watched scrubs. John Micahel Dorian goes thorugh the same thing with Elliot in season 3 I believe and he goes for it and it pays off(well he does break up with her right away but ignore that)

All i am tryin to say is if you never tell her and you just keep being friends and not mentioning your "love" for her your just going to end up regretting it in the future


so go for it!!!!

[hometownlax18]

ok so I have a problem kind of like dirtysouth's

this girl who I have been friends with for a while started liking me, and at first I didn't really like her back but now thats its summer we've been hangin out alot more and I guess she sorta grew on me or something... so then theres this this other girl who I have kinda been speraticaly friends with (depending on if we had class together or not) and a couple days ago me and some of my friends ran into her and some of her friends at a park and hung out, so she was like we need to hangout more and she has started texting me alot and my friend told me she likes me, she is also conveniently bestfriends with my bestfriends girlfriend...... the 2nd girl is better looking but the 1st is easier to talk to so i dont know what to do??
a) juggle them both until it blows up in my face and I lose both
b)don't lead on the 2nd girl and go for the first girl
c)remain just friends with the 1st girl and go for the second girl

someone please help me...

[CSlax06]

I sure wish i had a girlfriend.

[Live4It]

ok so I have a problem kind of like dirtysouth's

this girl who I have been friends with for a while started liking me, and at first I didn't really like her back but now thats its summer we've been hangin out alot more and I guess she sorta grew on me or something... so then theres this this other girl who I have kinda been speraticaly friends with (depending on if we had class together or not) and a couple days ago me and some of my friends ran into her and some of her friends at a park and hung out, so she was like we need to hangout more and she has started texting me alot and my friend told me she likes me, she is also conveniently bestfriends with my bestfriends girlfriend...... the 2nd girl is better looking but the 1st is easier to talk to so i dont know what to do??
a) juggle them both until it blows up in my face and I lose both
b)don't lead on the 2nd girl and go for the first girl
c)remain just friends with the 1st girl and go for the second girl

someone please help me...
A. is not an option, it will, undoubtedly blow up in your face, I shouldn't even need to say why.
Don't lead either of them on, it's just morally wrong, so make sure you make a decision soon enough. I can't, nor am I gonna, tell you who exactly to choose, but;
Girl 1: Easier to talk to, I'd infer that you know her a little better than 2, since you hang out a lot, you're more comfortable around her, which I also inferred but is pretty obvious.
Girl 2: Better looking, friends with your friend's girlfriend, hang out sometimes.

It seems like girl 1 has more to offer, aside from looks and who her friends are, which shouldn't be factored in when choosing between two girls, not saying they shouldn't ever be factored in, because sometimes it's necessary, but when you've already found the girls, and you're just trying to choose, not so much. Now, if I were in this situation, unless one of the girls is straight up the most beautiful girl ever with a good personality, which doesn't apply to you since you're friends with both, I would narrow it down to these traits;
1. Personality
2. Loyalty/Maturity*
3. Comfort level
*(not overall maturity, not talking about the fun kind of immature)
Personality is a given anyways, but whose do you like better? By loyalty, I mean a girl who would stick with you, and isn't just going out with you to say she has a boyfriend, also a girl that wouldn't drop you in a second if another guy came along. I grouped with maturity since it goes along with it, I don't by any means, mean overall maturity, because I don't mind a girl that's immature in a fun way. I mean, like, I don't want to say "relationship" or "romantic" maturity, because I don't know how old you are, or how serious you are, but basically, if a girl is like a middle schooler when it comes to a boyfriend, if you understand what I mean, like just in it to have one, and trying to get with more guys than a cheap hooker in Vegas. Which is why I grouped it with loyalty.
I think comfort level is big, and it is possibly the one it comes down to. By comfort level I mean, if you are comfortable with this girl, comfortable with this girl being your girlfriend, and a girl you comfortable enough around to talk to about anything. When judging this one, don't just look if you're comfortable around her now, because if you're just getting to know someone you may not be, look it if you will be able to be comfortable around her, but in your case you've know both enough to be able to judge.

You're on your own with your final decision, I may not have helped at all, or maybe I did, but there's a chance all those traits are equal to you for both girls. So if you still can't chose, what I'm about to say sounds like a cliche, and not very straight, but follow your heart, you'll make the right choice.

And yes, another long useless post, I got up early and it's a rainy day.

[Chewie]

I have a problem. I really like this chick but she kind of has something going on with my best friend. And she likes my personality and thinks I'm 'hot', but she won't go out with me. Then she expects me to help my best friend pick out clothes and stuff, and I'm thinking 'Why would I help him win you over?'. My question is: Is it legit to go out with this girl if she breaks up with my best friend? Also, is it wrong if I try to get her to go out with me while she's dating my friend?

Two words bro, guy code. You can't take your best friends girl, thats just not right.

[Live4It]

I have a problem. I really like this chick but she kind of has something going on with my best friend. And she likes my personality and thinks I'm 'hot', but she won't go out with me. Then she expects me to help my best friend pick out clothes and stuff, and I'm thinking 'Why would I help him win you over?'. My question is: Is it legit to go out with this girl if she breaks up with my best friend? Also, is it wrong if I try to get her to go out with me while she's dating my friend?

So wrong, wrong, wrong...it couldn't be more wrong, just asking it is wrong, thinking it is wrong.

Now, for your first question, if she breaks up with him, you have to give it some time, don't jump right into it after your "best" friend gets dropped by this girl. Give it some time, if you see he's ok with it, and you like her/she likes you, I would talk to your friend first, and if he's ok with it, go for it. Now, if he breaks up with her, still talk to him to make sure it's cool, and go for it.
Some more advice, drop the jealousy thing, because judging by some of the things you said, if it progresses, you're liable to lose a best friend, and trust me, it's not worth it, a best friend will stick by you, and will be there for you whenever, and that's not something worth losing.

[LaX 4 LiF3]

i think i have a problem. my friend whose gonna be on my jv lax team has multiple chicks liking him and same w/ me. but he rele likes 1 of them and this one chick liked him and watched him play lax, saw me and liked me till i shaved my head. so she likes him again but he doesnt like her but likes her friend. would it be ok to ask her out if he likes her friend and not her, and would she take me w/ the same long hair that i had when she liked me?

[laxgoalie4492]

NEVER shave off the flow. ask her out if you like her but if all else fails. hit her in the face with a brick

[Live4It]

i think i have a problem. my friend whose gonna be on my jv lax team has multiple chicks liking him and same w/ me. but he rele likes 1 of them and this one chick liked him and watched him play lax, saw me and liked me till i shaved my head. so she likes him again but he doesnt like her but likes her friend. would it be ok to ask her out if he likes her friend and not her, and would she take me w/ the same long hair that i had when she liked me?
Heh?
So are you asking if it's ok to date a girl who is friends with a girl your friend likes? Because if so, uhhhh.....yea, as long as it isn't the same girl. And I don't know if she would take you with whatever hair, that's her, but if she liked you only for your hair, then......

And hitting chicks with bricks was a joke on here, it was funny at first, but then widely overused, now it's just being used by clueless people who see it, and don't realize it's not that funny anymore, but think it is.

[laxgoalie4492]

I am not saying it as a joke, I am serious. Hit her in the face with a brick. Just wrap it up in a sock and hide it behind your back when you ask her. You say clueless? I may not have had an account on here but i still read it and I was around when it first started up.

[LaX 4 LiF3]

but what happens when she says yes?

[Kr3wLaxUno]

Me too dude me too

[laxgoalie4492]

What do you mean? If she says yes then you got a girlfriend. And your friend shouldn't care because he likes her friend.

[Kr3wLaxUno]

Alright so i kinda have a problem with girls... I like girls and from what ive heard im not too bad looking (used to have some acne from wearing my helmet alot) but now thats almost all gone. I have social angziety disorder and i am trying to become a lot more social and break out of my "shell". I am friends with a lot of girls and from facebook i know that girls like me or at least think that i am hot but not social enough

So what Im trying to ask is how can i talk to girls and pick up on if they like me or not?

[laxgoalie4492]

Me too dude me too

You too what?

[destructivelax]

Alright so i kinda have a problem with girls... I like girls and from what ive heard im not too bad looking (used to have some acne from wearing my helmet alot) but now thats almost all gone. I have social angziety disorder and i am trying to become a lot more social and break out of my "shell". I am friends with a lot of girls and from facebook i know that girls like me or at least think that i am hot but not social enough

So what Im trying to ask is how can i talk to girls and pick up on if they like me or not?

you go up and say hi and have a conversation.

and then you hit her with a brick.

sorry had to.

[laxgoalie4492]

Alright so i kinda have a problem with girls... I like girls and from what ive heard im not too bad looking (used to have some acne from wearing my helmet alot) but now thats almost all gone. I have social angziety disorder and i am trying to become a lot more social and break out of my "shell". I am friends with a lot of girls and from facebook i know that girls like me or at least think that i am hot but not social enough

So what Im trying to ask is how can i talk to girls and pick up on if they like me or not?

I have never had something like this happen because I have always been very talkative and anything but shy. Just hang out with them a lot. If they flirt with you, flirt back. But make sure that person doesn't flirt with every other on of her guy friends or else you could be just another guy. If you really like someone just go for it. But make sure you build up a relationship between the two of you so that you aren't just another weekend boyfriend.


Edit:you go up and say hi and have a conversation.

and then you hit her with a brick.

sorry had to.
Haha, yes, if all else fails.

[laxgoalie4492]

if u hav 2 change yourself for a girl, then she likes the "fake" you and not the real person.

No, all relationships require compromise in which you have to be willing to give stuff up. Like activities(NEVER LACROSSE), friends(don't recommend), but usually just annoying habits.

[hometownlax18]

ya thanks Live4It that actually kinda helped, and I know that A isn't really an option especially because while their not like super close friends, their good enough friends that they'd figure it out quick and thanks dirtysouth i think I'm gunna go with you version of option C because thats what I was thinking anyway...I just in a way feel like I've kinda led on girl #1 even though I've never told her I want to be more than friends I've never really told her that I don't either so

[MNLAXGoalie]

Alright I gotta problem, me and my gf broke up and she made fun of me, yelled at me for having lacrosse which is everyday :banghead: And now thats its over she got all of her friends too call me a jerk and mean all of the above. And they said I was cheating because I was sitting next to a girl about like 3 inchs apart not touching or anything and under a huge blanket where there was 2 other guys there. I am really getting sick of the " God your such a jerk " "Your the meanest kid I know" just makes me wanna :chair: I don't know what to do to get rid of them, it feels like I can't focus on anything else. Help!

[laxgoalie4492]

Well lacrosse is life so you can't give it up. She broke up with you because of lacrosse right? Well she broke up with you so you did nothing wrong. And did you sit under the blanket with the girl while you were going out with her? I know many people that would and many that wouldn't consider that cheating. Personally I see now harm, especially if you weren't even touching. The girls that say you are the meanest kid probably have just been sucked into a mob mentality. If you ask them what you did wrong they would either lie or not tell you. They don't actually know if you did anything wrong, and sometimes they don't even think you did anything wrong they just do it because their friend does. It's ridiculous. Tell them that you did nothing wrong and if you really want, try and get back together with your old girlfriend, that would most likely stop the criticism. If all else fails, hit em in the face with a brick.

[LinkPlaysLax]

my advice to all, as SUBLIME has put it: "love the one you got"

you never know what youre missing until its gone. dont take anything for granted,

[Live4It]

my advice to all, as SUBLIME has put it: "love the one you got"

you never know what youre missing until its gone. dont take anything for granted,

Out of context, since Sublime was actually referring to life.....but either way, What I Got, definitely describes the right way to live.

[LinkPlaysLax]

haha well i think everyone got the idea. and sublime's whole way of life was the way to live. them and jack johnson had/have it the best.

[Kr3wLaxUno]

I know that this is irrevelant but Hey LinkPlaysLax, the Redwings already won the Stanley Cup

[LinkPlaysLax]

I know that this is irrevelant but Hey LinkPlaysLax, the Redwings already won the Stanley Cup

haha ive been waiting for someone to mention it. but its okay though, cuz the pens are still awesome!

[Kr3wLaxUno]

Naw the Wings are sick narsty :crazy:

[cheesehead]

Alright I gotta problem, me and my gf broke up and she made fun of me, yelled at me for having lacrosse which is everyday :banghead: And now thats its over she got all of her friends too call me a jerk and mean all of the above. And they said I was cheating because I was sitting next to a girl about like 3 inchs apart not touching or anything and under a huge blanket where there was 2 other guys there. I am really getting sick of the " God your such a jerk " "Your the meanest kid I know" just makes me wanna :chair: I don't know what to do to get rid of them, it feels like I can't focus on anything else. Help!
sounds like she wanted to end it, all she needed was an excuse. it's happened to me many times. she'll probably come crawling back to you and by then you should either A)get a new gf and give her the finger (best feeling ever) or B) might as well say this before anyone else.....hit her in the face with a brick. and KR3WLAX, i used to have the same problem and i know it's hard, you just gotta suck it up and try to start a conversation.
ps-my ex gf''s pregnant from her new boyfriend. haha karma in action :chuckle:.
ps part II-any tips to improve my new gf's clinically insane dad to not want to rip my larynx out every time he sees me?

[hometownlax18]

cheesehead, if he's a sports fan find out what sport he like and try talking to him about that...my old gf's dad absolutly hated me until i found out he was a huge packers fan n so am I so then i had something to say besides please dont kill me

[Stringer4Lax]

WOHOO, i gotta post in this again, same girl as last time.

Okay so i really like this girl, only thing is that she is SUPER flirty, so its hard to tell if she is serious or not. She texts my all day and i respond etc. She said she loves drummers, i'm a drummer. She loves lacrosse, i play lacrosse. We seem perfect but i dont want to ask then seem like an idiot when she does the love ya like a brother thing.

[navylax161]

WOHOO, i gotta post in this again, same girl as last time.

Okay so i really like this girl, only thing is that she is SUPER flirty, so its hard to tell if she is serious or not. She texts my all day and i respond etc. She said she loves drummers, i'm a drummer. She loves lacrosse, i play lacrosse. We seem perfect but i dont want to ask then seem like an idiot when she does the love ya like a brother thing.

if you really like her that much, just go for it. if she shoots you down, hopefully shes the type of person who will still be able to be friends with you. you have to push aside your fears of feeling like an idiot.

also, when you say super flirty, does that mean she flirts with other guys a lot too, or with you a lot?

[Stringer4Lax]

if you really like her that much, just go for it. if she shoots you down, hopefully shes the type of person who will still be able to be friends with you. you have to push aside your fears of feeling like an idiot.

also, when you say super flirty, does that mean she flirts with other guys a lot too, or with you a lot?

She flirts we me a ton, goes out of her way kinda. Texted me when i have not seen her in a month, stuff like that. I rarely get to see her though, she has a massive schedule (singing classes, acting classes stuff like that).

UPDATE: i asked her about her normal "love ya like a brother" line, her response was "only if you love my like a sister" is that good ?!?! Do it mean she likes me...UGH DRAMA

UPDATE: I sent her a song I wrote, she is pretty much in love with me at the moment.

[cheesehead]

ok new developement. we've gone on a couple of dates, i think ima ask her to be my girlfriend, i like her, and her friends say she thinks the same thing about me. so everythings gonna turn out ok this time right? wrong. guess what, i gets to compete with an older guy (approximately 8 years) who's she's already dated a few times :clap:. so what do you guys think? i think all i've got to do is beat him to the punch and everythings gonna be fine. sucky part about it though i was supposed to see her today but her gestapo dad wouldn't let her go out. :whyme: man i hate that guy. haha, i hope i'm keeping you all entertained

[lacrosse12]

i have a problem. i cant seem to find the perfect balance between girls and lacrosse. all thro middle school i used to get mad girls and then suck at lax. now the last year or two ive eben really realy concentrating on lacrosse, but the girls have stopped coming. what do i do

[Stringer4Lax]

Well, Darwin and I both say women. You could be amazing at lacrosse, but if ya dont pass on your genes, then what good does that do. I pick girls, find yourself a girl that will support you at lacrosse and your set, play for her. That will make you better. More heart= better player.

[hometownlax18]

ya dude find a girl that loves lax, this has worked for me as my old school most of the lax girls not that great but my new school theres a lotta fine tail that play lax so its great

[rubeo990]

Just a question for all the older guys with more experience in serious, longer-term relationships.

I'm in love with a girl I've been dating for 2, 3 months. I know that she admires me, that she respects me, that she's completely taken by me, but I want to tell her that I love her and I'm absolutely nerve-wracked by the possibility that she still hasn't quite reached that depth of feeling and that this will possibly doom our relationship.

So, in your experience, when is the right time to say it?

[Live4It]

Just a question for all the older guys with more experience in serious, longer-term relationships.

I'm in love with a girl I've been dating for 2, 3 months. I know that she admires me, that she respects me, that she's completely taken by me, but I want to tell her that I love her and I'm absolutely nerve-wracked by the possibility that she still hasn't quite reached that depth of feeling and that this will possibly doom our relationship.

So, in your experience, when is the right time to say it?

If you feel like it's too early, then be patient, you'll know when the time is right. More than likely it's not gonna be something that you'll have planned out, it will probably more spur of the moment. It may take more than just the few months you've been together though, you never know, it's hard to judge something like this from the outside....so this best I can give you is, as I said, you'll know when the time is right.

[cheesehead]

update:
it finally went right, her dad still hates me, but that's ok :roll:

[Stringer4Lax]

I solved my own problem....thanks guys. (no sarcasm)

[GoBucks]

update:
it finally went right, her dad still hates me, but that's ok :roll:

You know what you should do about her dad? Hit HIM in the face with a brick!!

I'M SO ORIGINAL!!! BWAHAHA!!!

But is there any particular reason he hates you? Or is he just overprotective? I can't see any reason to hate someone just out of the blue. I'm glad it turned out right. You shouldn't hit him with the brick though, it would probably ruin the relationship.

[cheesehead]

You know what you should do about her dad? Hit HIM in the face with a brick!!

I'M SO ORIGINAL!!! BWAHAHA!!!

But is there any particular reason he hates you? Or is he just overprotective? I can't see any reason to hate someone just out of the blue.
i think he's thinking of doing the same to me. either that or throw me screaming from a helicopter. i think he just he hates me because i'm his daughter's boyfriend. so yes, just very overprotective. i'm goin to her house tomorrow night for dinner then we're gonna watch a movie and he's probably gonna interrogate me the whole time. he probably has the polygraph all fired up.

[gt lax]

so i'm into this girl and i introduce her to my friends and she does the same for me, and my friend gets that look in his eye. he is one of those people that you can't see going out with anybody. he asks her out via text and she says maybe if he would ask her in person. so he does and now he doesn't talk to me and he doesn't relise that i introduced them. i am so mad i want to kill him i'm fine with him going out with her but he won't talk to me i mean bros before h***

[ItalyLaxer11]

so i'm into this girl and i introduce her to my friends and she does the same for me, and my friend gets that look in his eye. he is one of those people that you can't see going out with anybody. he asks her out via text and she says maybe if he would ask her in person. so he does and now he doesn't talk to me and he doesn't relise that i introduced them. i am so mad i want to kill him i'm fine with him going out with her but he won't talk to me i mean bros before h***

it seems like this relationship was doomed from the beginning with the whole text thing. so just wait it out and when they brake up, your friend will probably start talking to you. and as for the girl just make your intentions known on some level, and step up your game so none of your other friends can get in haha

[gt lax]

it seems like this relationship was doomed from the beginning with the whole text thing. so just wait it out and when they brake up, your friend will probably start talking to you. and as for the girl just make your intentions known on some level, and step up your game so none of your other friends can get in haha

perfect i figured something like that would happen thanks

[tomtom]

i think he's thinking of doing the same to me. either that or throw me screaming from a helicopter. i think he just he hates me because i'm his daughter's boyfriend. so yes, just very overprotective. i'm goin to her house tomorrow night for dinner then we're gonna watch a movie and he's probably gonna interrogate me the whole time. he probably has the polygraph all fired up.

Learn a few big words. Particularly helpful if they relate to theology, if he's religious at all. Some examples:

ecuminical
eschatology
hermeneutic (good to know either way)


Worked for me. Except, the guy is almost too friendly for my taste. Ya kinda wanna keep away from him after a while.

[tomtom]

Try volunteer organizations. Not only do you benefit a good cause, you'll meet like minded girls with similar interests (depending on what organization you go to) and you've got an instantly recognizable positive trait- you volunteer. One of my favorites (not for girls, just in general) is Habitat for Humanity.

Of course, don't do it just for girls. Do it to help out, but don't let the often overbearingly prevalent female volunteers be overlooked.

/philanthropist bend

[cheesehead]

update: went to her house, had dinner, things were going great. her dad started to seem like a nice guy. then me and her went into the sunroom to watch a movie and holy bratwurst, it was hell in there. minnesota viking couch, viking pillows, viking blanket, viking wallet, VIKING EVERYTHING! i knew there was something i didn't like about this guy. but anyways the dvd player stopped working and me and her dad were trying to get it going again and i said "it must not like the vikings either", which got a little laugh. so i think things might work out.

[Tehb2]

Learn a few big words. Particularly helpful if they relate to theology, if he's religious at all. Some examples:

ecuminical
eschatology
hermeneutic (good to know either way)


Worked for me. Except, the guy is almost too friendly for my taste. Ya kinda wanna keep away from him after a while.

I don't even think I could pronounce those right. What do they mean anyway, just out of curiosity?

[aviator]

haha, man. I do NOT miss this thread.

Thought I was gonna have to use it the other day, fixed the stuff though. Everythings great. Its funny looking back at my other posts in here, because the girl I'm with now, and have been for almost 5 months was just a friend all winter, we just ended up getting really close, and things took off.

So, due to my new-foudn happiness and "understanding" of females, keep in mind these pointers:

-If you are serious about her, suck up to her parents. Get them to like you (almost) as much as she does, if they trust you and like you, the more "alone time" you get with their daughter, the less awkward it is when she isn't around (lets say in the shower or bathroom or whatever) when you are there, and the more fun you will have. My girls parents buy me so much food, random stuff, and take me just about everywhere. They call before checking on us when we are in bed, they trust me and let me be alone with her alot. Recently, me and her got in a big fight, and I went back to square one with her parents. Apologies, time, and charm solves it. I was with her parents all day while she was at a tournament that I went to, and we worked it all out, get on their good sides. Be a friend to them and someone they want their girl to be with.

-if its meant to be, time will make it right

doesnt mean get lazy. But don't force things or make "now or never descisions" (only as a last resort). We took a 2 week break after a big fight, its all good now, we are back to normal just about, and all it took was (imo) we are right together, and time brought out stronger feelings

-make the girls friends jealous

be funny, witty, clever, awesome around them. She will feel so special and like be embarrased in a good way and really into it if all of her friends envy you. Get them to be like "oh your boyfriends great" she'll agree, and it will make her feel it more

-get a fair amount of control early

but don't be insecure or weird about it. Don't be a dick. Find a medium. Its a 2 way relationship, 50/50. Or if you want 60/40 :thumbsup:

-have fun

self explanatory

-DONT DONT DONT get caught up with a girlfriends friend, it will tear apart their friendship, make both sides feel bad, guilty, and angry with you, and pretty much loose all of them. Don't play girls. If you do, don't get caught.

-However, DO hook up your friends with hers

that way, you can have a bro and a ho, all at once

[dalaxmandef3]

Alright guys, this is my first time using this thread and probably not my last. I go out with this girl and she is great! I have no problems with her at all(except her parents won't let us do anything together...:hot:). But my problem is that one of my exes has befriended my girlfriend to get back with me. This girl is CRAZY I mean constantly jumping in our conversations and I've told her at least 50 times that I no longer have feelings for her. This girl is starting to bother my girl because she finally realized that she's trying to get back with me, but this girl will not give up! So my question is has this happened to you and if it has did you solve it and if so how?

[Run-DMC]

Alright heres what the situation entails. Your ex girlfriend wants you again, and your girlfriend is now friends with her. If you are extremely satisfied with your girlfriend at this point, do nothing with the other. Absolutely ignore her. This will annoy the PISS out of her. Girls hate to be ignored, and if you dont have any feelings for your ex, you should just leave her be. Have your girlfriend and you ignore her, and she will get bored, i promise dude.

And i dont know what to do about your parents not letting you do anything together, lol just chill in a group setting with some friends :)

[dalaxmandef3]

Alright heres what the situation entails. Your ex girlfriend wants you again, and your girlfriend is now friends with her. If you are extremely satisfied with your girlfriend at this point, do nothing with the other. Absolutely ignore her. This will annoy the PISS out of her. Girls hate to be ignored, and if you dont have any feelings for your ex, you should just leave her be. Have your girlfriend and you ignore her, and she will get bored, i promise dude.

And i dont know what to do about your parents not letting you do anything together, lol just chill in a group setting with some friends :)

Alright, thanks!

[Run-DMC]

Anytime dude.

If anyone ever figures out women, be sure to write a book on it.

[dalaxmandef3]

Anytime dude.

If anyone ever figures out women, be sure to write a book on it.

Alright so what happens if this chick confronts me in public? Because my girls parents absolutely love her and now they're telling my girl that she's coming next time we go out... The parents SUCKKKKK!

[hometownlax18]

wow dude i feel bad for you, its bad enough when your girl has annoying friends but if her parents love her its worse.... i really hate to tell you this but other than your ex just completly leaving on her own i don't see any good out come here

[GuitarnLax36]

How can you tell if a girl likes you? I like this girl but i dont know if she likes me or just as a friend. Any advice?

[dalaxmandef3]

How can you tell if a girl likes you? I like this girl but i dont know if she likes me or just as a friend. Any advice?

Don't be afraid if you really like her go for it if she says yes great if she says no... Hit her in the face with a brick!

[heelsfan1994]

Don't be afraid if you really like her go for it if she says yes great if she says no... Hit her in the face with a brick!

That's probably the best advice i've heard today!

[dalaxmandef3]

wow dude i feel bad for you, its bad enough when your girl has annoying friends but if her parents love her its worse.... i really hate to tell you this but other than your ex just completly leaving on her own i don't see any good out come here

Ok I just got back from my date with the friend tagging along. First thing that happens is my girl's parents pick me up and we go over to the mall where the psychotic friend meets us. I walk in the door talking to my girl and we're holding hands and the friend runs up and hugs me and this was no ordinary we're friends we haven't seen each other in awhile hug this hug sent me back a few feet and she didn't let go for like 10 seconds. So I pry her off of me and get next to my girl and to do this I have to keep changing the side I'm on because the ex keeps getting between us. So needless to say me and my girl completely and utterly ditch her. We hang out, walk around, went and saw Get Smart again(we both love it.) So my girl's mom calls telling us we have to come back so we go back really slow. We "get lost" a couple of times and when we get back the ex is crying her head off and my girl's mom is hugging her! So she yells at me and my girl and we won't be able to see each other for a week now. I mean literally zero contact no talking on the phone, no texting, no talking in person, and no talking on the computer... And on top of it all her mom told her she should consider breaking up with me(while I was in the damn car!) She says that she's too young to have a boyfriend... Uggggggggg:angry:

[DJ Death]

wow...this ex of yours, i must say, is a cunning and conniving genius in her own twisted way...

[dalaxmandef3]

wow...this ex of yours, i must say, is a cunning and conniving genius in her own twisted way...

In her own evil way I guess she is...

[canadianlaxer19]

get really mad at your ex. like meet up with her so she thinks maybe you will get back with her but just show her how much your new girlfriend means to you and get mad at her if she doesn't see what she is doing. maybe cry if you can get that upset, show her that this new girl means the world to you. she might start to understand after that...

[dalaxmandef3]

get really mad at your ex. like meet up with her so she thinks maybe you will get back with her but just show her how much your new girlfriend means to you and get mad at her if she doesn't see what she is doing. maybe cry if you can get that upset, show her that this new girl means the world to you. she might start to understand after that...

Ok, Thanks! This sounds like it might work, but I'm always up for more suggestions.

[GuitarnLax36]

Ok I just got back from my date with the friend tagging along. First thing that happens is my girl's parents pick me up and we go over to the mall where the psychotic friend meets us. I walk in the door talking to my girl and we're holding hands and the friend runs up and hugs me and this was no ordinary we're friends we haven't seen each other in awhile hug this hug sent me back a few feet and she didn't let go for like 10 seconds. So I pry her off of me and get next to my girl and to do this I have to keep changing the side I'm on because the ex keeps getting between us. So needless to say me and my girl completely and utterly ditch her. We hang out, walk around, went and saw Get Smart again(we both love it.) So my girl's mom calls telling us we have to come back so we go back really slow. We "get lost" a couple of times and when we get back the ex is crying her head off and my girl's mom is hugging her! So she yells at me and my girl and we won't be able to see each other for a week now. I mean literally zero contact no talking on the phone, no texting, no talking in person, and no talking on the computer... And on top of it all her mom told her she should consider breaking up with me(while I was in the damn car!) She says that she's too young to have a boyfriend... Uggggggggg:angry:

Dude your ex is crazy.

[cheesehead]

ok not really a problem, just something i'd like to share. me and my girlfriend have WAY too much in common, cute, yet somewhat creepy. we both like beef pot pies the best, we both don't like oreos because they leave black stuff on your teeth, the list goes on. we spent two hours trying to figure something out that was different between us with finding two or so differences (one might not count because it's a "biological" difference).just wondering if anybody else has experienced the same thing.

[dalaxmandef3]

Dude your ex is crazy.

Literally...

[Stringer4Lax]

ok not really a problem, just something i'd like to share. me and my girlfriend have WAY too much in common, cute, yet somewhat creepy. we both like beef pot pies the best, we both don't like oreos because they leave black stuff on your teeth, the list goes on. we spent two hours trying to figure something out that was different between us with finding two or so differences (one might not count because it's a "biological" difference).just wondering if anybody else has experienced the same thing.

Yea, me and my girl are a lot alike. Like the same movies, music, etc I think it helps, we always know what to do and stuff. making picking movies easy too.

[LAXinJD]

Ok I just got back from my date with the friend tagging along. First thing that happens is my girl's parents pick me up and we go over to the mall where the psychotic friend meets us. I walk in the door talking to my girl and we're holding hands and the friend runs up and hugs me and this was no ordinary we're friends we haven't seen each other in awhile hug this hug sent me back a few feet and she didn't let go for like 10 seconds. So I pry her off of me and get next to my girl and to do this I have to keep changing the side I'm on because the ex keeps getting between us. So needless to say me and my girl completely and utterly ditch her. We hang out, walk around, went and saw Get Smart again(we both love it.) So my girl's mom calls telling us we have to come back so we go back really slow. We "get lost" a couple of times and when we get back the ex is crying her head off and my girl's mom is hugging her! So she yells at me and my girl and we won't be able to see each other for a week now. I mean literally zero contact no talking on the phone, no texting, no talking in person, and no talking on the computer... And on top of it all her mom told her she should consider breaking up with me(while I was in the damn car!) She says that she's too young to have a boyfriend... Uggggggggg:angry:

Not to be a jerk or anything man, but your 13. You don't need to work this hard at a relationship. Heck, some will even argue you shouldn't even be in a relationship. And I understand your not fighting or anything with your girlfriend, but if her parents don't approve then that should be enough to end it. You got to respect the parents (even though it seems like a stupid thing to do most of the time). And as far as this ex goes, I am sorry that she is trying to do all that. She is definitely acting her age. But just sit her down and tell her how you feel. Try and be nice about it, but just tell her you don't like her in any romantic sense. It may seem like a jerk move to do, but it's better off for her to hear it from you then for you to try and blow her off (which I do understand why you would do that, just the better solution is to tell her). And don't worry about my advice to end it with your girl, at your age you'll have plenty of more time to have other girls to go out with and such, like I said, your only 13 so don't sweat it.

[dalaxmandef3]

Not to be a jerk or anything man, but your 13. You don't need to work this hard at a relationship. Heck, some will even argue you shouldn't even be in a relationship. And I understand your not fighting or anything with your girlfriend, but if her parents don't approve then that should be enough to end it. You got to respect the parents (even though it seems like a stupid thing to do most of the time). And as far as this ex goes, I am sorry that she is trying to do all that. She is definitely acting her age. But just sit her down and tell her how you feel. Try and be nice about it, but just tell her you don't like her in any romantic sense. It may seem like a jerk move to do, but it's better off for her to hear it from you then for you to try and blow her off (which I do understand why you would do that, just the better solution is to tell her). And don't worry about my advice to end it with your girl, at your age you'll have plenty of more time to have other girls to go out with and such, like I said, your only 13 so don't sweat it.

I see exactly where you are coming from, but being my stubborn little teenage self I'm not going to quit. Yes the ex is acting her age. I've sat down with her multiple times and told her, but she's yet to quit. I know I've still got a full life ahead of me, but I like this girl enough to keep it going.

[navylax161]

does the ex think by following you and pissing you off that youre going to come back?

[dalaxmandef3]

does the ex think by following you and pissing you off that youre going to come back?

I don not understand any of her logic. I think her idea is to break up me and my current girl and the get back with me...

[Stringer4Lax]

Quick question, i'm going out on a second date with a girl i really like, and she likes me. Is it ok if i put my arm around her? I dunno if its to early or what.

[cheesehead]

depends on whether or not she likes you or not. i put my arm around my current girlfriend on the second date, and it worked out fine. but it all depends. if all else fails, pull out the yawn move

[hometownlax18]

Stringer4lax -
how old are you??
if your over like 13 I'd say its definantly not to early, the arm is just like a spin off the hug
go for it, and if its working out keep going w. it

dalaxmandef3 -
dude that sux so much, i have a crazy ex but shes not this bad... i agree that you need to make it really obvious (painfully obvious) that you dont like her and she is making things between you worse, i hate to tell you this but at your age you really can't get by the parents so unless her parents do a complete 180 it might be better to just be friends with this girl for now and wait untill your older so you can easilier avoid the rents

[Stringer4Lax]

Stringer4lax -
how old are you??
if your over like 13 I'd say its definantly not to early, the arm is just like a spin off the hug
go for it, and if its working out keep going w. it


I'm 16 (however my older bro uses this profile to)
Thanks for the tip.

[cheesehead]

i'm 16 too and the second date worked for me, if you want to be safe you might want to wait one more

[hometownlax18]

ok, ya go for it

[Run-DMC]

Quick question, i'm going out on a second date with a girl i really like, and she likes me. Is it ok if i put my arm around her? I dunno if its to early or what.

Depends on where (the setting) your putting it around her. In public everyone will think you two are an item. In private its an intimate gesture.

[I <3 Lax]

a few girls like me but i dont like them. how do i tell them to get the hell away from me? beside hitting them with a brick of course.

[BluejayBlitz9]

I don not understand any of her logic. I think her idea is to break up me and my current girl and the get back with me...

she must be the spawn of satian!:evil:

[rubeo990]

Make them not like you by brushing them off.

[GuitarnLax36]

hey dalaxman if i were you and i had this ex I would tell her straight up that you dont have feelings for her and that you are with your girl and thats it. Just be honest even if it hurts her feelings she will eventually forgive you because she will realize that the way she feels for you is the way that you feel for your girl (although not as crazy) and she wouldnt want to get in the way of that if she is a nice person. Just an idea i mean you dont have to be mean about it just tell her staight up that shes your friend and that what you used to have is over period.

[Stringer4Lax]

Yay...a new problem.
so this girl i've been talking about (see previous posts) Said that she was not interested in a boyfriend over the summer...But she is dating me. We talk constantly and are together as many days a week as possible. But i asked about when school started, and she said she didn't even know about then. I have no idea what this means....

[GuitarnLax36]

Yay...a new problem.
so this girl i've been talking about (see previous posts) Said that she was not interested in a boyfriend over the summer...But she is dating me. We talk constantly and are together as many days a week as possible. But i asked about when school started, and she said she didn't even know about then. I have no idea what this means....

Ahh man i dont know but if I were you I wouldnt really worry about when the school year starts. Take things one step at a time eventually she will have a good answer for you. Shes worried maybe that you are taking things to fast or thinking to far ahead. Just try to live in the now. Idk if that will work but its an idea none the least. You dont have to take my advice either im just trying to give you some opinions and options.

[Stringer4Lax]

I had a feeling it might be the going to fast thing.
I'll be going to Missouri and she will be going to Acting camp on Friday, so that should give her some time to think about it, especially without us being able to talk. (No reception in middle of no where Missouri).

[GuitarnLax36]

yeah well there you go i mean let her know that she is really special to you and that you want this to last. Then maybe she will give you an answer thats real. But maybe not to soon but if i were you i would try to find some type of communication so that you can talk to her.

[Stringer4Lax]

yeah well there you go i mean let her know that she is really special to you and that you want this to last. Then maybe she will give you an answer thats real. But maybe not to soon but if i were you i would try to find some type of communication so that you can talk to her.

I know, i found out last time that in the middle of the lake there gets reception. So i may just hang out there and look really dumb. Fishing with phone in hand.

I've told her how much i like her Etc. And she has said the same to me. She calls herself an unconditional flirter though, so i have no idea when its true or not.

[GuitarnLax36]

haha well i mean i wouldnt stress over it to much if she likes you the way you like her than things will work out. I wouldnt really put pressure on her into giving you an answer. It shouldnt define your relationship youve still got like 2 months before school starts anyways so enjoy the summer with her and things will go from there.

[Stringer4Lax]

Thanks for the advice.

[GuitarnLax36]

hey np just wanted to give you some possible options. Im no Dr love or anything though haha

[Stringer4Lax]

Ha, I didn't wanna force anything, but i like her so much. (Known each other since 3rd grade). Her parents really like me also. So it seemed like a win win to me. Only time will tell.

[GuitarnLax36]

Oh yeah haha well i mean thats really good if the parents like you and its even better that youve known each other that long. Yeah i mean you guys shouldnt have any problems. Anyways she'll will hopefully end up realizing that a summer relationship doesn't have to change just cause school starts. It will be more public though but thats about it. Haha alright well im going offline now hope i helped and like i said before i am definatley not a love doctor. Im not to shabby with girls myself.

[GrimsleyLax00]

So, cutting to the chase, I liked this girl. I was planning on asking her out, (my best friend knew this) I had the phone in my hand, ready to call, when I get this IM from another friend asking "Did you know Phil and Melanie are going out?"
Me:......wha--?
Now, my friend, hardly liking her, knowing im going to ask her out, asks her first.... I don't know the point of this post. I'm just ranting i guess.

the same thing happend to me except he actually ask out the girl i like don my b day

[Rizzle]

Why do girls suck so much? Honestly, after the events that have occured to me over the past couple days, I see no purpose for women in the world. Ever. Not even reproduction.

[Run-DMC]

Rule 1) You will never figure out a woman

[Live4It]

Yay...a new problem.
so this girl i've been talking about (see previous posts) Said that she was not interested in a boyfriend over the summer...But she is dating me. We talk constantly and are together as many days a week as possible. But i asked about when school started, and she said she didn't even know about then. I have no idea what this means....

So she's dating you, but she's not your girlfriend, alright, so basically you guys are just friends, even though she is "dating you", so it's more like you're going out, same thing I guess. Either way, it's basically a stretched out interview that will, if all goes well, lead to the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. So pretty much, you guys are in a situation where, I shouldn't say you're "just friends", since you're obviously a few steps more than that, you both like each other, and know each other enough now, where the 'just dating' stage is almost not needed, but it is still possible to be in that interviewing stage, but you aren't like going on first, second, third dates, that's why I used the phrase 'going out' instead, so, what I mean by all that is, she could still be testing you, seeing if she wants to go farther with you....but here's the big part, there's a good chance that she's just afraid of commitment, she doesn't know if she's making the right choice by 'locking' you in, and she doesn't want to make that choice, and then end up losing you as a friend because she made the wrong decision. Am I stating the obvious, possibly. So give her time, but becareful, I don't want to be a buzz kill, but there's a chance that she doesn't have the same feelings for you that you have for her, she's just afraid to let you know because she doesn't want to hurt you.
But I'm not you, nor do I know you, so anything I've said, or say, may not be completely accurate.

So I'm not really proud of this post, because I may have stated the obvious, and I pretty much winged it, but I'm gonna some everything up with a nice analogy.
You're car shopping, and you think you found one you really like, you test drive it, and you take some time to think, you keep going back to the dealership to take another look at it. Now, you really like this car, but you don't want to commit to it, and then realize it's not your dream car after all, or have problems with it, so you keep stalling, because you just can't make the decision, but eventually, that time comes when you are convinced that is the car, so you buy it. But then there's the situation where you're at the dealership, and you have that really nice salesman, he helps you out and everything, you find a car you may or may not like, he thinks you like it and thinks it's perfect for you, so you test drive, and realize you don't like it, and there's nothing at else the dealership, so you feel bad for the salesman who just wasted all that time helping you, and you're not gonna say, "nah, I don't want this car or any others here, even though I wasted all your time and other potential sales" this is one of those times where you lie and say something like "Ok, it's nice, I'll be back a little later, or tomorrow", even though you have no intentions to go back, you just don't have the heart to let the guy down.
Was this part needed, absolutely not, but I threw it in because I thought it was a good example.

[Run-DMC]

Find some of your friends who are friends with her. Ask them to introduce you to her, or even to find out some more information about her. Maybe get a bunch of kids to go to the movies and have one of your friends to invite her.

My advice right now is to keep your distance (cause u said you dont wanna look like a creeper lol)until you have a chance to talk to her. What I did with my girlfriend (i didnt know her that well) is had one of my friends give me her phone number and then I started a conversation about school, then it changed subjects then we hung out and the rest is history :). lol.

[hometownlax18]

ya don't just show up one day to her and be like ya I know we don't know eachother but i think i like you, Like RunDMC said ease into it, try to slowly get to know her by hanging out with friends and get to know eachother

[Live4It]

this thread is becoming like my personal shrink...

So one of my girl friends says that shes willing to help me find a new girlfriend by setting me up with one of her friends. Now shes friends with this one girl who I think is kinda cute and I might have some common ground with her. Problem is I don't really know her that well other than I was in like 2 classes with her(but none this year). What should I do? I might like her, but I don't want to seem like some random creep if I get my friend to ask her if shes interested in me.

Edit: Im not even really sure if she is good friends with my friend. but i know they are friends for sure. but that could make it a little weird.

Disclaimer:Sorry if I repeat something that has been said, I just don't want to read everything.

Ok, first, don't have your friend ask her out, or if she's interested in you. I don't believe in doing stuff like that, in my experiences the relationships rarely work out. This girl's in some of your classes so you'll have opportunities to get to know her, but move in slowly and casually, don't go right into attempting to go out with her, start with a few casual conversations, and a couple compliments never hurt anyone. So just talk to her and get to know her through casual conversation and then you'll be able to take the wheel.
But you've gotta make sure you do it on your own, don't have your friend do anything, especially tell the girl you like her. I wouldn't even have anyone introduce you, now, if it's just impossible for you to do anything without being introduced then I guess you could, but I wouldn't recommend it. When you do it all on your own without even being introduced it shows more self confidence, you don't want to look like you're afraid to talk to her without help. And it's just all around better.

Alright, so I just realized it's summer, and I thought to myself, "Why does he have classes in the summer?" Then I went back and reread and you said that you've had classes with her, so some of my advice is flawed, since it maybe harder for you to get opportunities to see her and talk to her, but I think I got the idea across fairly well, so I'm gonna leave the rest up to you, and the other people that gave you advice, because it's probably better, since they can read, and I obviously can't.

[LaxMaxVince]

this thread is becoming like my personal shrink...

So one of my girl friends says that shes willing to help me find a new girlfriend by setting me up with one of her friends. Now shes friends with this one girl who I think is kinda cute and I might have some common ground with her. Problem is I don't really know her that well other than I was in like 2 classes with her(but none this year). What should I do? I might like her, but I don't want to seem like some random creep if I get my friend to ask her if shes interested in me.

Edit: Im not even really sure if she is good friends with my friend. but i know they are friends for sure. but that could make it a little weird.

I say get her number from your friend and call her up. Just try to sound calm and natural. Dont call and talk about random stuff. She'll know you have some sort of intention, so you should cut straight to the point. Just ask if she wants to go out sometime or hang out or whatever.

[Live4It]

I say get her number from your friend and call her up. Just try to sound calm and natural. Dont call and talk about random stuff. She'll know you have some sort of intention, so you should cut straight to the point. Just ask if she wants to go out sometime or hang out or whatever.

He doesn't know her well enough to just call her up, it would be awkward, and she wouldn't know how he got her number so it would be on the weird and creepy side. If he was to just ask her anything it would be best in person.

[cheesehead]

ok so my girlfriend is in hawaii for a few weeks, and when she comes back i want to surprise her with a welcome back present. problem is i'm terrible at picking out gifts. any suggestions? i want it to mean something so nothing like an automatic orange sqeezer or that kind of thing.

[hometownlax18]

call up one of her bestfriends, go to the mall with her, tell her how much money you have to spend, give her an extra $5 so she won't tell, sit back and let her pick out your girlfriend's present
this is a full proof, tested method that you can't go wrong with, if you have a sister same age or older you could also recruit her

[cheesehead]

i'll try that. i might have to improvise a little because one of her best friends is with her and the other is in missouri. thank you though, that's a great idea

[hometownlax18]

ya no problem, basically any girl with similar interests and/or taste will work fine

[Snizzle]

Hey guys, Im kind of new to posting lol, I mostly just browse the forums.
Ok, now to get to the point, Im not really good with girls. With girls, It'll be cool at first, then I'll say something stupied. Not really sure what Im trying to say, I guess Im just not good with girls. Any advice?
And, also, I've never kissed a girl (I'm going into 8th) and all my friends tesse me (there just playing).
Thanks,
Snizz

[GuitarnLax36]

dude im going into tenth so its all good.
Yes laugh now i dont care haha
Im working on it guys

[Bretmac]

cheese head sometihng basic like a teddy bear will do...it shows thought but its not like OMG I MISSED YOU SO MUCH DONT EVER LEAVE ME AGAIN...haha

[Live4It]

ok so my girlfriend is in hawaii for a few weeks, and when she comes back i want to surprise her with a welcome back present. problem is i'm terrible at picking out gifts. any suggestions? i want it to mean something so nothing like an automatic orange sqeezer or that kind of thing.

Here's what I would do, you aren't going to see her for three weeks, right? So instead of wasting the money on a useless gift do this, take her out, some kind of event, dinner, beach, concert, whatever she likes, I have a few more things in mind, but they'd be semi-local, I don't know about where you live, but make it a whole day and do a lot of things, make it enjoyable, and maybe a little romantic, after all, you haven't seen each other in a while, why not do something where you'll be together? And don't do it the day after she gets back, maybe two or three, just because I know I'd want a relaxing day in between. So this whole day of taking her out could be her welcome back present. That's just an idea, depending on the girl, it's what I would do.

[Live4It]

Hey guys, Im kind of new to posting lol, I mostly just browse the forums.
Ok, now to get to the point, Im not really good with girls. With girls, It'll be cool at first, then I'll say something stupied. Not really sure what Im trying to say, I guess Im just not good with girls. Any advice?
And, also, I've never kissed a girl (I'm going into 8th) and all my friends tesse me (there just playing).
Thanks,
Snizz

Go through and read some of this thread, I've posted so much about the basics, you've just gotta look.
What I can tell you right now, you'll hear it a lot: Confidence is the key, if you're not confident you look insecure and uncomfortable, you're nervous, you'll say stupid stuff (or nothing at all), and your chances with a lot of girls can decrease due to a lack of confidence. And that's what your problem is.

[cheesehead]

cheese head sometihng basic like a teddy bear will do...it shows thought but its not like OMG I MISSED YOU SO MUCH DONT EVER LEAVE ME AGAIN...haha
haha i took hometown's advice and asked one of her friends and that's exactly what she said. and live4it, it'll be hard to take her out for anything special because my area fails at life and there's nothing to do. so i was thinkin teddy bear and dinner and/or a movie?
ps- your advice is great, you should start charging cash for it

[navylax161]

Hey guys, Im kind of new to posting lol, I mostly just browse the forums.
Ok, now to get to the point, Im not really good with girls. With girls, It'll be cool at first, then I'll say something stupied. Not really sure what Im trying to say, I guess Im just not good with girls. Any advice?
And, also, I've never kissed a girl (I'm going into 8th) and all my friends tesse me (there just playing).
Thanks,
Snizz

what kind of stupid stuff do you say? just think before you say things when you talk to them. if it seems like it might turn her off from you just hold back. one thing that works when youre talking to girls is try to get them to talk about themselves. then you can sit back and relax. if your friends are popular with girls, maybe they could help you out meeting them, or even just put a good word in for you.

also dont worry about it. im same age, same situation haha. i was pretty antisocial with girls too until around april or march this year.

what Live4It wrote is also really, really good advice. he knows what hes talking about.

[hometownlax18]

ya dude diner and a movie sounds like a good idea, the teddy bear sounds like a good idea too, you might want to check out http://shop.vermontteddybear.com/
ive gotten bears there before and the girls absolutely loved them...good luck and let us know how it works out
Live4it - do you have a sister or something that helps you write this stuff because I've never heard a guy say stuff about girls that makes this much sense and is practical...you either have and amazing talent for figuring out women (please keep sharing) or you have secret help

[Run-DMC]

what kind of stupid stuff do you say? just think before you say things when you talk to them. if it seems like it might turn her off from you just hold back. one thing that works when youre talking to girls is try to get them to talk about themselves. then you can sit back and relax. if your friends are popular with girls, maybe they could help you out meeting them, or even just put a good word in for you.

also dont worry about it. im same age, same situation haha. i was pretty antisocial with girls too until around april or march this year.

what Live4It wrote is also really, really good advice. he knows what hes talking about.

Agreed. He is probably the best person to listen to.

[GrimsleyLax00]

Dan i agree with the shrink tthing

im going into high school and ive liked this girl for a while but she just broke up with my best friend like 2 weeks ago. what should i do?

[navylax161]

Dan i agree with the shrink tthing

im going into high school and ive liked this girl for a while but she just broke up with my best friend like 2 weeks ago. what should i do?

bros before hos. if its cool with your friend go ahead. but if not, back off. ask him.

also, jacked avatar much?

[GrimsleyLax00]

what u talking bout the avatar? and no he broke up with her and for us its more hos before bros sometimes

[navylax161]

what u talking bout the avatar? and no he broke up with her and for us its more hos before bros sometimes

somebody else on here whos been here a while (winnythesully) has that same avatar, and i just assumed because youre new you took it from him. must be from a website or something though. sorry about that

[GrimsleyLax00]

ok and i havent seen his. i just saw it as a pic my dad saved on my comp. but does any1 know what i shud do about the girl?

[navylax161]

well as long as 1) its cool with your friend, which i think it is, and 2) you think she might say yes, then ask her out. its really pretty obvious. try to get it done in person though, over the phone if you really cant.

[cheesehead]

somebody else on here whos been here a while (winnythesully) has that same avatar, and i just assumed because youre new you took it from him. must be from a website or something though. sorry about that
that's actually a picture i found on lax.com and put the obvious caption on it for the funny picture thread. i'm surprised anybody used it for an avatar :monkey:

[GrimsleyLax00]

but do u think i shud give her time after her nreak up and i forgot to mention the friendzone thing. if im pretty far in it do u think itll make a difference?

[navylax161]

maybe give it another week if she took it really hard. she might be over it by now. i dont know you or the girl so im not sure about the friend zone thing.

[HVlaxa7]

im done with it. haha

[jtothep213]

So here is my learning of the friends zone. There is no such thing as being too far inside it. Infact, if you get far enough in, there's your ticket. Let me share a story of just 2 days in age...haha.

So since I was about 12 there has been this girl I have been really good friends with. I have liked her off and on for 4 or so years (Im 17). I really thought I never had a chance because I thought I had entered the "friend zone" far too long ago. We had our short times where we both would hint to one another we wanted more but she would always back out last minute.

So, last week I went on a little trip. I went with a friends family. Her family also came along as friends. Each night, for the first two nights, we would just hang out like best friends would. But then...come night three things started changing. She began to scoot a little closer and touch a little more often. We coincidentally spent about 4 hours in the sleeper compartment of her boat. We didn't do anything, which didn't matter to me, cause it was progress.

The next day we were all sore and tired. She complained of a back ache. Push came to shove and she needed a massage, so I willingly worked out the kinks. Still though, there was little if anything to indicate I was considered anything more than a friend. The next day was the last day and I just knew something needed to be done about my feelings.

Later that night was the campfire where all 50 or so people there hung out and talked. After a while the two of us decided a walk to the beach would be fun. We did so and sat there. Someone came and told us to come back to camp so we did. This here puts us at about 10pm. Then everyone headed off on their own ways. It was her, my best friend, and I. We sat outside around the fire for another hour or so.

After this I had the feeling nothing was going to come of the trip. My friend went to bed and I was ready to tell her goodnight. But then it happened. She said, "This week has been awesome, and it has brought me some confusion." So, I take my seat again and we talk. First I warn her about what I am going to say might shock her.

After a while I had done it. I had told her how I felt about her. I was then hit by something unexpected. She said, "You feel like that about me? Really?" Of course I assured her I was being honest. After an hour she came out and told me that I had made her have the best week of her life in the longest time. I was shocked.

Now one issue did arise from all of this. She had a boyfriend. I asked her about this and we spent the next two hours talking about how she was just holding on to him so he wouldn't get hurt. She said she would take her time with him and eventually break up with him. Truth be told, she did it the next day when she got home. She called me and told me. She said, "I went into that thinking it would be the hardest thing I would have had to do up until now in my life. But, whenever he tried to change my mind all I had to do was think of you. I could say no to him because of you."

Now, unfortunately her ex is also one of my better friends. So, we aren't hooked up yet. I am helping him through his hard times until he gets past her. Once he does. My lady and I will make things public. it is risky, I don't deny that. But love ain't always easy.

The moral of the story is that the friend zone is just a BS way to rationalize why a girl wont like you. If you treat a girl well and respect her, no matter how long you've been friends, you can have a good, healthy relationship with her.

[canadianlaxer19]

i was really hoping you would tell us a hankypanky related story

haha but seriously thats awesome, im happy for you

[cheesehead]

ok so i went to the taxidermy store and got her a stuffed bear......i think she'll like it.

[GrimsleyLax00]

alright thanks man

[canadianlaxer19]

original story:ok so i have a long story for you people to gauge and i would just like some suggestions/insight on it...

i kind of know a girl through my friends. i go to school in one town and she goes to school in the next town over, so she plays on sports teams with some of my female friends from my school. i have talked with her only once before on facebook and it was just kind of joking back and forth, cant call it flirting. she was at my friends hockey game about a month or so ago and i was there as well, but i didnt see her so i didnt get a chance to see her/ talk to her in person. apparently she thought i was good looking (she saw me at the game) and from what i can see of her i think she is pretty good looking (facebook). tonight, i get home and randomly as i turn on my computer she starts talking to me on msn, but on my friends account (i dont have this girl on msn). we kind of hit it off, like it was fairly flirtatious but not to the point where she can be deemed a slut at all. later on she goes on a different friends msn and starts talking to me again... we talked for like an hour or two and it was pretty solid conversation. im getting pretty good vibes from her, she is telling me to go to her school and show the guys how to be, because they are all rude and sex crazed or whatever. and she kept saying i shouldve gone over to her friends house tonight (girl who goes to my school who is my friend and is her friend, so the middle man i guess you could call it). she asked me what im doing next weekend and keeps saying she wants to meet me and stuff.

so thats basically the story, im just concerned about meeting her now, im worried ive set the bar too high ahah. im not terrible at talking to girls, im actually pretty good, but something like this could be potentially awkward for the first time meeting in person. any suggestions on how to make the first meeting go smoothly? how legit does this sound to you guys?


new story:
sorry for this wall of text :(
*im going to call this girl rachel*
ok so i finally met rachel about a month ago, but it was literally a quick handshake and "hello", because i was in a rush. she came to my school to pick my friend up (same friend from before) and it was kind of awkward to be honest. i had to hop on the bus (it was the end of the day) because my bus leaves pretty promptly, but i got a text from my friend saying come outside because rachel wanted to see me. before i could reply i got another text from an unknown # (rachel) saying i should come outside she wants to talk to me and other stuff. i said i couldnt because i was on the bus, but we kept texting eachother for like 2-3 hours. she basically told me she has a boyfriend, but she doesnt like him as much as she once did because of how he treats her, and that she wanted to have some fun before she goes away to school this summer. obvious sexual hints and the like were dropped. so we talked on and off for the summer so far, she would text me saying "omg i wish i was with you right now instead of him" and things close to that, but then things would turn around and she wouldnt text me for a while, and when she did it wouldnt be flirty or anything. so after one cycle (im going to call these ups and downs cycles for obvious reasons) i asked her why she didnt text me as much and how her relationship was. she told me she had a long chat with her boyfriend and they worked things out, etc. and this happened about 3 times, lasting for a couple days for each cycle. finally, one saturday night, it was my bestfriends birthday and i was waiting at my door for my friends to come pick me up, we were going out to celebrate, and i get a text from rachel saying "what are you doing tonight? can we please get together? i need to be with you right now, PLEASE. please can we get together tonight?" i was really shocked and didnt know what would cause this sort of reaction, but i was pleased with it. i wanted to hang out with her because i think shes attractive and she hints to me occasionally at doing naughty things. so i told her to hold her horses, that i was going out for a couple hours but if she wanted to do something around 9 or 10 i could probably swing it. so throughout dinner im getting texts about when,where,etc we are going to hangout and i was getting pretty irritated with it, because i was trying to enjoy my pals birthday as best as i could. so i finally get away around 11 and i text her saying "ok i can do something now, where do you want to meet?" and she says "oh nevermind, im tired, another time" and this really deflated me. she really took away from my night with the constant texts and distracting me like that. i bought a pack of cigarettes and smoked about 4 cigs i was so rattled by this, and i am totally anti- smoking. i was totally shaken up by this. so the next day i get a text from my friend (the middle man) saying that last night she had to console rachel because she broke up with her boyfriend and rachel wanted me to be there for her. i felt kind of bad i couldnt be there for her, but i was half way out the door when she wanted me, so whatever. time went on and i talked to rachel about her break up and she said it was confusing and her boyfriend wouldnt take no for an answer. one night she texts me as shes fighting with him (i guess she was on the computer or texting him too) saying how stupid he is and how he doesnt get it that she wants to break up with him. i tried to give her advice and make her feel better but she never responded. a few days later she said she was going back out with him:banghead: and that it was really weird. i just kind of stayed away from her after that... but i was talking to the middle man about a week ago about going to see batman, and it turned out that she and rachel wanted to come. so that happened, it was fine and rachel was cool, nothing happened (i went with a big group of friends to the movie so i dont think it wouldve been very classy to do anything with all of them around lol) but she wanted me to go see her soccer game the next day, and she wanted to hang out this coming weekend and stuff.
Now im sorry but i felt i had to give a really detailed description of all of this for you guys who are willing to help me to understand the nature of this beast. She is starting to hint heavily again at sex and i really dont know what to do anymore. i think shes cool, very attractive but she obviously has problems dealing with guys/boyfriends, and something tells me i might not be her only side project this summer. shes really sneaky i think and might be trying to wheel me plus another guy or two, i really dont know what to do anymore. should i continue this madness or just give up?

[Live4It]

My best advice, let her go....don't waste your time waiting for her, because she's almost playing you, leading you on, she may not be doing it intentionally, but she obviously is, if she really wanted you, and her boyfriend treated her as bad as you said, she wouldn't have gone back out with him again. And if you think she's got other guys..... So basically, don't wait for her, because she probably wouldn't wait for you. But if the time comes, and she gets her problems straight, loses the other guy(s), and you still like her, and she likes you, give it a chance, but what I'm trying to get across is don't waste your time waiting for her, and don't stress over her....she's definitely not worth picking up smoking over, that's disgusting.

And another small bit of advice...never tell a girl to "hold their horses", actually scratch that, never say that at all....ever.

[Live4It]

ok, i need you california guys(or anyone else ) to help me get selena gomez's cell number. haha. seriously though. and please dont take this as being creepy. i am a 14 year old boy for gods sake. lol

Is she like an actress? Dude, try your best not to fall for her too hard....
Have a normal crush like I had when I was 14/15, I still remember when I first liked this girl, she was a sophomore, I was a freshman....the rest is history.

I was gonna say something about attainable crushes, but I'd rather go with the idea that any unmarried/(single) girl is attainable. Just know if your crush is worth it.....do you really want this girl, or do you just like the way she looks on tv?

[Run-DMC]

^^lol i think he might have gotten it?

[Live4It]

^^lol i think he might have gotten it?

You think he may have gotten what? The number?

The number. I though he may have mentioned that he got it or maybe someone else had said they hung out with Selena Gomez and HVLaxa started drooling and wanted the number lol. Not sure though.
More power to him if he got it, but I'm going with your second theory.

[Run-DMC]

The number. I though he may have mentioned that he got it or maybe someone else had said they hung out with Selena Gomez and HVLaxa started drooling and wanted the number lol. Not sure though.

[canadianlaxer19]

My best advice, let her go....don't waste your time waiting for her, because she's almost playing you, leading you on, she may not be doing it intentionally, but she obviously is, if she really wanted you, and her boyfriend treated her as bad as you said, she wouldn't have gone back out with him again. And if you think she's got other guys..... So basically, don't wait for her, because she probably wouldn't wait for you. But if the time comes, and she gets her problems straight, loses the other guy(s), and you still like her, and she likes you, give it a chance, but what I'm trying to get across is don't waste your time waiting for her, and don't stress over her....she's definitely not worth picking up smoking over, that's disgusting.

And another small bit of advice...never tell a girl to "hold their horses", actually scratch that, never say that at all....ever.

yeah, i am going to stop persuing this. thanks for the advice, Live4It. and lol @ holding horses. i dont think i actually said "hold your horses", i just wrote it down in my summary because it was quicker than what i actually said to her, which was something to the same effect.

[Run-DMC]

More power to him if he got it, but I'm going with your second theory.

I believe that was the case, the second theory.

[HVlaxa7]

The number. I though he may have mentioned that he got it or maybe someone else had said they hung out with Selena Gomez and HVLaxa started drooling and wanted the number lol. Not sure though.

Dude what are you talking about. ha

[Run-DMC]

Lol Im not sure anymore :P

[HVlaxa7]

haha ok. did you think i got the number? because i actually.......ehh nevermind......

[Run-DMC]

Ha I wasnt sure. That'd be SO tight though. Did you?

[HVlaxa7]

haha maybe......

[Run-DMC]

WELL it'd still be cool if you got it...or if you DID GET IT

[HVlaxa7]

WELL it'd still be cool if you got it...or if you DID GET IT

ill tell you right now. the second half of that^^ is right.

[Run-DMC]

You. are. now. my. ultimate. hero.

[HVlaxa7]

You. are. now. my. ultimate. hero.

haha.. sweet. lol

[Run-DMC]

She is defiantly a new Disney crush

[laxer6]

Who's Selena Gomez?

[Run-DMC]

Shes a Disney Channel actor. Wizards of Waverly Place. And Hvlaxa's avy.

[HVlaxa7]

Wizards of Waverly Place.

a.k.a greatest show on earth

[Run-DMC]

My sister a