Girls are confusing sigh

[AHSmiddie]

My girlfriend just dumped me for the 5th time. I don't know what im doing wrong. I mean i talk her, i hang out with her, but she never lasts longer then like 2 weeks. I guess im just asking for input, like what do you guys do, seccessful relationships and all, what keeps them going. I like this girl alot and i want to have a seccessful relationship. Everytime she has dumped me it was because she "didn't want a boyfriend". Thats understandable but why did she keep going out with me for 5 times! I mean i guess some of it is my fault for always going back to her but I really like her and i just can't stop going after her. And girls i want you to post more then anyone on this because you might know where she is coming from.

[xSURFERx]

i wouldnt even bother going bk put with her dude, i have been with my girl for about 4 years now to me it sounds like you doing evrything right, forget her

[zak]

Go for friends with benefits. She says she doesnt want a bf but she obviously likes you. So tap that. Frequently.

[BuschBeer89]

maybe she doesn't know what she wants, but 5 times, sounds to me like you come off as too needy.

[AHSmiddie]

too needy!!! im the least needy person! haha i just like her ALOT! i dont really know how to explain it

[monmlax]

it's like seinfeld said you need to do detective work to find out whats wrong with girls they will never tell you outright. what i usually do if i am having a problems is tell them strait up how i am feeling, and i am not a girl, so you might want to find out from some of them, ot talk to her friends too

[LCNlaxman]

she's the problem. you seem to be making all the right moves but there is something wrong with her. try to forget about her, she's not worth it any more. trust me, a whole bunch of my friends (both guy and girl actually) do this often. i deal with it all the time.

[anjang86]

if this happens and you like her a lot, then the problem is that you guys were just meant to be friends.

She realizes this and breaks up with you every time because she knows that getting into a real relationship breaks up the friendship that you guys have in the first place.

[livin4lax09]

5 times is 4 too many. Leave her and don't look back. Relationships don't really work after the 1st time.

[V-cut]

"shame on you if you fool me once, shame on me if you fool me twice."

you had it happen 4 times before, what did you think would happen?

[Fartman]

good riddance... getting dumped 5 times isn't cool... send that girl packin

[V-cut]

if she already dumped him, how do you assume he does that?

[midman17]

you should just keep on lookin forward (look for other women)

five :dummy: , come on after the second I would definitly look for another girl but if I really liked her after the third and then it becomes stupid.

[SDPirate]

dude i just got done with a girl like that. i know exactly how you feel. like you still care but its like she doesnt. just say forget it and maybe stay friends. seriously forget her and look for a new girl maybe one of her freinds. i know it hurts cuz im goin threw this to

[SheepShank]

Is this the only girl you know? I mean 5 times goodness, there are plenty of fish in the sea. I'm not saying randomly choose but look for a new girl that you have similar intrests with or something, because obivously it isn't going to work out with this girl.

[senor_k]

Stop being so emo. Suck it up and eat it. In a way it's the perfect crime.

[BuschBeer89]

Is this really the chick you're are going to spend ur life with? or does she have amazing put out, or what? Why are so you emotionally attached to her?

[RockStar]

Part of your problem is that you're complaining about your situation on a message board (WHERE NO ONE CARES).

What you should be doing right about now is sleeping with all of her friends, and figuring out new ways to be mean to her.

Either that, or (better) forget about her and get on with your life......5 times, Jesus, buddy.....it ain't going to work for the long term, and I'm surprised it took you past the second dumping to figure that out!

I guess if you can handle it emotionally, you can keep banging her until she finds a new guy or you find a new girl. Once that happens though, MOVE ON FOR GOOD!

[AHSmiddie]

yous guys are prolly right i should just move on. But every time she breaks up with me she tells me how much she loves me, and its hard to say no because i feel the same way. She just says that she doesnt "need" a boyfriend. I understand not wanting one but not needing one, what does that mean?! and we are friends with benifits when we arent going out, but i want more than that.

[TheKOB]

what does that mean?!

Lesbian my lad...lesbian. She'll grow up, play women's rugby, and move to Vermont

[Lacrosstitute]

Lesbian my lad...lesbian. She'll grow up, play women's rugby, and move to Vermont

Then burn all her bras and put on some hiking boots. Just get rid of her man. What's wrong with friends with benefits?

[senor_k]

And don't forget lots of plaid flannel. And not a razor in sight.

[AHSmiddie]

She isnt a lesbo. well i mean she might be, but thats gross because i dated her!! 5 TIMES! does anyone really have anything important to say, i mean i know you guys are having fun i do the same thing, but anything else besides "leave her"?

[GeorgiaMiddie2]

based on my experience with girls, "i just dont need a bf right now" is one of their favorites. translation: " i really dont like you as much as i say i do, but i want to put you down easy." if you guys are breakin up 5 times, whatever you two have is obviously fake and you're both just pretending there's somethin there. just stay friends and have fun hangin out every once in a while. some of my ex-gf's are some of my best friends now. and you'll prob be the same ith her if you just let it go.

[AHSmiddie]

i think she really does like me, because like everyday she tells me she loves me. and i dont really wanna go back out with her because im pretty sure i know whats going to happen. she keeps telling me to wait for her to "be ready" and i dont really want to. we already tried a "break" between the 4th and 5th relationship but i guess it wasnt long enough or somthing but ya know as soon as she see's me rock some people on the lacrosse feild she'll be beging me to take her back! haha

[roughrider]

Welcome to the world buddy, girls sole purpose in life is to suck the joy and money out of your life and tease you with sex

[SDPirate]

yous guys are prolly right i should just move on. But every time she breaks up with me she tells me how much she loves me, and its hard to say no because i feel the same way. She just says that she doesnt "need" a boyfriend. I understand not wanting one but not needing one, what does that mean?! and we are friends with benifits when we arent going out, but i want more than that.


wow im in the exact same position as you. except i was only dumped once. yea it is weird i feel for ya.

[AHSmiddie]

how do i get this taken off my ex is making a huge deal about ppl she doesnt know and ppl i barly know, knowing about our "personal life"??? please take this off

nevermind dont take it off, she can hold her inablities to herself

[RockStar]

She isnt a lesbo. well i mean she might be, but thats gross because i dated her!!.....

Not gross at all.....if it's true, it's something to be very proud of.

Dude, you RUINED HER FOR ALL OTHER MEN!
:worship: :naughty:

[V-cut]

...was each of these five times serious relationships or getting wasted at a party and thought it would be cool if you got back together? then after th hang-over wore off she realized why she dumped you in the first place?

just a wonderin about the whole scenario gig.

[AHSmiddie]

each time was a "serious" relationship if you wanna call it that. but after the 3rd relationship i kinda stoped taking them seriously because i figured it wouldnt work. but i still put alot of effort in them but i guess i just knew it wasnt going to work

[big beans]

You need to learn how to eat that snatch. If you can eat a mean snatch then girls will like you more. And if she dumped you 5 times she ain't worth the effort unless she's poopin out gold bricks on the hour or something, but I doubt thats the case.
Bottom line, a wise man once said: The best way to get over one girl is to get under another.

[Dan]

I sometimes have my own troubles. I recommend playing some lacrosse. I had the best practice ever today, and it took my mind off of everything. It was wonderful. I was so happy for two full hours. I couldn't believe it. Lacrosse can really captivate my mind, and it will do wonders for you.

[shooter]

alrught this thread is called girls are confusing, and usually i will be the first to agree with you, but after the 4th time, there should be nothing confusing about it, she will dump you again. what kind of timeframe we lookin at here, from the 1st to last dumping, weeks (hope not), months or years

[cloo24]

be mean to her girls love what they cna't have...don't be overly mean just in a kidding way it always works

[anjang86]

hard to get ALWAYS works

[AHSmiddie]

alrught this thread is called girls are confusing, and usually i will be the first to agree with you, but after the 4th time, there should be nothing confusing about it, she will dump you again. what kind of timeframe we lookin at here, from the 1st to last dumping, weeks (hope not), months or years


do you really want to know the time frame?!?! well the last to relationships lasted 4 days. asked out on monday and she dumped me on thursday (for both the 4th time and the 5th time) yeah she was talkin about how this relationship was going to last (the 5th time) but i guess not

[AHSmiddie]

ive gotten over her now so thanks for all the stuff and telling me to let her go b/c i did haha

[anjang86]

How much u wanna bet you go back?

[AHSmiddie]

actually she already begged for me back... and i was like no. i think im doing pretty good, haha. it also helps that her best friend is there for ME! haha

[SoBe546]

personally if it was my girlfriend i would forget her, if u have ot kepp the relationship over again all the time it's not wothit and she seems like she doesn't even like u, so basically, scew that *****