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Gee-Unit17
04-13-2005, 07:47 PM
Yes this another girl problem thread, and yes im sorry lol, but i am really confused and I NEED HELP! First let me give the whole situation...I found out these two girls REALLY liked me this past weekend(and i like them too) and then yesterday when we got back to school i realized i'd have to choose between them. Now all this happened from the begining of the day until lunch. Then right after lunch during 5th period i was talking to one of my firends, who is this one girls best friend, and she was saying that "Lo"(as we will call her)likes me too...again.

The lowdown between me and Lo is that we used to go out a while back and then we broke up(kind of my fault). And it wasnt until just about a month ago that I realized i still had feelings for Lo when i saw her with another guy and I realized i couldnt have her, it drove me crazy. Then like two weeks ago Lo had to dump this guy because her parents made her. During this whole time me and Lo were really good friends (or so i think...).

So after my friend told me that Lo liked me, it was obvious to me that i would pick her. Then during sixth period one of the other two girls friends told me that Lo actually hated me. SO last night I had to ask Lo if it was true that she hated me and she denied it and yes i believed her. SO i asked her if it was true that she liked me and she said "ya i realized it this weekend and i guess it stuck around a little bit longer than i expected" So i told her that yeah i liked her too and that shes the next contestant on the Levi show lol. So i kinda went through all of today with alot of the girls hating me because i chose the girl who hadn't been all over me. And Lo didnt seem like she hated me at all, it seemed wuite the opposite. Now during 6th period of today I heard somebody say that Lo said last week"I hate levi hes so immature and nasty" Now that one hit me deep because if she told two people she hated me maybe she does. I really felt/feel betrayed, its really painful to have a "friend" who doesnt even have the guts to tell u that she hates u. But why would she say that she liked me if that was the case? I was talking this over with a friend and she was saying that she might just want to "be in the spotlight" or she just wants to be able to say "ya im with levi". Ugh i really just need help, I'm gonna ask her tommorow if this is true because i think ill be able to spot the truth if she says it to my face.

Now as i see it im gonna ask her tommorow what she thinks, but I have a few choices im failed with.
i could...
A)Stick with Lo and ask her out
B)Screw Lo and go with Brit
C)Just stay out of the whole scene in genral

What should i do?

OutBurst
04-13-2005, 07:54 PM
Uhh, when was Brit ever mentioned?

gitrdone
04-13-2005, 07:57 PM
If you can't choose go for this. Choose one things like there looks, who is more outgoing(if you like that in a girl) or who is nicer.

titanslax
04-13-2005, 08:00 PM
This is one of the more complicated scenes of dating. I would say, screw the girls and concentrate on lax..but ofcourse your not going to do that because who dseont love ladies? What i say you do is, stay with this Lo girl, and while your sticking wit her, get some backround information about this whole 'hating you thing'. Once you find out the truth, EITHER
Option A: dump her a$$
Option B: Stick with her if all the rumors are fake.
(or the crowd pleaser) Option C: Stick with the girl, and cheat on her.

Gee-Unit17
04-13-2005, 08:19 PM
hahha ya sry about that outburt britt is one of the other two girls. Oh yeah and titan my two mottos are Bros before Hos, and Balls before Dolls(meaning sports lol)

SDPirate
04-13-2005, 09:09 PM
that was the most confusing thing ive ever read...
im going with titan's option b.

"i got 99 problems but a "girl" aint one."

laxfolife24
04-13-2005, 09:16 PM
one thing that you have to remember is that girls talk. girls that aren't friend with Lo and dont want to go out with her are going to tell you things and hope that you believe them. i would trust in what lo is saying and if you truly have feelings for her and it isn't just jealousy or anything i would go with her. you didn't talk about brit much so i cant really help you with that. but in the end no matter what it will probably all blow up in your face anyway. so unless you have genuine feelings i would stay out of the whole situation unitl you have had time to think and things have cooled down.

roughrider
04-13-2005, 09:25 PM
All these girl threads only give me 1 idea for a solution. Go gay. It has to be easier than dealing with girls.

SDPirate
04-13-2005, 09:27 PM
who gave rough rider permission to post about being gay?

laxkeepermem
04-13-2005, 09:38 PM
wellll buddy normally id say stick w/ lo...b/c she's prollie the one telling the truth (you cant really completely trust a girl's friends), but since two people said it...i think your idea of confronting lo in person seems like a good idea. unless shes a really good, sneaky little actress, you'd prollie be able to see if she's telling the truth. but really...if you like her that much (and that much more than brit), why should you care what other people say? you'll find out the truth sooner or later...just hope that its the truth u wanna hear.
--mary

xSURFERx
04-14-2005, 06:17 PM
i would stay out of the situation because it sounds like if u do go out with them it will b a stupid boreing short relathionship......if u have to ask witch one you should choose, then neither of them are probally that great or worth ur time

waxon
04-14-2005, 07:48 PM
how old are you?

AXL
04-14-2005, 08:02 PM
omg why is everyone saying get out of the whole thing. dude....bro...hook up with all three before its too late. hottest first, ugliest last(incase the other 2 dont work out).

GCdorman40
04-14-2005, 08:07 PM
i'd either go owith brit or stay out of it. This Lo girl had to break up with a b/f because of her parents, and if you really have feelings for her and you go out with her, then have to break up because of parents that'd be really gay and really akward everytime you see her afterword. Also, not much was said about this brit girl so i can't really say if i would go with her or stay out of it, but my decision would be one of those 2

LiquidMercury16
04-15-2005, 04:53 PM
well let us know how it all goes, these girl problem threads have gotten interesting so I'd like to hear how this one ends up

Gee-Unit17
04-16-2005, 12:00 AM
lol k well i went with lo i actually just got back from the movies with her. lol i definetly think i made the right choice but damn its like a soap opera now! lol everyone was mad at me for choosing lo and the other girls are still stuck on me but ya i def made the right choice.

LiquidMercury16
04-16-2005, 03:11 PM
well whatever happens happens. This is why I choose all the girls and make no commitments to anyone. Makes life much more fun.

Gee-Unit17
04-16-2005, 07:35 PM
believe me ive tried not making a commitment, pisses girls off. Thats why me and lo didnt work out the first time is because i didnt want any commitment