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Diesel4958
10-17-2005, 05:21 PM
If I had a girl friend for my birthday all I would want is for her to be happy. But I don't have a gf. And to worsen it I find out that last night she hooked up with that senior i was talking about. So in turnI get really mad, and in the gym lift alot of weigh, so I'm happy, sad, mad, but most of all confused. This sucks. But back to the topic, lj I wouldn't get him jewelery because I know I'm at least really picky with what I wear and itd suck for you to spend a lot of money on sommething he doesn't like. I would go with something that he wold enjoy, you are the one that knows him best, or ask his fam and see what they say hes been wanting for a while, i think that'd be your best bet.
BTlaxripper
10-17-2005, 05:53 PM
Been talking with this girl for the longest time. Last year we had french class together and I made her laugh and we would flirt, even though she had a boyfriend.
Then she broke up with her boyfriend but I didn't really like her.
Then the first home football game of the year I saw her and gave her a huge hug (the kind where you pick them up) and we were playing with each other's hands and I had my arm around her, and I told her I had her number and she was like "well how come you enver called me over the summer??" so I gave her mine, asked her what she was doing that night, said her friend is having a party but she might not go because not many people were going.
So I called her that night, I really didn't want to go sleep at some weird girl's house so I asked her if she was going to her firends house to sleep over and she said, and I quote "only if you're coming". K, she wanted me to sleep with her (not with that connotation) at her friends house is waht I got from it = she wants to spend time with me.
So I didn't, we texted, called, talked in school etc etc etc. Then at homecoming I was like "O man I can't wait to see Pamela" my friend turns to me and says "I think she's here with joe" and my night. . . . went . . downhill.
Apparently she is going out with this kid I had a falling out with in freshmen year (senior now) and I've been trying to be cool with him but we aren't 100 percent straight. Anyways, her date was dancing with other girls, they were like seperated the entire night. Nevertheless all of my friends said they were going out.
And I couldn't bring myself to believe it. I couldn't.
And now i need some ideas.
LaxFlap07
10-17-2005, 06:28 PM
this is really buggin me!! this girl just moved here about 2 months ago and she arcoss the street from me, but this my frineds live next store to her. so anyways to the point, we are all friends and like she is sending everyone diff siginals, like one night we were just chillin at her house just me and her and we cuddlign and stuff, and then like the next day shes like all over this other kid, and it really weird casue i was the first one to get close to her and we told each other personal stuff ect.... but she is like all over me one day and then the next all over her neghibor but he sorta is together with this other girl and its madd werid... so i really have no clue what to do............
lacrossedude987
10-17-2005, 06:29 PM
this is really buggin me!! this girl just moved here about 2 months ago and she arcoss the street from me, but this my frineds live next store to her. so anyways to the point, we are all friends and like she is sending everyone diff siginals, like one night we were just chillin at her house just me and her and we cuddlign and stuff, and then like the next day shes like all over this other kid, and it really weird casue i was the first one to get close to her and we told each other personal stuff ect.... but she is like all over me one day and then the next all over her neghibor but he sorta is together with this other girl and its madd werid... so i really have no clue what to do............
shes a slut lol! :nofear:
swordsman
10-17-2005, 07:09 PM
Get her like a necklace or earrings.. something pretty. ask your mom/sister/etc before buying it...I get a feeling guys would have bad taste in jewelry...
and then a cute teddy bear holding a heart or something cheesy...she'll like that.
What should I get my boyfriendd.?
A naked photo
JK
A free pass with a hot girl at your school.
swordsman
10-17-2005, 07:15 PM
Does anyone else have multiple gfs?
lacrossedude987
10-17-2005, 07:15 PM
Does anyone else have multiple gfs?
Yes 3............
MinnetonkaLax
10-17-2005, 07:47 PM
i think i got u beat lacrossedude, yourstruly has 16
Diesel4958
10-17-2005, 09:01 PM
I have almost given up, BTlax if shes that easily swayed to another guy, shes probably not even worth it, especially if hes a goon. Something I have to realize, but can't.
lacrossedude987
10-17-2005, 09:13 PM
i think i got u beat lacrossedude, yourstruly has 16
:crying: ill go cry myself to sleep
SDPirate
10-17-2005, 11:13 PM
this is really buggin me!! this girl just moved here about 2 months ago and she arcoss the street from me, but this my frineds live next store to her. so anyways to the point, we are all friends and like she is sending everyone diff siginals, like one night we were just chillin at her house just me and her and we cuddlign and stuff, and then like the next day shes like all over this other kid, and it really weird casue i was the first one to get close to her and we told each other personal stuff ect.... but she is like all over me one day and then the next all over her neghibor but he sorta is together with this other girl and its madd werid... so i really have no clue what to do............
i hear english skills get ladies....
unta8
10-17-2005, 11:47 PM
i think i got u beat lacrossedude, yourstruly has 16
I hear up in minnesota they take females out on boats and get them naked.
MinnetonkaLax
10-18-2005, 11:34 AM
^^true story...^^ lol stupid vikings
SDPirate
10-18-2005, 10:59 PM
wow in minnesota? would u like freeze to death or something?
devillax57
10-18-2005, 11:38 PM
talk to her about it, tell her how you feel...wow you should have gone to that sleepover. You didnt have to sleep there, but if you snuck out and were there for a couple hours or so things could really have been different....im speaking from experience...like 2 weekends ago, it was a tent sleepover, but still...definitely worth it :thumbsup:
aussielax
10-19-2005, 01:26 AM
What should I get my boyfriendd.?
What does he like?
If we know what he is into then i we can make a recomendation.
ljlax
10-19-2005, 07:47 AM
What does he like?
If we know what he is into then i we can make a recomendation.
He surfs and runs crosse country/track.
He likes eating..and surfing basically.
MaKiMaKi13
10-19-2005, 09:18 AM
hmm how bout communication is the key to a successful relationship thats some pretty key advice for every1's problems lol
ShermanLax607
10-19-2005, 02:04 PM
this is really buggin me!! this girl just moved here about 2 months ago and she arcoss the street from me, but this my frineds live next store to her. so anyways to the point, we are all friends and like she is sending everyone diff siginals, like one night we were just chillin at her house just me and her and we cuddlign and stuff, and then like the next day shes like all over this other kid, and it really weird casue i was the first one to get close to her and we told each other personal stuff ect.... but she is like all over me one day and then the next all over her neghibor but he sorta is together with this other girl and its madd werid... so i really have no clue what to do............
hmm, well just because you 'cuddle and tell eachother person stuff' does not mean that you aer together, infact, many of my girl-friends and I do that....
It means nothing when it comes to bf-gf. For a BF GF you need to ask her out and kiss and do everything together, not just cuddle and talk
Diesel4958
10-19-2005, 11:09 PM
For the last three days, after the senior "used" the girl I like shes been really sad, her eyes always red from crying, never smiles, what should I do? Anything?
devillax57
10-19-2005, 11:30 PM
yeah, wow this is perfect for you...shes very sad and you pretty much have her on the rebound...tell her that you noticed she was upset and tell her that you guys should hang out and that it'll help her fell better...this is a VERY good chance for you
SDPirate
10-19-2005, 11:51 PM
He likes eating..and surfing basically.
well you just described almost every guy i know.
im gonna go with food. or a surf board.
or food on a surf board.
j/k go to a nice beach with him. like one up north like a surf trip. no. a surfing safari
ljlax
10-20-2005, 04:17 AM
well you just described almost every guy i know.
im gonna go with food. or a surf board.
or food on a surf board.
j/k go to a nice beach with him. like one up north like a surf trip. no. a surfing safari
too bad he's going on a surf trip with his friend on his bday..and im going snowboarding.
surf boards are SUPER expensive...
i'm not coughing up like several hundred dollars...YA RIGHT
edit...
it's 2 19 am.....SO TIRED...
beach2300
10-20-2005, 02:23 PM
Until she gains her confidence back and throws you to the side like nothing. Girls only use guys durring the rebound period to make them feel loved...ect. Be careful with this situation
Diesel4958
10-20-2005, 04:38 PM
I like devillax's scenario better, lol, I'll try it out...
RamblinWreck
10-20-2005, 04:57 PM
i dont know if this is worthy of being in this thread but my girlfriend is getting me somthing really nice for Xmas and stuff its supposably costing over 150$. and her birthday and Xmas are a day apart so i was thinking of getting her somthing really nice.. i know im setting myself up for idiotic responses but what should i get her? Don't get her a ring, according to your public profile you are 17 years old. Her parents will freak out and figure it's a promise ring. All other jewelry is fine.
If she is turning 17, get her 17 long stemmed red roses, and have them delivered. www.proflowers.com is a good site. Trust me on this. You'll be in like Flynn if you get her roses especially if you surprise her by having them delivered.
devillax57
10-20-2005, 06:48 PM
yeah go w/ me...actually ive never been the rebound kind of guy, but ive seen this work really well...like the two people have been dating for about two years now...so good luck w/ that
ljlax
10-20-2005, 07:06 PM
Don't get her a ring, according to your public profile you are 17 years old. Her parents will freak out and figure it's a promise ring. All other jewelry is fine.
If she is turning 17, get her 17 long stemmed red roses, and have them delivered. www.proflowers.com is a good site. Trust me on this. You'll be in like Flynn if you get her roses especially if you surprise her by having them delivered.
this here is a smart man..
ring could freak someone out...it may not, but don't risk it..
delivered roses? aw that'd be so cutee
Diesel4958
10-20-2005, 07:51 PM
Yea, I'll try on monday, we nearly have the same b-days, you are one day less than an entire year older than me, pretty sweet.
devillax57
10-20-2005, 08:25 PM
wait monday....why not ask her tomarrow and then hang out this weekend?...she might be back on her feet by monday... not saying that this is the only way you can get her, but there is a better chance to help her get back on her feet and then she will like you
moondog
10-20-2005, 08:50 PM
My girlfriend always gets urinary tract infections, and it seems like she can never walk. Maybe she shouldn't ask for it 6 times a day...
SDPirate
10-21-2005, 12:30 AM
lj i was joking bout the surfboard. im not a kook.
and moondog. maybe u should up her dosage to a square ten times and see if she gets better
Ewww, what?
So I've got hookups. See, in several weeks, I will be set up on a date. Score. However, I've never talked to the girl in my life. Meanwhile, I spent 30 minutes sitting on a trunk with a girl I liked almost all of last year, waiting for cops to come because some kids were screwing around by my house. Stupid kids. The cop never came. I wish it hadn't happened, because I'd be sleeping right now.
ViennaLAX16
10-21-2005, 08:17 AM
PLEASE PM ME I NEED HELP
we fight so much, but with in n hour we like bestfriends, and i like her som much. But two guys asked her out last week and she said no...
My girlfriend always gets urinary tract infections, and it seems like she can never walk. Maybe she shouldn't ask for it 6 times a day...
Maybe its time to put the viagra down then old man. JK. You are really old though. I bet your like 100 years old. Did you meet jesus?
lj- cook him a giant dinner. Nothings better than giant dinner. With a lot of food. Good food.
Bousk
10-21-2005, 12:56 PM
Alright up here in maine theres so many of um and i will explain them all for you guys help
*you got the ski bunnys( hottie that are really flirty (cheerlead eqivilent)
*you got the soccer girls (also hotties yet not as flirty and not as hot(hot jv cheerleaders)
*you got the basketball girls( some hotties most beastly with lots of acne(womans rugby players )
Lastly you got the girls lax players they can be either two thinks beautys with a stick or beasts with a ****
Diesel4958
10-21-2005, 01:14 PM
Devilax- The reason I'm saying Monday is because I don't have school on thurs or friday, teachers convention. And trust me I doubt she will b back on her feet by Monday, she is really sad.
freestylewalkin
10-21-2005, 02:16 PM
not really a girl problem but more like a friend whos extremely (bad word)in jealous of me because i can get girls and he cant...
this kid is like my brother, i even call his parents mom and dad, but everytime i have a girlfriend, he thinks its cool, and funny to say stuff about her, its really startin to piss me off, i could be dating jessica simpson and he would be like "dude, wtf, shes the ugliest peice of trash ever" thats how jealous this kid is. anything i could do to shut him up, besides talkin to him about it, bc ive tried and thats not workin
the girls you get might just be plain ugly :laugh: jk
devillax57
10-21-2005, 07:26 PM
oh im just saying that girls can pick themselves up after a weekend pretty easily...especially a long one, but you know the girl better than i do...and moondog...im sorry
yes 100th post
BioPro29
10-21-2005, 08:24 PM
Wow, we need a mod for this thread.
I nominate Zak(ljlax)
lax4life6
10-21-2005, 08:54 PM
Ewww, what?
So I've got hookups. See, in several weeks, I will be set up on a date. Score. However, I've never talked to the girl in my life. Meanwhile, I spent 30 minutes sitting on a trunk with a girl I liked almost all of last year, waiting for cops to come because some kids were screwing around by my house. Stupid kids. The cop never came. I wish it hadn't happened, because I'd be sleeping right now.
haha. i hate it when that happens. ive done this so many times when a friend needs someone for his gf's friend when they go to the movies. im also there to explain what teh movie was about so his dad doesnt get suspicious...........but it almost never woeks because i pretty much never watch the movie either.,.....except for a fw times when i was supposed to be with girls who were uh....whalelike. and yes i am really shallow.
dan for you i would just say try to get to know her before you go out on a date with her
SDPirate
10-22-2005, 12:28 PM
i kinda havea girl problem guys!
but not really. my ex that i dont talk to went eo on me and convinced her friend from bonita (other hs) that im a jerk. guy says he gonna pay me a visit. wow more proof that girls are drama. also laxrat if u know him im gonna need some info on this kid.
So many people "owe me visits."
My $.02: any guy who says something like that is just trying to sound tough and get in a girls pants. They never follow through because they need worry about sounding tough, not being tough. Thats pretty good, write that down.
Diesel4958
10-22-2005, 04:45 PM
It's better when one can do both, sound tough, and be tough. I would never tell someone that "I owed them a visit" I'd pay the visit in advance.
Being tough sucks. I'm a very nice boy. Yeah, I ought to get to know this girl. That's the plan. Just need to figure out how to implement it. On the other hand, um, BYU vs. Notre Dame is over. Totally. 83 yard interception return. Haha! I knew we were gonna lose. Driving, BAM! it's over. Stupid injuries on defense. This sucks.
pcoco11
10-22-2005, 05:21 PM
Kayla won't hang out with me.. because I don't talk to her in school? She's sooo Beaugeounnycuhoxy. Yeah, thats my own word. I'm creative.
Beaugeounnycuhoxy: (Adj.) Kayla; Soo undescribable; Beautiful, gorgeous, funny, cute, hot, sexy in one word.
Just wanted to let everybody know that.
Frankie Vallie - Can't take my eyes off of you
Justin Timberlake - Girlfriend
Justin Timberlake - Senorita
Justin Timberlake - Cry me a river..
Justin Timberlake - Rock your body
J.Giles Band - Love stinks
I just needed to get all that out.
laxleo25
10-22-2005, 05:29 PM
Ok i got a girl problem, theres this girl that i like (a lot) but im not sure if she likes me or just likes me as a friend. This girl is amazing everything i could want in a girl and i cant stop thinking about her. Shes a triplet and one of her sisters talks to me a lot but just as a friend. So i was wondering what should i do? Should i ask the sister for help(prob not right?)
pcoco11
10-22-2005, 05:35 PM
Ok i got a girl problem, theres this girl that i like (a lot) but im not sure if she likes me or just likes me as a friend. This girl is amazing everything i could want in a girl and i cant stop thinking about her. Shes a triplet and one of her sisters talks to me a lot but just as a friend. So i was wondering what should i do? Should i ask the sister for help(prob not right?)
Download all my songs.
I vote for talking to the girl you like. Flirt with her, ask her to hang out with you. :worship:
If you fail with one, there are still 2 more strikes! Wow, it's like an actual at-bat in baseball. Triplets! DING!
Diesel4958
10-22-2005, 10:29 PM
Raine (Because I refuse to call you Dan) - I never understood baseball. But I like the triplets idea.
-Pcoco11- I like your word, stupid reason why she wont hang out with you.
I swear I'm this close . . to telling the girl I like alot that lives three houses down from me how I really feel, and have felt about her the last year and change. Now I just need a few hours to go over every possible senario, what I'll say, and how to do it. Hmmmm, I've got my work cut out, there must be a better approach. I can't wimp out on monday. This post was more of a reflection post than anything.
Mang i tell the truth here;
Nice guys finish last.
Not caring hasnt worked either.
My advice to everyone in this thread: go for it. Its better than having not.
GBaschski
10-22-2005, 11:38 PM
Ewww, what?
So I've got hookups. See, in several weeks, I will be set up on a date. Score. However, I've never talked to the girl in my life. Meanwhile, I spent 30 minutes sitting on a trunk with a girl I liked almost all of last year, waiting for cops to come because some kids were screwing around by my house. Stupid kids. The cop never came. I wish it hadn't happened, because I'd be sleeping right now.
Careful with them blind dates...I just got back from one tonight...it was a freakin' disaster.
pcoco11
10-22-2005, 11:45 PM
-Pcoco11- I like your word, stupid reason why she wont hang out with you.
Ohh yeahh.. She has a boyfriend, but this is him.. :imparied: this is me.. :thumbsup:
Diesel4958
10-23-2005, 07:17 PM
thats what I'm thinking about, I'm thinking that I mind as well, because what could I lose? Not much, the worse that could happen is I'd get rejected and people would talk, so what. It's just saying what I feel thats the hard part, not he repracutions (sp).
pcoco11
10-23-2005, 07:54 PM
thats what I'm thinking about, I'm thinking that I mind as well, because what could I lose? Not much, the worse that could happen is I'd get rejected and people would talk, so what. It's just saying what I feel thats the hard part, not he repracutions (sp).
Write a poem.
Send her flowers.
:thumbsup:
ljlax
10-23-2005, 09:17 PM
Mang i tell the truth here;
Nice guys finish last.
Not caring hasnt worked either.
My advice to everyone in this thread: go for it. Its better than having not.
sad but probably true...
sorry for the nice guys out there...
if your a nice guy...call me..
Nice guys do all right in Utah, it's true. But I still get screwed a lot. I keep on liking the mean girls. Not anymore! I'm swearing them off. Only the neat, friendly, pretty ones. Yeah. Nice guys do get screwed, but in the end they get the best girls. Not the "hottest," but the best. I promise.
Mavido
10-23-2005, 09:34 PM
but in the end they get the best girls. Not the "hottest," but the best. I promise.
DAMN IT!!!!! I quit at being a nice guy from this point forward....
True, but im trying to get some before "the end." Im gonna not be nice anymore. LJ youre a loser. Utah sucks. Flowers and poems are for emo kids. And the seahorse is the most retarded mascot ive ever seen. Thats as far up as im scrolling.
ljlax
10-23-2005, 09:46 PM
WHY AM I A LOSER
YOU SUCK
I HOPE EVERY GIRL HATES YOU
Utah sucks. Flowers and poems are for emo kids. And the seahorse is the most retarded mascot ive ever seen. Thats as far up as im scrolling.
These things are all massively true. The seahorse team used to be my rival school. Now it's a dart. What's a dart? I dunno. We're Vikings. Hoo-wah! Hoo-wah! I love girls. Girls think I'm nice. They don't like me. Only the ones I don't like like me. Like this one girl I went on a bad date with.
devillax57
10-23-2005, 10:36 PM
haha Stefi he's working on his "bad boy" image...yeah that nice guy thing is true...i fall for the WORST girls possible...but now i am going for the nicer girls, well i think shes a nice girl...she might turn out to be bad...uh oh i better not have just jinxed it...wish me luck
ljlax
10-23-2005, 10:51 PM
Good luck? Who is it? Do I know who she is?
Bad Boys = bad....
devillax57
10-23-2005, 11:40 PM
no you dont...my school is messed up supposedly, well this is how it works
senior boys-good junior girls
junior boys-good sophomore girls
sophomore boys-good freshmen girls
senior girls and freshmen boys get screwed over kinda, but there are exceptions
so yeah its a sophomore
ljlax
10-24-2005, 08:23 AM
no you dont...my school is messed up supposedly, well this is how it works
senior boys-good junior girls
junior boys-good sophomore girls
sophomore boys-good freshmen girls
senior girls and freshmen boys get screwed over kinda, but there are exceptions
so yeah its a sophomore
It's like that at a lot of schools, but not EVERYONE...Well.. I know a few people that break that rule and I only know a few people soo...
I know one sophomore girl at your school...
WHY AM I A LOSER
YOU SUCK
I HOPE EVERY GIRL HATES YOU
..... lol i was kidding
CAPiTA139
10-24-2005, 04:12 PM
our schools like that too but the freshman guys and the sophmore guys share the freshman girls. I dont mean like the same girl tho lol
Diesel4958
10-24-2005, 05:15 PM
LJ- you aren't a loser
Zak- I'm done being nice too, wanna fight, why are you hating on the Seahorse? Like I said earlier I don't owe visits, I pay them in advance.
Dan - Don't even talk you used to be a REBEL haha.
DevilLax - you are right, I shouldn't of waited she feels better sort of, but i still talked to her and told her we should hang out, bany steps.
Zak again- I'm not emo.
devillax57
10-24-2005, 08:52 PM
i dont think your emo...i just think you missed a good opportunity, but ehh so what you can get her back...just dont be too strong, that will kill it right there
SDPirate
10-24-2005, 09:15 PM
LJ- you aren't a loser
Zak- I'm done being nice too, wanna fight, why are you hating on the Seahorse? Like I said earlier I don't owe visits, I pay them in advance.
Dan - Don't even talk you used to be a REBEL haha.
DevilLax - you are right, I shouldn't of waited she feels better sort of, but i still talked to her and told her we should hang out, bany steps.
Zak again- I'm not emo.
for the record. u just asked if he wanted to fight. why did u even ask first?
Hed answer that, but i broke all his fingers, and we all know the how typing with body parts is frowned upon.
Rebels kill your stupid glorified shrimp. Man, I botch it with girls all the time. However, with some I keep on stepping it up. With some. Like, I gelled my hair into a faux-hawk, and this girl was like, yes! I love it when guys do that! But I don't. People were like, WTH? and I was like, I'm trying to get to the six-foot mark. And a bunch of gal pals just got back from New York! I love when some of those girls come back. I taped Gilmore Girls for one of them. Can I just say, unabashedly, that I love that show? Like, I really do. So much. It's so good. Like, funny and clever with some of the most awesome dialogue ever. I also watch The Apprentice. Donald is powerful. Very manly. Yeah. Um, date this Saturday with one of the most awesome girls in the school.
devillax57
10-24-2005, 09:45 PM
Rebels kill your stupid glorified shrimp. Man, I botch it with girls all the time. However, with some I keep on stepping it up. With some. Like, I gelled my hair into a faux-hawk, and this girl was like, yes! I love it when guys do that! But I don't. People were like, WTH? and I was like, I'm trying to get to the six-foot mark. And a bunch of gal pals just got back from New York! I love when some of those girls come back. I taped Gilmore Girls for one of them. .
NO dont do the fake mohawk...if your gonna go all out...go all out
Diesel4958
10-24-2005, 10:03 PM
SD- what???
Zak - funny
Dan - at least we have a mascot, and I also watch Gilmore Girls, and a few other border line shows that I will not mention at this point in time.
At least our mascot doesn't suck. I watch Everwood too. Um, what? This is and will be my only faux-hawk ever. Normally I just shampoo and condition and let the hair do what it pleases. Very free-flowing. Yeah. But it was just for her. She asked nicely. So I did it. Because I'm a nice boy, you know?
Eh, i wont lie, ive watched about half of the greys anatomys. It happens. I hate the way my hair looks after i condition it. Its too free flowy.
Im also thinking i need to get some seahorses for my fish tank, for non mascot purposes that is.
Laxman3
10-25-2005, 04:17 PM
I've had a problem for a while now. I used to talk like crazy, but for some reason I have trouble talking to girls (and friends and lots of people). For some reason I don't know waht to talk about anymore. It's like I got a new brain put in me. Any heol on what t otalk about?
devillax57
10-25-2005, 05:02 PM
ive never had this problem, but usually just being loud and talking about your similar interests works...but dont be TOO loud...because that's annoying
Diesel4958
10-25-2005, 05:08 PM
Seahorses don't suck, we just are unique, yea that's the word, unique.
Zak - I watch greys anatomy too.
I use to gel and flip my hair, but not any more, I just let it down, It's also shorter.
Dan - yes we get it you are a nice boy, do you want cookie? jk.
Oh and back to the topic, I'm still trying with the girl I like.
devillax57
10-25-2005, 05:36 PM
is she going for anyone else...or is anyone else going for her?
ljlax
10-25-2005, 09:36 PM
SO...as you all may(or may not) know I have been with my boyfriend..since forever (6th grade...and we're in 11th now) anyway it's sorta like "blahhh." Like "bland" maybe? I don't know the word but it's so routine. We are both super busy and don't get to hang out a lot and even when we do it's just like "blahhh whatever..." I don't know if he realizes it or not...but I sort of doubt it. Anyway, what should I do? I mean what can I do to make our relationship less lame?
HRLAXER
10-25-2005, 10:03 PM
well the only bad thing about girls is that they give you like "mixed" messages. for example, my ex girlfriend (who hasnt spoken to me since she broke up with me about a year ago) asked me to dance twice at our homecoming. we talked a little bit but i really cant tell what she is thinking. i really dont know what to do..... but o well... i just ordered a titan classic and it should be here on the 28 which is friday.
(lacrosse>girls) ??? or ??? (girls>lacrosse)
ljlax
10-25-2005, 10:05 PM
lacrosse > everything......
she seems sort of koooky....
but seriously what should I do about my boyfriend?
HRLAXER
10-25-2005, 10:25 PM
it depends on what kind of guy he is. it sounds to me he is either tired from being busy, or he is getting tired of you.
ljlax
10-25-2005, 10:38 PM
it depends on what kind of guy he is. it sounds to me he is either tired from being busy, or he is getting tired of you.
But I don't think he thinks anything's wrong and I highly doubt he's tired of me..not to sound weird or anything but we have been together..FOREVER and he wouldn't just be like over it...even though that what is seems like, but it's proabbly just me...he's too oblivious to realize
SDPirate
10-25-2005, 11:15 PM
well u could do things the dave chapelle way or u can just find something new to do together
devillax57
10-26-2005, 07:27 AM
make him jealous in a non-cheating way...he'll get attached to you again and realize that hes been w/ you a long time...he just needs a wake up call i guess
ljlax
10-26-2005, 07:31 AM
make him jealous in a non-cheating way...he'll get attached to you again and realize that hes been w/ you a long time...he just needs a wake up call i guess
Yeah..what does that mean?
MaKiMaKi13
10-26-2005, 02:42 PM
WTH kind of advice is it to make him jealous thats not good advice at all that could potentially lead to fights or somethin
i was thinkin maybe you and your boyfriend should go on like a weekend away together at like the beach or somethin or when winter actually comes go up to like a resort romantic dinner would probly also do it,just do somethin that you guys usually dont do together since relationships are supposed to constantly change otherwise you will get bored
LAcrosseRUS
10-26-2005, 02:49 PM
no you dont...my school is messed up supposedly, well this is how it works
senior boys-good junior girls
junior boys-good sophomore girls
sophomore boys-good freshmen girls
senior girls and freshmen boys get screwed over kinda, but there are exceptions
so yeah its a sophomore
holly god, that is exacctly like my school. I could not say it ny better way but it is the junior boys and freshmen girls that always go out. It sucks to be a freshmen guy,
Diesel4958
10-26-2005, 03:30 PM
devillax - It does not seem that she currently likes anyone, besides the guy she insert word here with last week, but i think that she realizes that that was stupid of her to do, and I don't think they will have anything together besides that one night.
WTH kind of advice is it to make him jealous thats not good advice at all that could potentially lead to fights or somethin
Good advice. Do you not worry as much what you look like in front of him anymore? Its nice to let your hair down, but make him remember what made him want you in the first place. So maybe no sweatpants and that t-shirt from disney world. Make him want you again. Suprise him with something too. Idont know if your the type to go to the beach for a weekend, big deal for you right? Just make him feel special by suprising him with something.
GBaschski
10-26-2005, 04:31 PM
It sucks to be a freshmen guy,
True dat. :whyme:
GBaschski
10-26-2005, 04:36 PM
Stefi- This has happened to me and a lot of guys I know. They think things are fine with their girl, then outta nowhere she starts acting like there is a huge problem with their relationship because he doesn't talk to her enough or something...and the guy is just like "Wtf?". So, I wouldn't worry about it too much...
And if it doesn't work out with that guy, you can always come on over here to Charlotte and maybe we can get together some time or something...y'know... :thumbsup:
navylax500
10-26-2005, 05:35 PM
SO...as you all may(or may not) know I have been with my boyfriend..since forever (6th grade...and we're in 11th now) anyway it's sorta like "blahhh." Like "bland" maybe? I don't know the word but it's so routine. We are both super busy and don't get to hang out a lot and even when we do it's just like "blahhh whatever..." I don't know if he realizes it or not...but I sort of doubt it. Anyway, what should I do? I mean what can I do to make our relationship less lame?
Kick him where it hurts just kidding but you should try to put a side everything and just hang with him the whole weekend
swordsman
10-26-2005, 07:51 PM
Porblem. Really hot popular chick. She talks to me once in a while. But she's got a bf. A migit football palyer. But he's popular and might have his friend's kick my but. What do I do?
How about dont mess with girls that a) dont like you and b) have boyfriends, regardless of football. Youre probably over analyzing the occassional times shes talked to you. Everyone does it, especially when they like the person talking to them, but for chirssakes she has a bf.
devillax57
10-27-2005, 12:35 AM
i dunno flirt w/ other guys or something...do something to make him notice you..haircut maybe?...sorry im not a girl so i wouldnt be able to tell you exactly what to do and yeah i think you may be overanalyzing...everything about this, just do something special..its fine
ljlax
10-27-2005, 07:43 AM
Good advice. Do you not worry as much what you look like in front of him anymore? Its nice to let your hair down, but make him remember what made him want you in the first place. So maybe no sweatpants and that t-shirt from disney world. Make him want you again. Suprise him with something too. Idont know if your the type to go to the beach for a weekend, big deal for you right? Just make him feel special by suprising him with something.
hmm..you're probably right, but I don't ever remember caring about what I looked like...so why start now?
Stefi- This has happened to me and a lot of guys I know. They think things are fine with their girl, then outta nowhere she starts acting like there is a huge problem with their relationship because he doesn't talk to her enough or something...and the guy is just like "Wtf?". So, I wouldn't worry about it too much...
And if it doesn't work out with that guy, you can always come on over here to Charlotte and maybe we can get together some time or something...y'know... :thumbsup:
haha that's totally me.
But I wasn't saying something was wrong or anything, but it's just lamee.
positive = we were talking about this weekend and some how it turned into something abuot how we never have time to hang out and he goes "yeah it BAD WORD sucks"
negativee = I have to help with homecoming crap all weekend and coach my middle school lacrosse team and volunteer for this other random thing and go to my SAT tutor...and he's working on the night of the dance....which i didnt want to go to anyway.
BTW I live a block and a half from the beach..so I don't know how exciting going to the beach is.
When I moved from Chicago in elementary school..my parents were deciding between Charlotte and La Jolla...weird huh
so why start now?
To show him that you want him to be happy and care? I dont know. It just sounded like something Dr.Phil would say.
Diesel4958
10-27-2005, 04:00 PM
Zak, are you a middle aged, bald, man who is a little chunky, and likes to give people adive? Dr.Zak, it fits, I am from now on referring to you as Dr. Zak.
swordsman
10-27-2005, 05:12 PM
Thanks Zak. I bet I would've come to tha same conclusion but I wasn't objective.
devillax57
10-27-2005, 05:26 PM
you should of never left...haha no wow its warm their all year long...im wearing a sweatshirt right now and can see my breath...I LOVE CHICAGO
OH YEAH guess who has a girl problem now???? i think this is my first. The girl i like and i both really know we like each other, but we are kind of taking everything slow...so on Monday out of nowhere i found out from my friend that a kid went up to the girl and said to her that he heard that her and I were gonna hook up this weekend...i never said that...so i dont know if that hurts my case...she seems fine though and im pretty sure that she's not taking it seriously...well we're hanging out on tomarrow...and im gonna have a talk w/ her...how should i approach this
PLEASE ANSWER SOON
Ghslongpole14
10-27-2005, 05:30 PM
Well, there is this one girl. Whenever I look at her, she does all these movements with her tongue and licking things, sucking on her fingers and pencils and ice cream and other long cylindrical objects, grabbing and caressing herself.
Is she trying to send me a message or something? What do you guys think this girl is saying?
SDPirate
10-27-2005, 05:40 PM
i think she is saying she enjoy eating foreign object. that could lead to poetentially harmful head. i would stay away.
ljlax
10-27-2005, 07:34 PM
you should of never left...haha no wow its warm their all year long...im wearing a sweatshirt right now and can see my breath...I LOVE CHICAGO
OH YEAH guess who has a girl problem now???? i think this is my first. The girl i like and i both really know we like each other, but we are kind of taking everything slow...so on Monday out of nowhere i found out from my friend that a kid went up to the girl and said to her that he heard that her and I were gonna hook up this weekend...i never said that...so i dont know if that hurts my case...she seems fine though and im pretty sure that she's not taking it seriously...well we're hanging out on tomarrow...and im gonna have a talk w/ her...how should i approach this
PLEASE ANSWER SOON
if you're taking it slow, you don't really need to "have a talk" just see where it goes I guess? You could say that you don't have any expectations and that you weren't like expecting to hook up...to make you look like a good guy...etc. you shouldn't be too worried?
devillax57
10-27-2005, 08:48 PM
yeah but that kind of sets the wrong tone...im just going to have a talk saying i didnt say that...she knows i didnt, but just to clear everything up...then maybe if im lucky that wont be just a rumor....yeah :agree:
ljlax
10-27-2005, 09:02 PM
yeah but that kind of sets the wrong tone...im just going to have a talk saying i didnt say that...she knows i didnt, but just to clear everything up...then maybe if im lucky that wont be just a rumor....yeah :agree:
HAHA I knew you were thinking that, and it's totally true..that would happen..
OK something weird..
I sit in the back of my AP psychology class next to Alex (my boyfriend) and we have the individual chair/desk things (you know what I'm talking about)..anyway it's really uncomfortable and like crowded..the wall..other people etc. anyway. Maybe last week Alex started sitting in the desk in front of him--the guy that usually sits there was absent. BUT now he sits there everyday. So he sits behind a girl that used to be obsessed with him and talks to her. I actually don't care that he's talking to her..I'm not like that, but he like doesn't talk to me in the class. Anyway, one of my best friends sits next to me..it's a guy..that Alex isn't friends with. I know shady, but we are like cousins..since we look alike, are super close, and everyone thinks we're related. ANYWAY. From a guys perspective..am I doing anything wrong by talking to another guy instead of Alex? He started it...it's just weird because we never see eachother and then in teh 2 classes we have together he doesn't talk to me...lameee?
I mean guys get jealous over stupid stuff. It happens. Is he the jealous type? Just make sure he knows that its HIM (alex) not Mr.Cousin/friend that youre all about. I dont know, pass him a cute note with pretty pictures and hearts and colors and ****. Why is this starting now after like 7 years or something? I mean is there soemthing else on top of this? It sounds like youre trying to make little stuff (OMG HE MOVED HIS SEAT) into something it isnt.
ljlax
10-27-2005, 11:56 PM
I mean guys get jealous over stupid stuff. It happens. Is he the jealous type? Just make sure he knows that its HIM (alex) not Mr.Cousin/friend that youre all about. I dont know, pass him a cute note with pretty pictures and hearts and colors and ****. Why is this starting now after like 7 years or something? I mean is there soemthing else on top of this? It sounds like youre trying to make little stuff (OMG HE MOVED HIS SEAT) into something it isnt.
I knowww..
my friend thinks we're in a "rut"
but think about it...if you could only SOMETIMES see your girlfriend for a couple hours a weekend..and never during the week woudlnt you want to talk to her in the one class you sit near her in?
well why did he moveee? i know it;s not a big deal.. but NO ONE ELSE HAS MOVED...WE HAVE ASSIGNED SEATS!
I'm not drawing some lame picture for him. I'm not much of a note writer. Why does he have the right to be jealous when he moved to sit farther from me and closer to a girl..that used to be OBSESSED with him....
YEAH
lame. he can pass me a darn note with hearts and sunshine all over it.
he can pass me a darn note with hearts and sunshine all over it.
haha
Oprah/Dr.Phil says;
Why does he have the right to be jealous when he moved to sit farther from me and closer to a girl..that used to be OBSESSED with him....
Men are stupid and have an urge to say "urgah woman mine, steak hungry, football beer."
Stop having problems and let me study Alexander II.
ljlax
10-28-2005, 12:44 AM
haha
Oprah/Dr.Phil says;
Men are stupid and have an urge to say "urgah woman mine, steak hungry, football beer."
Stop having problems and let me study Alexander II.
FINE..
lame?
then I won't do anything abuot this...and he can say something if HE thinks something's wrong..
Diesel4958
10-28-2005, 02:44 PM
No I say men hungry, whish girl was mine, want steak, lift weights... Get it straight Dr.Zak...
LaxGoalie28
10-28-2005, 06:03 PM
l like this girl but shes lesbian.
Diesel4958
10-28-2005, 08:17 PM
Hmmm, I think you are in a pickle my man.
NC-LACROSSE
10-28-2005, 08:33 PM
i got a problem i got a friend who i want to be more than friends with but im not sure if it will be weird or if i should jsut forget untill i see if ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!
devillax57
10-29-2005, 12:14 AM
uhh this could REALLY mess things up and afterwards you may not be able to be friends ever agian...ive seen it happen................BUT if you are really thinking about doing this you should just be watching a movie, and then start getting closer and put your arm around her...cheesy...but she'll know what's going on
HRLAXER
10-29-2005, 12:17 AM
o yeah going out with friends isnt always the best idea cuz usually they dont talk to you if/when they break up with you
Diesel4958
10-29-2005, 12:25 AM
Thats what I'm afraid of, I just gotta man up and do something, before my head explodes.
devillax57
10-29-2005, 12:33 AM
do it...its cheesy, but remember you are always going to be wondering "what if" if you dont do it...you know?
swordsman
10-29-2005, 01:43 PM
SD- what???
Zak - funny
Dan - at least we have a mascot, and I also watch Gilmore Girls, and a few other border line shows that I will not mention at this point in time.
Gilmore Girls is not border line. Raine lives in Utah so we'll have to excusse him.
Just Kidding. Just Kidding. Please don't Ban me. Just Kidding . Just Kidding.
devillax57
10-29-2005, 03:40 PM
wow yeah he is acting pretty weird..and no you are not doing anything wrong because he is doing the same...if he asks you about it say its nothing and that he is doing the same thing...but then you will know that he cares
ljlax
10-30-2005, 09:21 AM
wow yeah he is acting pretty weird..and no you are not doing anything wrong because he is doing the same...if he asks you about it say its nothing and that he is doing the same thing...but then you will know that he cares
wait, was this directed towards me?
Anyway we hung out Friday and it was sort of weird, but he said he thought so too. It's sort of lame because he didn't know why everything was weird and how to fix it, and he likes to blame it on the fact that we don't see eachother that much outside of school..or even in school.
Well at least you can talk about it being weird. Thats better than denying the whole problem. Try it his way, see if you can spend more time together.
ljlax
10-30-2005, 09:00 PM
Well at least you can talk about it being weird. Thats better than denying the whole problem. Try it his way, see if you can spend more time together.
yeah I know, like we were like just talking and I just like interrupted it and was like "yeahh...this is weird..." that's pretty much the only good thing now, that we are really comfortable around eachother and don't deny stuff like that..
We don't have time to hang out. One day he has work at night and I have lacrosse during the day or he has cross country and I have to help setup for Homecoming or I have youth and government and he has work...or somethinggg
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so one day jsut be like "freak homecoming setup, im spending time wtih boyfriend" and both of you ditch whatever you have. Im sure youll live if you miss blowing up balloons for one after noon. Priorities.
ljlax
10-30-2005, 10:19 PM
so one day jsut be like "freak homecoming setup, im spending time wtih boyfriend" and both of you ditch whatever you have. Im sure youll live if you miss blowing up balloons for one after noon. Priorities.
Yeah, and get kicked out of Mariners and not go to college? YEAH RIGHT
plus with some new info from friends etc...i've decided he is a..gosh I can't think of a word appropriate for TLF sooo use your imaginations kids.
For now...I'll stay pissed at him...
***ADVICE***Giving space
ignoring
or not realizing a problem is
BAD
most guys think it's a good idea, but you're much better off talking to her and not being a RETARD
Yeah, but being a retard is sooo much easier, plus you dont have to ever be wrong if you dont say anything at all!!!!
devillax57
10-31-2005, 05:09 PM
whoa...wow four years...its been a long time. Have you ever gotten in a fight w/ him like this before? Is this going to be the end of your relationship, or are you guys just mad at each other?
ljlax
10-31-2005, 06:41 PM
Yeah, but being a retard is sooo much easier, plus you dont have to ever be wrong if you dont say anything at all!!!!
BUT you're wrong for not saying anything...which makes you a crappppy boyfriend...whoa...wow four years...its been a long time. Have you ever gotten in a fight w/ him like this before? Is this going to be the end of your relationship, or are you guys just mad at each other?
Yes, we have "broken up" before...for like a week or two at a time.. a few times...
and I don't know if this is going to be the end of the relationship, but there's a lot of stuff and it's all starting to add up..if you know what I mean..not like cheating or lies or something, but just like our relationship isn't going anywhere and it's just ..well there's other stuff...nvm
devillax57
10-31-2005, 07:42 PM
ouchies crappy boyfriend...? umm if hes making you feel like crap then why dont you just dump him...it can be for a week like the last couple times because after that you know he is going to treat you better
ljlax
10-31-2005, 07:56 PM
It's dumb to break up for no reason and get back together.
So, I haven't talked to him since Friday when I went to get frozen yogurt with a friend where he works and get some free frozen yogurt...and that went badly.
and I haven't talked to him since..for a number of reasons..
One...I don't really want to because he's pissing me off
Two..he hasn't called
Three..he didn't talk to me at school today...we have 2 classes together...
loser? yes I think so
devillax57
10-31-2005, 08:04 PM
wow if hes making you so pissed off then just dump him...stop beating yourself up over a guy who treats you like crap
ljlax
10-31-2005, 08:18 PM
I'm not going to dump my boyfriend of over 4 1/2 years that quickly..I don't like rushing into decisions like that..because it has turned out badly before..
Honestly, why hasn't he callleddd?
devillax57
10-31-2005, 08:26 PM
no offense, because i dont know the kid, but hes acting like he doesnt care about it...honestly guys hate long phone calls...every one of them does...but you havent talked since friday?...yeah it seems like he could give two poops-from a readers stand point...i know in california people are more laid back...but still
ljlax
10-31-2005, 08:38 PM
no offense, because i dont know the kid, but hes acting like he doesnt care about it...honestly guys hate long phone calls...every one of them does...but you havent talked since friday?...yeah it seems like he could give two poops-from a readers stand point...i know in california people are more laid back...but still
Actually I talked to him Saturday..that's when I got frozen yogurt..oops typo..
anyway
seriously he's acting like he doesnt, and at this point I don't..when I know I should. I'm just over it..
I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks he's acting lameBecause you are annoying.
You two account for 25% of the posts in this thread. What does that say...?Just because I have no life..and brilliant advice doesn't mean that you have to make fun of me
:(
I went on a date this weekend. Good times. Um, I had really bad breath when I met a few girls tonight. But I was wearing my nice shirt, but my jeans are 4 days in without being changed and still have dirt on them. I was too lazy to do anything about it. I'm still single. I'm gonna get a shirt that says "Single and Disease Free!" soon. It's such a rad shirt. Then the ladies will come. He doesn't have diseases! Score!
SDPirate
10-31-2005, 11:24 PM
girls. are not logical. my rant for tonite
ljlax
11-01-2005, 07:45 AM
I went on a date this weekend. Good times. Um, I had really bad breath when I met a few girls tonight. But I was wearing my nice shirt, but my jeans are 4 days in without being changed and still have dirt on them. I was too lazy to do anything about it. I'm still single. I'm gonna get a shirt that says "Single and Disease Free!" soon. It's such a rad shirt. Then the ladies will come. He doesn't have diseases! Score!
BUT...aren't all the guys you know disease free?
my boyfriend is officially a psycho.
Diesel4958
11-01-2005, 05:11 PM
My rant is why am I such a whimp, I can't even tell a girl I like her, and it's not like the girl can give me a break at all, no that would be too nice. Why do they have to be so complecated? No I'm wrong they aren't complecated it is just complicated to tell them you like them, or anything for that matter. Can someone please slap me, and make me go tell this girl everything I've been wanting to, ahhhhhhhhh.
devillax57
11-01-2005, 05:59 PM
umm theres just no other way to put it...suck it up...if you get turned down...well that sux...but i mean at least your not beating yourself up about it anymore you know?
and stefi what happened...well at least he did something now right?
ljlax
11-01-2005, 07:03 PM
yeah...so I was mad because he has just been lame lately and our relationship got very..boring and bland and just blahhhh. and then he was just being annoying (or I was being irritable)
and then Saturday, one of my best friend's and I went to the frozen yogurt place he works..because I wanted to say hi and get some free frozen yogurt..
Anyway, it was sort of awkward..since my friend's a guy..but we are seriously like cousins and we had just been shooting and stuff at school..anyway my boyfriend and friend are NOT friends..so that was awkward.(probably a bad idea to go in the first place) anyway...they have this thing of water out with some cups and I got thirsty and asked alex(my boyfriend) to get me some...since I'm lazy and I was hoping that he would be nice and get it. but he just got annoyed and was like "no this isn't table service" or something..and I was like ook? anyway then later marc (my friend) hands me his trash to throw away and I was like uh..no and handed it to alex and he was like no wayyy throw away your own trash. so i go throw it away. and then as I'm walking past the door back towards the table I stop and pretend to walk out jokingly..(another bad move on my part) and marc was uncomfortable and was like no lets go. so I jsut said bye and left.
And before then I hadn't talked to alex since Friday night when we hung out. and then after that(Sat. evening) I didn't talk to him until Monday night on AIM..because I refused to answer my phone..
anyway he IMed me and got all pissed abuot like a million different things. WHich was funny because I wasn't realyl talking to him because he was irritating me. and now it got turned around to meee being like the "bad guy"
and all this crap..
and I haven't talked to him since..stilll..
devillax57
11-01-2005, 07:14 PM
wait your still w/ him...hmm...yeah you guys seem like your fighting over stupid stuff now and that one talk could solve this all...so next time answer your phone and just get it over w/...stop delaying it because that makes it worse
ljlax
11-01-2005, 07:42 PM
wait your still w/ him...hmm...yeah you guys seem like your fighting over stupid stuff now and that one talk could solve this all...so next time answer your phone and just get it over w/...stop delaying it because that makes it worse
BUT..I like delaying...that why I can pretend like everything's ok and I don't care..
What do you guys think of the idea of a "break"?
If your girlfriend wanted a break how you you feel?
navylax500
11-01-2005, 08:16 PM
I did a bad thing. I led on this girl who likes me by over flirting with her and now she thinks i want to go out with her and i dont want to tell her no because i already did that.
devillax57
11-01-2005, 08:16 PM
then i would just say lets break-up...thats just delaying again...and you can pretend all you want...but there's a problem
rattlerg-unit27
11-01-2005, 10:00 PM
Okay here's the situation
I want to ask out this cheerleader (she's a junior) but here's the thing. Her ex and her little brother play on the same lacrosse team as me and her older brother works with me at a supermarket. I am pretty sure that she is interested in me, but with the whole "bros over hoes" thing, should I continue?
devillax57
11-01-2005, 10:11 PM
im pretty sure that applied to picking your friends over girls...but yeah you could definitely get some heat for that one
ljlax
11-01-2005, 10:24 PM
I did a bad thing. I led on this girl who likes me by over flirting with her and now she thinks i want to go out with her and i dont want to tell her no because i already did that.
The best thing to do it be honest. I know it's cheesy and I know it sucks, but the longer the wait the harder it will be and the more she will be hurt.
SO... my boyfriend thing...is sort of resolved...if any of you care
SDPirate
11-01-2005, 10:31 PM
even if we didnt care at first to get through the thread u had to read it and care.
anyways navylax u might as well either go for her or just tell her no
MaKiMaKi13
11-02-2005, 09:46 AM
LJ thats some pretty sweet news and unit27 i'd say go for it if there cool with you then they shouldnt care if you do start dating her unless you hurt her then your screwed
GBaschski
11-02-2005, 03:29 PM
Well, there's only one question...is her older brother bigger than you? If he is, you might want to ask him if its cool that you ask out his little sister. If not, then forget what they think and go for the girl.
rattlerg-unit27
11-02-2005, 05:00 PM
I haven't met her older brother yet. But she has told me he works there, and I saw his name on the store roster, so I don't know.
Seriously though, dont do it. If you really like your friend, you wont do it to him. If its some guy you know and dont really care about, go for it, if its a friend, youll have one less friend.
Break it down:
Bros - Good friends, not dudes, not men, but your bros
Hos - Unless shes the one, shes one falls into this category. Hos being the equivalent of dudes, just another girl.
Bros before hos is earlier in the thread. I mean do you know this ex or is he just some guy? Thats waht it comes down to. Brother doesnt mean tooo much, unless its like your best friend, then id ask him first.
rattlerg-unit27
11-02-2005, 09:38 PM
He's a good guy. I mean, if it wasn't for the lacrosse team, we'd probably never talk to each other. So he's more of just a teammate than a friend.
So id go for it, i mean if its obvious that you two are into each other, and he hasnt said anything than thats on him. If you really are worried jsut straight ask him.
SDPirate
11-03-2005, 09:13 PM
hey i guess i kind of have a problem.
i asked my friend to homecoming as friends. cuz she only wanted to go if i went. and i kinda wanted to go i was lilke ok w/e.
now im kinda like scared of homecoming because last year i had the lamest most drama ridden homecoming ever.
p.s. i asked her in a pretty sick way if i do say so myself
devillax57
11-03-2005, 10:05 PM
You always have to go for that creative stuff...it makes the decision easier for them...but if its a good friend i dont think you have anything to worry about...you should be fine...because i highly doubt the same thing is gonna happen twice
SDPirate
11-03-2005, 11:12 PM
its not that im worried cuz im going with her.
its the idea of going to a dance. its like i've been tramatized
MaKiMaKi13
11-04-2005, 09:29 AM
bleh just relax and try to have fun how did u ask her anyways? lol im just curious as to how nasty it could be
Diesel4958
11-04-2005, 05:57 PM
you can't say the way you asked her was awsome, then not tell us what you did SD, c'mon I need ideas. haha.
swordsman
11-04-2005, 07:14 PM
BUT you're wrong for not saying anything...which makes you a crappppy boyfriend...
Yes, we have "broken up" before...for like a week or two at a time.. a few times...
and I don't know if this is going to be the end of the relationship, but there's a lot of stuff and it's all starting to add up..if you know what I mean..not like cheating or lies or something, but just like our relationship isn't going anywhere and it's just ..well there's other stuff...nvm
Sooo, most HS relationships end there if you mean college and five year plan and stuff.
swordsman
11-04-2005, 07:18 PM
Question: Is Ay, Yo Feamle really a "dirty inappropriate white trash pick-up line"?
ljlax
11-05-2005, 09:03 AM
Sooo, most HS relationships end there if you mean college and five year plan and stuff.
yeah...but it's almost two years until I go to college...
It's not going anywhere as in..it's been the SAME for like 2 years..
SDPirate
11-05-2005, 12:34 PM
oh i had to pick her up from school.
so i bought a dozen roses and since she cant see the street from her door i left a trail of them leading to my car. and then i was sitting on my tail gate wholding the last one with "homecoming?" written on me chest
Diesel4958
11-05-2005, 07:35 PM
I gotta admit that is pretty sweet, I'd go with you, haha.
devillax57
11-06-2005, 01:07 PM
yeah that is pretty good, but isnt that a little too formal for a friend?
SDPirate
11-06-2005, 02:49 PM
no cuz she was mad at me at the time
WHEELAX2
11-08-2005, 12:59 PM
ok.. so I'm kinda dating three chicks at once....
talking to one on IM right now, texting another, and thinking about calling the last one later today... this is tough..
ljlax
11-08-2005, 10:09 PM
ok.. so I'm kinda dating three chicks at once....
talking to one on IM right now, texting another, and thinking about calling the last one later today... this is tough..
I'm guessing all the guys are like "what are you whining about"
But as long as you are just dating and not actually "together" or in a relationship no biggie...but if they think you are being exclusive..that's bad..
you probably should choose soon RIGHT
SDPirate
11-08-2005, 11:49 PM
hey if u can pull it off more power too you. but im suggesting it.
PhilWings24
11-09-2005, 12:00 AM
My girlfriend is a pirate.
Oy.
SDPirate
11-09-2005, 10:24 PM
lmao ***** my relatives were pirates
BTlaxripper
11-14-2005, 08:00 PM
I've been talking with this girl for a while, and we're attracted to each other. We aren't officially going out with each other but we definetly like each other.
The thing is, I'm leaving for college, and I'm moving like 500 miles away 2 weeks into summer.
I don't want to get all serious and stuff and then have to surprise her to the fact I'm moving, and I don't want a long distance relationship becuase I'll probably never visit Florida ever, and it's so far away. And I want to be single in college.
I still want to date her for the time I'm here, but don't want to get emotionally attatched and get all depressed that I'm moving (right now I'm genuinely excited).
I don't know what to do, I still want to go out with her and have fun and stuff, and I don't want to break it off all suddenly, but we really like each other, and I haven't told her yet because if I tell her I'm sure she'll distance herself from me.
But she already knows I'm going to college at the end of the year anyways.
Please help.
ljlax
11-14-2005, 08:19 PM
I've been talking with this girl for a while, and we're attracted to each other. We aren't officially going out with each other but we definetly like each other.
The thing is, I'm leaving for college, and I'm moving like 500 miles away 2 weeks into summer.
I don't want to get all serious and stuff and then have to surprise her to the fact I'm moving, and I don't want a long distance relationship becuase I'll probably never visit Florida ever, and it's so far away. And I want to be single in college.
I still want to date her for the time I'm here, but don't want to get emotionally attatched and get all depressed that I'm moving (right now I'm genuinely excited).
I don't know what to do, I still want to go out with her and have fun and stuff, and I don't want to break it off all suddenly, but we really like each other, and I haven't told her yet because if I tell her I'm sure she'll distance herself from me.
But she already knows I'm going to college at the end of the year anyways.
Please help.
Hm..you should tell her just that.
If you both know it's coming, then you will probably try not to get too serious and atleast you can have fun this year. I mean you're not leaving for awhile
Diesel4958
11-14-2005, 08:21 PM
Just hangout, and chill as "friends". Thats what I would do.
Just hangout, and chill as "friends". Thats what I would do.
Yeah, and be kicking yourself in the bass for the next year.
LJ is right, enjoy it while you can. She wont not like you if you are leaving, that doesnt chagne who you are.
navylax500
11-14-2005, 08:50 PM
i met this girl a 2 weeks ago she told me she loves me and i told her the same thing the night i ask her out a kid ask her out in school all my friends think shes a ***** but she says she loves me still and that i m a better man than her boyfriend.
Should i get over her yes or no?
ljlax
11-14-2005, 08:50 PM
Yeah, and be kicking yourself in the bass for the next year.
LJ is right, enjoy it while you can. She wont not like you if you are leaving, that doesnt chagne who you are.
Yeah, just tell her. Be together. You won't get too serious if you both know you are leaving.
ljlax
11-14-2005, 09:01 PM
i met this girl a 2 weeks ago she told me she loves me and i told her the same thing the night i ask her out a kid ask her out in school all my friends think shes a ***** but she says she loves me still and that i m a better man than her boyfriend.
Should i get over her yes or no?
wait...she got asked out by two guys in one day, but says she loves you? I dont get it?
Anway..if she really likes you then she will leave him..otherwise she's just being..a jerk
SDPirate
11-14-2005, 09:28 PM
in my experiences your friends are probably seeing something you arent.
im sure you will try to get with her but it might turn out that your friends are right...
Diesel4958
11-15-2005, 04:32 PM
SD I agree I am blind to many things until my friends point them out to me. I have excepted that somethings that I see, or think in my own little world are just not whats really going on.
stinisonfire
11-16-2005, 01:57 PM
((I fell victim to being a nice guy in high school and have since learned. I found this on the internet and thought I would share. If its already on here, its up again cause I'm not looking through 9 pages))
Nice guys...
Tribute to the Nice guys who Finish Last
This is a tribute to the nice guys.
The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and *****ing about what ******** guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl’s every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style.
This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they’re at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don’t end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.
This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you’d ever orchestrated in GTA3 to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.
The nice guys don’t often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys don’t seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative *******. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I’m going to sleep with this complete *** now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn’t last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.
So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.
roycegracie47
11-16-2005, 02:01 PM
^^^yeah, friend sent that too me a few years back in college as I am the proverbial nice guy. My club team just passed around a similar one on the death of the wing man, but there is no way it is tlf safe (ie asteriks would be everywhere) so it's a no go.
Diesel4958
11-16-2005, 03:00 PM
I second that, nice read, good to know some one cares. One question I got from it though is it telling me to be not so nice? or not too nice? Cause I don't enjoy finishing last, even if it's inevitable (sp). Although I will go on being nice, even if all of that is true. ***sighs***
WHEELAX2
11-16-2005, 03:02 PM
I'm guessing all the guys are like "what are you whining about"
But as long as you are just dating and not actually "together" or in a relationship no biggie...but if they think you are being exclusive..that's bad..
you probably should choose soon RIGHT
yeah.. soon would be good, but one lives in England, another in Texas, and one in NYC...
ShermanLax607
11-16-2005, 03:51 PM
ok, well basically i like this girl, and she says she likes me back, to her friends because she is too nervous to tell me... which is a good sign, in the short run
so now that homecoming is coming up ive noticed she's flirting with a guy that she used to like but told me she was over.... girls whats going on, guys, what should i do
its not like if i dump her my life will be over, because it wont, and its not like there arent other girls out there, im just saying this one girl is really special to me and want to know what's up
girlls: does this really mean that she still likes this other guy?
thanks for the help
devillax57
11-16-2005, 04:17 PM
she can still be friends and talk to the guy you know...its not that big of a deal, how about hook up w/ her and all that other stuff will be gone...so yeah hooking up-the problem solver
ekajsk8er
11-16-2005, 05:22 PM
yeah.. soon would be good, but one lives in England, another in Texas, and one in NYC...
wow, how'd you manage that one?
ljlax
11-16-2005, 11:27 PM
ok, well basically i like this girl, and she says she likes me back, to her friends because she is too nervous to tell me... which is a good sign, in the short run
so now that homecoming is coming up ive noticed she's flirting with a guy that she used to like but told me she was over.... girls whats going on, guys, what should i do
its not like if i dump her my life will be over, because it wont, and its not like there arent other girls out there, im just saying this one girl is really special to me and want to know what's up
girlls: does this really mean that she still likes this other guy?
thanks for the help
Um it doesn't mean she likes him but it also doesn't mean she doesn't like him. She most likely doesn't realize she's even doing it. Truth is, we can't tell unless we know her. Sometimes girls do stuff like that to mess with your head..but I don't get why.. So that's possible..
honesty..is definitely the best policy
SDPirate
11-16-2005, 11:40 PM
well guys i have a problem.
i made out with an ex this weekend. it really didnt mean anything to me. and she said it didnt mean anything to her. but appearently she lied and now she is all emo. but w/e she lied to me and is still lieing to me so i could care less. and she is telling people im a jerk cuz i dont really care.
but anyways the real problem is i didnt tell my best friend that i did. and she found out and was kinda disapointed in me. and i felt bad for not tellin her. i didnt lie and say i didnt i just avoide the topic. but yea. feeling pretty bad now. she isnt mad at me i just feel bad. :(
ljlax
11-17-2005, 08:03 AM
well guys i have a problem.
i made out with an ex this weekend. it really didnt mean anything to me. and she said it didnt mean anything to her. but appearently she lied and now she is all emo. but w/e she lied to me and is still lieing to me so i could care less. and she is telling people im a jerk cuz i dont really care.
but anyways the real problem is i didnt tell my best friend that i did. and she found out and was kinda disapointed in me. and i felt bad for not tellin her. i didnt lie and say i didnt i just avoide the topic. but yea. feeling pretty bad now. she isnt mad at me i just feel bad. :(
Um..be honest with the ex, but not too harsh...DUH
Apologize to your friend, try to make it up to her..
Nothing else to do, right?
So what's the problem?
Don't get drunk and hook up with ex's and not tell your bestie!
nesll234
11-17-2005, 11:17 AM
I think if a girl is constantly saying, "buy me this, buy me that, you dont spend enough time with me," and most of all, if they say, " What is lacrosse, anyway?" I say smack some sense into them and them and walk away.
SDPirate
11-17-2005, 09:55 PM
hey now i wasnt drunk. and i was honest.
but the bestie isnt fond of this ex so it didnt seem all to bright to tell her
ShermanLax607
11-19-2005, 09:43 AM
Um it doesn't mean she likes him but it also doesn't mean she doesn't like him. She most likely doesn't realize she's even doing it. Truth is, we can't tell unless we know her. Sometimes girls do stuff like that to mess with your head..but I don't get why.. So that's possible..
honesty..is definitely the best policy
thank you for that, because it really seems like she is flirting now ALOT with me, which is great...
and home-coming was last night and she made it the best night of my life... SO, i think everythign is going to be fine/ / /thanks
ljlax
11-19-2005, 10:21 AM
thank you for that, because it really seems like she is flirting now ALOT with me, which is great...
and home-coming was last night and she made it the best night of my life... SO, i think everythign is going to be fine/ / /thanks
yayy. "best night of [your] life" seems a bit extreme? maybe I'm just saying that because I don't like homecoming..
ljlax
11-19-2005, 02:57 PM
OK I'm double posting.
Cry about it.
It needs to be bumped since I'm about to whine...and I'm a girl, so that works.
My boyfriend
Oh my.
Sometimes I want to strangle him. Little things he does irritates me WAY too much...
In psychology...the moving seat thing..I swear I already mentioned it
Anyway, I don't really talk to him in that class and just do hw for other classes..and don't really notice usually but yesterday he was talking to this girl it and it was really irritating me..cuz she's a skank and they were all like "pinky promise" and weird stuff like that.... I couldn't really hear them.
And then he left school at lunch to surf..and didn't tell me and wasn't in 5th period (right after lunch) So I didn't know where he was, and called him during 6th but he didn't answer and then I called him as I was leaving school and he didn't answer. ...LAME because Harry Potter started like a half hour after school got out... So he called me back like 5 min later and said he just got done surfing. and I'm like ok? thanks for telling me kook.
and he came to my house etc drove me to the movie. But I was sorta annoyed and not really talking, you know how it goes.. anyway he was like what's wrong etc etc when we got there. and I was like nothingg and then he tried to be cute and get me into a better mood..which didn't work but for some reason Harry Potter did..anyway after the movie he started pissing me off again..but I don't remember what he was doing.
And then today He had CIF finals for Cross country--at the same time as I had a middle school lax game to coach. So I called him after and asked about it, but he was sick and puked 7 times.. Anyway then he was like we should talk, everything has been pretty weird lately etc...because well it has. and I was like yea and then he's like maybe we should break up and all this crap about how we both are super busy and we do a lot of different stuff and moving in different directions and a bunch of crap and I was thinking like yea he's about to break up with me on the phone after like almost 5 years what a dork.. lol.. and so I said something like yea..you're not doing this on the phone and then he played dumb and now we are going to talk monday since I have church/lacrosse all day tomorrow.
SO the point is. He's retarded and gets on my nerves..but we have been together so long and I love him. But i think that since we have been together so long that's the problem. Like neither of us have even kissed anyone else, not even a peck. He's my only boyfriend and I'm his only girlfriend and everything has gotten really..boring and like lame? Which makes sense since I'm 17 and we started going out when I was 12...
AHhhh what to do..
SDPirate
11-19-2005, 04:06 PM
idk but i really dont think you should have been that mad at him for going surfing.
cuz stuff like that he probably just thought of with some friends and decdied to go or maybe he went by himself spotaneously. surfing, skating , anything just about sounds fun when your at school and most guys will leave school for almost any reason.
but with the whole breaking up thing. if you guys do break up you went out for five years it might not be permanent just till you two get your lives straightened out. maybe it would be for the best to take a break.
Diesel4958
11-19-2005, 05:32 PM
I have recently learned that it is easy to just go with the "flow". The flow is a new concept of mine brought to me by a fellow lacrosse player. Basically the flow is anything and everything, it is different for everyone, and you are either going with it or not. If things are meant to work out than they will, if not than they wont. Everyone should spend alot less time worrying, and alot more time relaxing, and let life take its course. The flow will work most of the time but every once and a while one will be faced with a decision that needs to be made, which isn't a problem, because after that decision is reached the flow kicks back in. I have realized I am alot less angry/sad when going with the flow. It is all about realizing, and accepting everything that happens. So my question for you LJ is would it be such a bad thing if you two broke up? Maybe you two aren't meant for each other, and something better will come along. I'm not trying to deter you from not breaking up, just simply giving you another option, and mind set. you remember that girl I was crazy about? I've decided that it is not worth my time thinking about her, worrying about what will happen but instead just relaxing, something eventually will work out in favor of me. Everything will happen when it is supposed to happen, that simple. The sooner eveyone realizes this, the better off everyone will be. The flow is like fate, but with options. Good luck, but remember there might be something better.
ljlax
11-19-2005, 08:56 PM
idk but i really dont think you should have been that mad at him for going surfing.
cuz stuff like that he probably just thought of with some friends and decdied to go or maybe he went by himself spotaneously. surfing, skating , anything just about sounds fun when your at school and most guys will leave school for almost any reason.
but with the whole breaking up thing. if you guys do break up you went out for five years it might not be permanent just till you two get your lives straightened out. maybe it would be for the best to take a break.
Yeah... I know I shouldn't get mad, or even annoyed, but I do. I can't help it, but everything he does pisses me off...Yeah real healthy relationship I know..
He went alone..to windan sea..which he hates..
And it couldn't have been spontaneous since he lives pretty far away and only has his surfboard in his car if he's planning on surfing...unless he drove 20 min home and 20 min back to surf?
We probably won't break up and if we do it will only be temporary...It would be too weird if it was permanent..since we have been together forever..like that would be soo weird...
I have recently learned that it is easy to just go with the "flow". The flow is a new concept of mine brought to me by a fellow lacrosse player. Basically the flow is anything and everything, it is different for everyone, and you are either going with it or not. If things are meant to work out than they will, if not than they wont. Everyone should spend alot less time worrying, and alot more time relaxing, and let life take its course. The flow will work most of the time but every once and a while one will be faced with a decision that needs to be made, which isn't a problem, because after that decision is reached the flow kicks back in. I have realized I am alot less angry/sad when going with the flow. It is all about realizing, and accepting everything that happens. So my question for you LJ is would it be such a bad thing if you two broke up? Maybe you two aren't meant for each other, and something better will come along. I'm not trying to deter you from not breaking up, just simply giving you another option, and mind set. you remember that girl I was crazy about? I've decided that it is not worth my time thinking about her, worrying about what will happen but instead just relaxing, something eventually will work out in favor of me. Everything will happen when it is supposed to happen, that simple. The sooner eveyone realizes this, the better off everyone will be. The flow is like fate, but with options. Good luck, but remember there might be something better.
I think I would be fine if we broke up, but it would just be weird. I don't get too worked up about stuff like this anymore, since it usually works itself out in a couple days. I don't even tell my friends 98% of the time.. I just tell you guys... Basically..it would be weird. Like we are together..because that's what we do. Like we have been together so long it would just be weird not to be...which is why we are still together but at the same time why we are having issues...
Weird..I guess I'll just see how it goes
LowRida
11-19-2005, 09:12 PM
LJ, you have been going out with him for five year? You are only in hs, and highschool is a time to see new things, meet new people. It is like you are married before even really start dating and seeing what the world has to offer.
ljlax
11-19-2005, 09:28 PM
LJ, you have been going out with him for five year? You are only in hs, and highschool is a time to see new things, meet new people. It is like you are married before even really start dating and seeing what the world has to offer.
actually...4 years and 8 months...
I don't want to meet new people...most people at my school are lame?
In psychology...the moving seat thing..I swear I already mentioned it
Anyway, I don't really talk to him in that class and just do hw for other classes..and don't really notice usually but yesterday he was talking to this girl it and it was really irritating me..cuz she's a skank and they were all like "pinky promise" and weird stuff like that.... I couldn't really hear them
Uhh i hate that. I know exactly what you mean, the little pseudo-flirting when youre there, but not close enough. Like he would be talking to you, he just isnt for some odd reason.
So I didn't know where he was, and called him during 6th but he didn't answer and then I called him as I was leaving school and he didn't answer. ...
I wouldnt take that personally, he was in a ocean, hard to answer a phone in those.
LAME because Harry Potter started like a half hour after school got out... So he called me back like 5 min later and said he just got done surfing. and I'm like ok? thanks for telling me kook.
You guys did go to harry potter though, he didnt blow you off, you just didnt know where he was.
and he came to my house etc drove me to the movie. But I was sorta annoyed and not really talking, you know how it goes.. anyway he was like what's wrong etc etc when we got there. and I was like nothingg and then he tried to be cute and get me into a better mood..which didn't work but for some reason Harry Potter did..
Dont do that then, he tries to confort the issue and you just avoid it, thats the worst. I HATE that. Dont feel too bad though, every girl does it.
Anyway then he was like we should talk, everything has been pretty weird lately etc...because well it has.
Why do you think he started it on the phone.... becuase you avoided him last time and wouldnt talk about it. You do keep avoiding this talk.
A guy I knwo broke up with a girl hed been going out with for lik 2.5 years, situation much like yours. He hooked up with this other girl, but then went back to the first one. Maybe you two need a break, but not a huge breakup? You like him, but you just need to not stress so much in that relationship.
ljlax
11-19-2005, 10:37 PM
Yeah...
Basically your right
Yes I avoid talking about it because a) I don't like to talk about my "feelings" b) it happens like everyday so I blow it off c) I like avoiding things..
So...he's pissing me off why can't I just not talk to him...
And it's just annoying that he wouldn't tell me where he was. I almsot always know and then randomly he just disappears..yeah that's annyoing.
Break's probab;y a good idea
But I may be able to avoid this whole "talk" for another couple weeks..
But maybe I won't...
I hate girls that do that whole "I dont/cant/wont talk to you" act. Its the worst thing a girl can do IMHO. Talk to him. Suck it up, take one for the team, talk to him. Save him and yourself the trouble, and do it.
I almsot always know and then randomly he just disappears..yeah that's annyoing.
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ljlax
11-19-2005, 10:54 PM
I hate girls that do that whole "I dont/cant/wont talk to you" act. Its the worst thing a girl can do IMHO. Talk to him. Suck it up, take one for the team, talk to him. Save him and yourself the trouble, and do it.
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HEY stop mocking me. I should know what's going on! He knew where I was..I was in English class!
Whatever. He's been avoiding the "talk" too..and I agreed to talking on Monday.
A talk on monday sounds for the best then. Just make sure you actually talk, I know it sucks, I know its gonna be odd, I know you dont want to, but you HAVE TO get it ALL out, or else the rest of your life will suck, and you will be homeless.
ljlax
11-19-2005, 10:58 PM
A talk on monday sounds for the best then. Just make sure you actually talk, I know it sucks, I know its gonna be odd, I know you dont want to, but you HAVE TO get it ALL out, or else the rest of your life will suck, and you will be homeless.
ALL? EVERYTHING? You mean I can't just sit there and play dumb and pretend that our relationship has ANY substance?! WHAT why not?!!
AHHH ok I'll talk, I don't want to be a bum in La Jolla...
woah woah woah wait a second......
there are actually bums in La Jolla?
ljlax
11-19-2005, 11:09 PM
woah woah woah wait a second......
there are actually bums in La Jolla?
Yes
A man in a skirt named Christine hangs out in front of the grocery store and goes to the same bank as me
And a crazy lady with a crazy bun
and a man who shaves the front of his head....
Diesel4958
11-19-2005, 11:50 PM
Problem resolved.
devillax57
11-20-2005, 04:29 PM
wait...stefi you guys are breaking up...will this be for good or will it be the same thing as last time?...you guys really have a wierd relationship, but you have been going out for something like 6 years, so its not that hard to understand
ljlax
11-20-2005, 05:18 PM
wait...stefi you guys are breaking up...will this be for good or will it be the same thing as last time?...you guys really have a wierd relationship, but you have been going out for something like 6 years, so its not that hard to understand
Right now, I don't know what's going on..but I'm sort of over all this so we'll just see what happens.. LESS THAN 5 YEARS!!!
ljlax
11-20-2005, 08:51 PM
I thought I should tell you
He broke up with me
sort of
or wants to
and said it on aim
wtf is his problem
i hate that boy
shady!
honestly who does that?! 5 years and some crap on aim..
so over it
he should be shot
lokiinspired
11-20-2005, 09:12 PM
Oh man, I'm sorry LJ. You'd think after five years he would at least say it in person and not AIM. Online is so... Ugh. But anyway. Hopefully being single again suits you well and it turns out ok between you and your ex.
ljlax
11-20-2005, 09:17 PM
Oh man, I'm sorry LJ. You'd think after five years he would at least say it in person and not AIM. Online is so... Ugh. But anyway. Hopefully being single again suits you well and it turns out ok between you and your ex.
single again..
I was never single...it doesn't count when you are TWELVE!
Well...he didn't break up break up with me. more like he said that he thinks we should and wants to talk/explain etc in person tonight/tomorrow
and I was like no you're a #$%^&* I don't want to talk to you
Yeah, your problems all suck. I had this girl that was totally hitting on me on Friday, though. Except like, I'm sort of working on getting in a relationship with another girl. We're going on a date, and we've been on one before back in July, and she gave me her cell phone number like 1.5 weeks ago, and I hung out with her last Saturday night and we talk all the time in school. It's going well. She's one of the most wonderful girls I've ever met. I'm happy.
Diesel4958
11-20-2005, 11:56 PM
Hey Raine, since you moved to Utah could a pretty girl from Utah move to Burlington? Sort of like a trade off? hahaha you said 1.5 weeks, priceless. And how old are you 17 and a half?
EDIT: LJ just remember the flow, and that if hes gonna break up with you on aim, he probably wasn't worth it. Also tell him to grow some, and talk to you in person. That is just cowardly.
ljlax
11-21-2005, 12:00 AM
EDIT: LJ just remember the flow, and that if hes gonna break up with you on aim, he probably wasn't worth it. Also tell him to grow some, and talk to you in person. That is just cowardly.
I KNOW that's what I said. I mean in 6th grade..we did crap like that.
AHH what's wrong with him.
I told him I didn't want to talk...but I guess I do..but I was angry--you know how it goes I was like wtf? No I don't want to talk to you
Anyway...he just said he wanted to break up
But it was a shady move
wayyy shady
Diesel4958
11-21-2005, 11:17 AM
In these situations blasting some Kanye always helps me, all I can say is Drive Slow homie.
MaKiMaKi13
11-21-2005, 02:49 PM
i think you should headbutt him and then get uhh Ryan Dunn from homewrecker to do something to him j/k just talk it out im sure he was just having a bad day i guess
YHSlax0506
11-21-2005, 03:50 PM
How could I cheer a girl who I really like up? I asked her if I can do anything to help and I told her she looks good but she still is in a bad mood. I need help! Thank you in advance.
_lax4life_
11-21-2005, 03:51 PM
Make her laugh, crakc joke