Whine about girls here.

[dpolehh21]

How could I cheer a girl who I really like up? I asked her if I can do anything to help and I told her she looks good but she still is in a bad mood. I need help! Thank you in advance.
Always remember, theres a fine line between supportive nice guy and creepy stalker. Make jokes,make an effort to make GOOD conversation. Unless your pretty close with her DO NOT buy her anything. Anyway why's she sad, cause that matters.

[YHSlax0506]

read the whole thread it says i can't tell you why.

[YHSlax0506]

when is future tense so that is just showing my confidence. im a little tense about everything wait i mean very tense. lol its the medicine for add/adhd yes i have it not proud but i acually have it.

[buccs24]

when is future tense so that is just showing my confidence. im a little tense about everything wait i mean very tense. lol its the medicine for add/adhd yes i have it not proud but i acually have it.
Dude you just need to calm down.

[YHSlax0506]

Dude you just need to calm down.
Why? Because I receive side-effects? Dude you need to get a sense of humor. I.E. Me kidding about the confidence comment. Oh and I said "if" dpolehh. But whatever.

[devillax57]

no you should beat the kid up...over aim? wow thats the lowest thing ive ever heard second to a text message...just be strong and get w/ some random guy to make him jealous :thumbsup: . that may just do the trick...Hey how about that good friend of yours, that would be the biggest kick in the gut for him, but he kinda deserves it

[buccs24]

Why? Because I receive side-effects? Dude you need to get a sense of humor. I.E. Me kidding about the confidence comment. Oh and I said "if" dpolehh. But whatever.
I was just kidding around to man.

[ljlax]

no you should beat the kid up...over aim? wow thats the lowest thing ive ever heard second to a text message...just be strong and get w/ some random guy to make him jealous :thumbsup: . that may just do the trick...Hey how about that good friend of yours, that would be the biggest kick in the gut for him, but he kinda deserves it
tooo bad that friend is MORMON...he can't even drink coffee let alone hook up with someone and EW he's like my brother that's GROSS..

He definitely need a butt kicking and my sister is about ready to do it..haha and she could...D1 lax..she lifts so much! haha nayway my bro could do it (played football in college) and he's now 25..
But I think I will just never talk to him again and hope he slits his own wrists...

BUT I am gonig to a party tonight(no school this week) I never go to parties...This shold be exciting..lol..or awkward?

[devillax57]

you never party...you are definitely missing some good times, just look at my photo on the members page...yeah

but the sliting of the wrists thing is pretty harsh and kind of a sore subject on here especially after liveforlax19's recent problems

[Dan]

Eh, it's all driven by angst. Let it fly.

tooo bad that friend is MORMON...he can't even drink coffee let alone hook up with someone and EW he's like my brother that's GROSS..

It's so true. Ew, weird. Yeah, and YHS, I've gone way too crazy like that too. Oh man, it's the worst mistake you can make. Just chill out COMPLETELY. Be like, Hey, how's it going? Talk to her in a totally normal conversation, just like two friends, not some super friendly creepy guy that wants to make her every breath as fresh as mountain air and every second as worthwhile as can be. SHE'S FREAKING TAKEN RIGHT NOW. I've finally started to figure this out. It took me a long time. Man. I'm so dumb. My problem is way different. See, I'll be PM'ing a certain someone because SHE'S smart. BTW, if you guys go to www.thecanyons.com and go to shot of the day and scroll down and see some kid in the Nov. 19 picture, that's me. With my blue legbag. Yeah yeah!

So, LJ, party hardy, YHS, totally lay off for awhile. Thanksgiving break will be good. Because you can think, man, I'm going crazy, holy crap! And it'll be good for you, I have way too many regrets about going crazy last year. Now I'm moving slow. I talk to the girl a ton, but it's so much different. I'm all relaxed. It's like, fun now. Not tense. Don't be tense. You'll totally bomb it if you are.

http://www.thecanyons.com/otm/shotofday.aspx

Here's the link to me sucking at shredding. Tail Grab!

[ljlax]

you never party...you are definitely missing some good times, just look at my photo on the members page...yeah

but the sliting of the wrists thing is pretty harsh and kind of a sore subject on here especially after liveforlax19's recent problems
Yeah...I tried to post on the members picture page but since I didn't have a picture besides my avatar it got deleted. You got that picture from Mary's xanga...before she took the pictures off because of siegal freaking out...RIght?

livforlax19's thing was a fake...the dad lied.....

I'm still so angry..
and I'm deciding abuot the party since I don't know who's going besides who's house it's at at these two guy friends of mine that were trying to get me to go... so I may or may not go... depends if I want to be social/outgoing/awkward/a loser...etc..

[devillax57]

wow you need to be that social outgoing type..then you can make your boyfriend jealous by hooking up w/ a random guy...or girl would be worse for him...but you dont seem like the girl who would do that...or maybe :thinking:

yeah my picture is from mary's myspace and no everyone freaked out about that because there was a rumor that the school administration received a list about a party and they were going to check her myspace of anything "wrong". so i was a little scared

and i know about the whole fake thing, but i know a girl who was just release from the psych ward after battling major depression all the way up to being suicidal, so its a little sore for me, especially if that girl was recently dumped by my older brother...yeah a lot of drama

[ljlax]

wow you need to be that social outgoing type..then you can make your boyfriend jealous by hooking up w/ a random guy...or girl would be worse for him...but you dont seem like the girl who would do that...or maybe :thinking:

yeah my picture is from mary's myspace and no everyone freaked out about that because there was a rumor that the school administration received a list about a party and they were going to check her myspace of anything "wrong". so i was a little scared

and i know about the whole fake thing, but i know a girl who was just release from the psych ward after battling major depression all the way up to being suicidal, so its a little sore for me, especially if that girl was recently dumped by my older brother...yeah a lot of drama
I know I should be..I used to be more social..but now I'm just too lazy haha.
And no I'm not the random hook up kind of person and am not planning on..

Well it was on her Xanga too...the rumor was a fatty lie ..or so I heard...but I'm a million miles away what do I know.

Sorry I didn't mean the suicide thing and I know a number of people who have had problemes with depression too. It was more of a figure of speech not to be taken literally

[devillax57]

yeah i guess the thing is fake, but it still gave me quite a scare....just find a new guy, its not going to be easy, but just do it...it'll also take your mind off of your old boyfriend, so why not?

[SDPirate]

wow this thread got alot bigger since i last left some thoughts.

i just thought id like to agree with diesels flow topic. i've pretty much been doing that for a good long whiole now with out calling it "the flow" it works out pretty damn good because all you have to do is not care at all what happens and beleiv e that eventually **** will work itself out. and it always does.

and this is where i will add my two cents to the theory of the "the flow"

the reason eveyrthing works out eventually when you jsut go with the flow is because by you not really making that many decision it forces other to worry about stuff and think about w/e the thing concerning you is. like if you like a girl for instance and she likes you. and you never really trey to hard for her and just gow ith the flow. you've basically just played hard to get with out doing anything or caring much at all. and then in essence she now wantgs you and/or your nuts.

flow: 1
emo kids: 0

[Diesel4958]

SD thank you. Dude I started the flow up, because I was in almost the same situation as YHS, and I was freaking out, until the girl I really really liked went, and had sex with a Jr. that basically took advantage of her when they were most likely wasted, and high. (She was going through a break up) And last week she and her old boyfriend got back together. At first I was torn up, and just wanted to snap. But you know what, now it really don't matter to me, because sooner or later people are going to recognize, that I'm D, and I'm the man. So really Lj, go out and have fun, don't worry just relax it'll work out. YHS Don't try too hard or else all your work will come out to no avail. YHS I also recommend as I did to LJ listen to Drive Slow by Kanye West at high volumes. I'm telling you again, the flow always prevails, you just have to let it.

SD I beleive it now is:
Flow: 2
Emo Kids: 0

[ljlax]

...I'm not a big Kanye fan...

So... I will flow... or try to..plus I'm so over it, it's not worth it..it got wayy too hard and our relationship was sucking. We both knew for a while that we needed to break up. It's just lame that it ended like that

[SDPirate]

well the only thing you can do now is relax and do w/e you want. and yea that was a kinda lame way for things to end. but you cant really change what happend you can only move on. and by move on i mean just do w.e

[ljlax]

well the only thing you can do now is relax and do w/e you want. and yea that was a kinda lame way for things to end. but you cant really change what happend you can only move on. and by move on i mean just do w.e
Alex is going to be there! I don't know if I should go!

AHHHHHHH

[devillax57]

wow why not...that just makes it seem like you cant get over him and if you see him w/ another girl that you will go loopy...just go and have fun

[ljlax]

wow why not...that just makes it seem like you cant get over him and if you see him w/ another girl that you will go loopy...just go and have fun
But he's not there..yet
and I would be uncomfortable with or without him because
I DONT KNOW I'm awkward..
I need someone to come with me, like to show up with me
ahh...maybe I should just call it a night

[ljlax]

So....
I didn't go. I don't even know if he did, as of like 9:30 he wasn't there yet but I haven't talked to anyone since. I don't care. I'm going down to the beach to burn a bunch of his stuff now..It will be a beautiful ceremony..I may even try to show you pictures.

[Diesel4958]

YES!! that's the spirit LJ, take gasoline, kerosine, Potassium Nitrate, I don't know anything that will make a bigger Fire! Have fun, and when he asks for his stuff back just say you left it at the beach, haha.

[ljlax]

YES!! that's the spirit LJ, take gasoline, kerosine, Potassium Nitrate, I don't know anything that will make a bigger Fire! Have fun, and when he asks for his stuff back just say you left it at the beach, haha.
Yeah it wasn't that fun..
I took pictures maybe I'll put them up later but I'mm too lazy.. It wasn't a huge fire...umm it's illegal..

He blocked me on aim..what a loser
I swear he's going to be 17 in 3 weeks he's not 10...seriously..I bet he is 10.. what a loser.

It's just sad because we had a bunch of little random inside jokes or things we would do and likee it's all gone now.

[devillax57]

wow he blocked you...that sux...did you guys even try to be friends afterwards?...well you dont seem like your crying over this nonstop...which is VERY good...and if hes ten...that means you kissed a ten year old right?...

[ljlax]

wow he blocked you...that sux...did you guys even try to be friends afterwards?...well you dont seem like your crying over this nonstop...which is VERY good...and if hes ten...that means you kissed a ten year old right?...
Yeah he unblocked me now...
This happened like two days ago and we don't have school this week. soo there hasn't been time to "try and be friends" we shoudl probably talk about all this..if he doesn't try to within a few weeks...well I'm not planning on
I'm more pissed than sad.. the only bad thing is since we were so close and spent a lot of time together I'm not as close with my other friends anymore... that's the sad part.. ok he's as mature as a 10 year old..

[SDPirate]

damn n.c. schools getting the whole week off.

[ljlax]

damn n.c. schools getting the whole week off.
Schools like torrey pines had it before this year..
it's our first year
:)

I HATE ALEX...
I talked to him..he's a freaking pansy!

[SDPirate]

you guys and coronado both were the only ones i knew of.

well stop worrying and just go with the flow everything will work out. mostly due to karma. really just dont worry abnout it go do girl stuff. im not sure wat that stuff but im sure it involves at least one unicorn

[ljlax]

you guys and coronado both were the only ones i knew of.

well stop worrying and just go with the flow everything will work out. mostly due to karma. really just dont worry abnout it go do girl stuff. im not sure wat that stuff but im sure it involves at least one unicorn
Hahah..
That was classic..
I don't really believe in karma...
It's just hard for like EVERYTHING to change so quickly. I mean I have had the same boyfriend since 6th grade! Do you know how long that is? Like it's hard to remember that we are actually not together anymore.

unicorn
haha cute

[LowRida]

You might not believe in karma, but karma believes in you. That was deep huh? Everything happens for a reason, who knows, you might be going out with, I don't know... Tom Cruise next week. Which would be semi-creepy, so nevermind.

Oh, going to Chicago for the holidays, So Happy Thanksgiving everybody!!!

[MaKiMaKi13]

aww poo lj is single again thats a bummer welll i guess you should just relax and hang out with your chick friends you have my condolences if thats the right word to use in this situation

man who could put a hottie through such emotional trauma lol j/k

i hope you feel better and HAPPY T-DAY(Turkey Day) ALL

[SwRLaX10D]

Ok heres the deal, if you like a girl.. Talk to her and be honest and up front with her... Thats all it takes.
Agreed!
I have a problem. I'm on the border-line of "going out" and "still friends" with this girl I know from school. I've been trying to have her over and stuff of that sort, but either I ask at the wrong time or she's too busy to do stuff...what, oh what, should I do?

[Dan]

I'm on that borderline, or at least approaching it. I'll get there soon. But I'm not getting desperate, because that seems to be key. On another note, I was looking through myspace and found this girl I had a crush on in 7th grade. Wow. She turned out beautiful. I moved, so I wouldn't have really known, but hey, here I am, with more success than I've had, so, I'll freaking take it.

[MaKiMaKi13]

yeaaa desperation i'd say stay away from altho i found a chick i used to date on myspace 2 she turned out to be quite hott but then she turned into a skank from what i hear

[devillax57]

YEAH CHICAGO...but no seriously stefi you need to hang out w/ members of your same sex...maybe shop...watch chick flicks...host the weekly sweet 16...? ANYTHING is possible if you put your mind to it :thumbsup:

[ljlax]

aww poo lj is single again thats a bummer welll i guess you should just relax and hang out with your chick friends you have my condolences if thats the right word to use in this situation

man who could put a hottie through such emotional trauma lol j/k

i hope you feel better and HAPPY T-DAY(Turkey Day) ALL
Yeah I'm ok.
I'm glad you were joking about me being a "hottie" who was put "through an emotional trauma" .....
YEAH CHICAGO...but no seriously stefi you need to hang out w/ members of your same sex...maybe shop...watch chick flicks...host the weekly sweet 16...? ANYTHING is possible if you put your mind to it :thumbsup:
My sister got home from college last night, so I've been hanging out with her all day today and tomorrow..and probably the next day...and tonight 9 girls (my sister's friends, my friends, little sisters..etc) are going to see Rent..so I'm excited. Most of my girl friends are annoying though...so you can only spend so much time with them before you need a break...

[Goldenbearslax6]

Hey, i ahve this problem, i like this girl, but i never talked to her b4, and i see her everyday, and she doesnt even knoe my name, lol i want to get to know her buit idk how to approach, i see her by the bus stop every other day, please help me out
thanks

[ljlax]

Hey, i ahve this problem, i like this girl, but i never talked to her b4, and i see her everyday, and she doesnt even knoe my name, lol i want to get to know her buit idk how to approach, i see her by the bus stop every other day, please help me out
thanks
Just say hi and don't be creepy..make small talk..the weather..classes..etc.. "I've seen you at the bus stop before but never got the chance to introduce myself..my name is___"
Do you go to Cal?

[Goldenbearslax6]

Na i dotn go to cal i live in ohio, thanks for the tips any more

[ljlax]

Na i dotn go to cal i live in ohio, thanks for the tips any more
Oh...well Cal's mascot is a golden bear..anywayy....

Just don't be creepy and don't come on too strong..


SO...I still havent talked to alex...
RETARD

[Diesel4958]

Well, it could be worse, you could be posting on The Lacrosse Forums at 1:02 in the morning because you can't go to sleep, or you could live in Vermont where it is cold. Talk to him later, this week is for eating, and being happy, not dwelling over an ex!!!

[devillax57]

HAHA Diesel you're ripping on yourself...so i like not one but 2 girls at the same time...one i have a better chance w/, but never hang out w/ her...and the other one is a pretty good friend, but everyone says we need to hook up sometime soon...so which one should i go for...both attractive so thats not really a factor...advice?

[Diesel4958]

yea the one you look at and can't help but smile.

[CHSLAX_Doherty]

go do some wall drills and shoot on a goal as hard as you can, lol
whenever i get caught up in a situation where i cant get over a girl... i just go out and lax it up as hardcore as i can, works everytime =)

[fenwicklax89]

HAHA Diesel you're ripping on yourself...so i like not one but 2 girls at the same time...one i have a better chance w/, but never hang out w/ her...and the other one is a pretty good friend, but everyone says we need to hook up sometime soon...so which one should i go for...both attractive so thats not really a factor...advice?


potkul, ask cruwys. hell know.

[SDPirate]

HAHA Diesel you're ripping on yourself...so i like not one but 2 girls at the same time...one i have a better chance w/, but never hang out w/ her...and the other one is a pretty good friend, but everyone says we need to hook up sometime soon...so which one should i go for...both attractive so thats not really a factor...advice?


i thought about that same situation this week and came to this conclusion.

if the friend is really one of your good friends go for the other one.

if you get with the other one you'll still have your good friend. for when the other one dumps you or you break up. and chances are that eventually you **** things up with your friend if u went with her and then lose her as a friend and have no one.

so id say go for the othe rone and remain good friends with your "good friend"

[devillax57]

cruwys...uhh yeah...hes obsessing over this girl and i guess she likes him back...but he cant grow some...confidence and just hook up w/ her. SHe already said that she'd do it...practically to his face too...so taking advice from him...uh no

[Diesel4958]

SD, thats deep, good thinking, because I'm in a situation like that but neither is a "good friend" and all three have bf's, yes I said all three. I'm leavin' it up to the flow...

[SDPirate]

if that the situation. id just say the flow is eventually gona lead to a fight. which really isnt a big deal.

[ljlax]

Considering I haven't posted in this thread...ALL DAY...I decided I needed to :)

OK
So last night I called him...yeah I know I shouldn't have, but I know that he wouldn't have called..since he's stupid. Anyway, I left a message saying something like "Hey, we should probably talk..supposively you want to but I know you're not going to call because you;re dumb. So call me back if you want to talk..otherwise...umm yeahhh..."
hahaha
and that was ...23 hours ago..
basically I'm never talking to him again..

[Diesel4958]

Wait, you are still thinking about him. C'mon lj if he isn't going to give you the time of day, why do you keep trying? Don't you know when it's a LOST CAUSE!!!

[SDPirate]

cuz she is going to they just broke up. after forever its natural to wanna talk to him. a pretty stupid thing to do but its gonna happen

[ljlax]

Wait, you are still thinking about him. C'mon lj if he isn't going to give you the time of day, why do you keep trying? Don't you know when it's a LOST CAUSE!!!
umm...becasue we NEED to talk.you seriously can;t jsut break up without talking abuot why and everything..especially not after that long. I've called him ONCE since Friday...sooo i'm not like trying..
it's not a lost cause...he;s just a loser..we'll talk eventually...

cuz she is going to they just broke up. after forever its natural to wanna talk to him. a pretty stupid thing to do but its gonna happen
exactly. I mean prettty much my entire little world just changed, very suddenly..I mean waht do you want me to do? Ignore it? helllooo everything's different now.

anyway..he's going out of town tomorrow and the next day soo...we'll see

[devillax57]

well this sux a little bit doesnt it...you STILL have to sit behind him in your classes...you STILL are going to feel the urge to talk to him and see him because you will remember the old times you had...and you will just feel like there is something missing for a long time and not no how to fix it...i suggest move on to another guy....stop thinking about whatever his name is...really it works

[ljlax]

well this sux a little bit doesnt it...you STILL have to sit behind him in your classes...you STILL are going to feel the urge to talk to him and see him because you will remember the old times you had...and you will just feel like there is something missing for a long time and not no how to fix it...i suggest move on to another guy....stop thinking about whatever his name is...really it works
I would be way better with it if we just talked and everuthing. Like we had been having issues and never talked abuot it, I think it would help to give me some closure..
I can't move on...every guy I know grosses me out..

[SDPirate]

this is gonna sound really weak but on the topic of closure. i liked and ex for a really long time it was pathetic. id never talk to this girl again i had a class with her everyday where she sat near me due to alphatbetical seatiing charts. it was horrible. best closure i got was hurting her. when she wanted me back i made out with her realized i hated her and stopped talking to her altogether.




long story short get that closure however you can.

[ljlax]

this is gonna sound really weak but on the topic of closure. i liked and ex for a really long time it was pathetic. id never talk to this girl again i had a class with her everyday where she sat near me due to alphatbetical seatiing charts. it was horrible. best closure i got was hurting her. when she wanted me back i made out with her realized i hated her and stopped talking to her altogether.




long story short get that closure however you can.
Which would be talking to him and being like yea eveyrthing's in the open and our relationship was messed up and we needed to break up
But apparently that;s not going to happen
and burning his crap didn;t help
sooo for now..I'll stay angry

[Diesel4958]

It takes way too much energy to hate, someone once said (I have no clue who) "One must love, before they hate" it is so true. But what is that saying? Hate is really love? Hate is more than love? Wait, I just confused myself, and on top of that I think I am a depressed insomniac, I'll let you figure that one out later. Anyways I'm going to go lay down, think about the entire days contents for example: convos I had, what I did say, what I should of said, what I did wrong, how could I make it better, what I need to do, the list really goes on. After I do that for about an hour I'll fall asleep, have either a really cool, or really sketchy dream or two, than I'll wake up. Wow if you read that you just went through a night in the mind of Donovan, yea I know creepy. I'm writing this dribble/self pity, and if that isn't sad enough it is again on The Lacrosse Forums, at not 1, but 2 in the morning. I didn't think I could stoop to that level of pathetic, but I do tend to amaze myself from time to time. Ok, by now you all probably think I'm a 30 year old man that enjoys talking to little kids like SD, and with that I say Good night.

EDIT: Just kidding about SD being a 30 year old creep, even if LJ said it first. Haha...

[ljlax]

It takes way too much energy to hate, someone once said (I have no clue who) "One must love, before they hate" it is so true. But what is that saying? Hate is really love? Hate is more than love? Wait, I just confused myself, and on top of that I think I am a depressed insomniac, I'll let you figure that one out later. Anyways I'm going to go lay down, think about the entire days contents for example: convos I had, what I did say, what I should of said, what I did wrong, how could I make it better, what I need to do, the list really goes on. After I do that for about an hour I'll fall asleep, have either a really cool, or really sketchy dream or two, than I'll wake up. Wow if you read that you just went through a night in the mind of Donovan, yea I know creepy. I'm writing this dribble/self pity, and if that isn't sad enough it is again on The Lacrosse Forums, at not 1, but 2 in the morning. I didn't think I could stoop to that level of pathetic, but I do tend to amaze myself from time to time. Ok, by now you all probably think I'm a 30 year old man that enjoys talking to little kids like SD, and with that I say Good night.

EDIT: Just kidding about SD being a 30 year old creep, even if LJ said it first. Haha...
Way to ignore the issue at hand...ME

Out of my brother's "Alcoholics Anonymous" book he read me some BS about accepting stuff and having a good attitude etc...
But we were just talking about life in general, not alex..or drinking for that matter.
ANYWAY....
it's not thatt hard to hate..trust me it really isnt.

edit...it wasn't BS..that's mean..I just wasn't in the mood to be lectured...during Thanksgiving dinner

[devillax57]

wow just go out to a party and hook up w/ some guy...ive been saying this all along and you wont listen to it...you have tried pretty much everything else and trust me if you hook up w/ some random guy he is going to talk to you...or about you asking a lot of questions and stuff...so this really isnt just to make out w/ a guy...it'll be bigger than that...and hey some guy will get used!! :clap: :thumbsup: :clap: all guys like random hookups like that w/ no awkwardness later, make his dream come true... :naughty:

[ljlax]

wow just go out to a party and hook up w/ some guy...ive been saying this all along and you wont listen to it...you have tried pretty much everything else and trust me if you hook up w/ some random guy he is going to talk to you...or about you asking a lot of questions and stuff...so this really isnt just to make out w/ a guy...it'll be bigger than that...and hey some guy will get used!! :clap: :thumbsup: :clap: all guys like random hookups like that w/ no awkwardness later, make his dream come true... :naughty:
I'll quote myself every guy I know grosses me out..
Plus I wouldn't want to hook up with a random guy.

[SDPirate]

u could just kiss a random guy...

[ljlax]

u could just kiss a random guy...
eww? Boys have cooties?
Pretty sure I'm never talking to that kid again..

[SDPirate]

me?
jeez it was just a suggestion.
and for the record. i've been cootie free since 6th grade. i got tested.

[devillax57]

it can jsut be any guy...who says you have to like him or not...jsut hook up w/ a guy that your old boyfriend strongly dislikes...or you can just get w/ SDPirate...come on 30 year old stalkers need some loving too :naughty: :naughty: :naughty:

[ljlax]

it can jsut be any guy...who says you have to like him or not...jsut hook up w/ a guy that your old boyfriend strongly dislikes...or you can just get w/ SDPirate...come on 30 year old stalkers need some loving too :naughty: :naughty: :naughty:
ummm..no. I really don't feel the need to do that..


plus for all we know SD could be a 60 year old stalker.

[Diesel4958]

Sorry about my comment earlier, I forgot the world revolved around you, and only you LJ. No just kidding, not all guys have cooties but I think it would be a good idea to piss your bf off, why not have somefun. Revenge is a dish best served cold. Devillax, and LJ I wasn't thinking SD was a 60 year old stalker, I was leaning towards 35 year old guy that lives at home with mom.

[ljlax]

Sorry about my comment earlier, I forgot the world revolved around you, and only you LJ. No just kidding, not all guys have cooties but I think it would be a good idea to piss your bf off, why not have somefun. Revenge is a dish best served cold. Devillax, and LJ I wasn't thinking SD was a 60 year old stalker, I was leaning towards 35 year old guy that lives at home with mom.
haha I was joking...but I'm pretty sure that you know that.
Like 99.99999% of guys have cooties...
Ummm I wouldn't hook up with somneone and even if I did, he would be like ew..wait I guess that's the point
True...He's probably 35 and lives in his mom's basement and plays star craft or something...

[Diesel4958]

I must be in the .ooooo1 range (yes I counted the places). Yea plays star craft while ordering limited edition colectables that only 19 other people in the world have, and will appreciate in value in no time. Wow, we are horrible poor SD is probably crying himself to sleep after reading this. Yea, guys can be emotional too! SD it's ok you always have my shoulder to cry on, way over here in VT.

[ljlax]

SO...I feel a LOT better now..
I hung out with some friends, went to the football game, and then went to this other girls house. They weren't people I really knew, but it was fun. It was weird though because one girl got dumped by my sister's current "boyfriend" (not really bf since they go to college on opposite sides of the country) and he broke up with her and then went out with my sister like the next day..SHADY anyway alex came up and I was like oh..we broke up and then they were super nice etc..like they are seniors and friends with my friends but I don't know them really. Anyway when I got home they called and they all felt bad etc. and then the one girl talked to me for a while etc..which was weird since my sister used to be good friends with her...but not really anymore.. ANYWAY it was really cool..and I don't feel like quite as big of a dork :)

One of my best friends thinks I should just call Alex and say "we need to talk..I'm coming to pick you up now!" and then go talk...but I don't really want to now..
SO over it

:)

[SDPirate]

im crying on the insides. im not 35.... and there is no basement in my house...
anyways. techinically tonite i did well with girls but not ones that matter to me.

[devillax57]

stefi just talk to alex and tell him its over, obviously you need..."closure"...but then go hook up w/ his best friend and watch him cry like a little girl :crying:

and why is everyone ripping on SDPirate? :whyme: ...I bet hes a regular high school kid

[ljlax]

stefi just talk to alex and tell him its over, obviously you need..."closure"...but then go hook up w/ his best friend and watch him cry like a little girl :crying:

and why is everyone ripping on SDPirate? :whyme: ...I bet hes a regular high school kid
I like how I say I'm over it and OK and NOW you say I should talk to him.
Welll...he's in Northern California for state (cross country..)
and I'm fine now soo that's weird.
Like basically...It would be nice to just talk and have this relationship end properly..but if that's not going to happen I can accept it.
I AM NOT HOOKING UP WITH ANYONE..ACCEPT THAT
:)

SORRY sd...you're not a creeper. I'll be your friend.

[zak]

Hmmm, you should try cutting yourself to make the pain feel real. Thats what I do after daddy touc----


Nevermind.

Id still try to make it "end properly". It sounds stupid to throw it all away without at least ending it right.

[Diesel4958]

Yea good job Lj, and SD I'm kidding but you gotta admit it was funny.

[SDPirate]

finally got a problem. dont wanna like the girl the girl i like. its horrible. i cant stop. shes like a drug.

[ljlax]

Hmmm, you should try cutting yourself to make the pain feel real. Thats what I do after daddy touc----


Nevermind.

Id still try to make it "end properly". It sounds stupid to throw it all away without at least ending it right.
OK I almost put "properly" in quotes in my orig post..but I didn't..I couldn't think of what to say! Don't mock me!

OK...welll I'm not throwing it all away Alex is..

Yea good job Lj, and SD I'm kidding but you gotta admit it was funny.
Yes I know..
I'll say it again, I'm amazzinggg
I'm still feeling good. But also realizing there aren't any guys I would like...Today I went to school and shot around with my best guy friend..and well yeah that would be weird...

finally got a problem. dont wanna like the girl the girl i like. its horrible. i cant stop. shes like a drug.
Umm....go play wall ball..or that's what everyone always says. It's never worked for me, but you never know.
Or don't let yourself think about her..and if you start think of bad stuff...like the annoying things shes does..or why it would never work out between you two

[SDPirate]

ive tried. no reason to not like her. no real reason it wouldnt work out.

[ljlax]

ive tried. no reason to not like her. no real reason it wouldnt work out.
so why is it bad that you like her?

[zak]

Im in that boat. It wouldnt be acceptable group/crowd/clique wise if you know what I mean. Plus it would be weird. Couples in my group are just like.... couples. In her group it could possibly involve dates and paretns and commitment and what not. Gasp... the C-word.

[SDPirate]

so why is it bad that you like her?


it isnt at all. i just like. i dont know. it sounds un reasonable and un logical.

[Diesel4958]

SD "like a drug", couldn't think of a better way to describe that feeling. Even if one knows you can't "have" her one simply can not just stop likeing her. It is weird likeing girls that have boyfriends, or even worse boyfriends that are your friends, and on the lacrosse team. I know weird, right. Zak my friend is in the same "class" situation, doesn't wanna ask this girl out because there not in the same groups, my response of course is "and?"
LJ- We all know you are amazing, no reason to rub it in.

[devillax57]

wow dont metion the C-word its horrible.

stefi you arent over him because you are still talking about him...go hookup w/ somebody really go do it...dont make me come out there and make you do it w/ some random guy (SDPirate maybe...?)....OR....you can come back to Hinsdale and you can hook up w/ some skeleton looking punk kids that you hang out w/ here...either way you will get over him

and i have another problem...i think i talked about this ealier...but my friend really likes this girl and she liked him back...but now shes starting to not like him...but he still likes her a lot and doesnt know about her little "dilema". She told me and me only, and i guess i cant tell my friend...what should i do...should i still tell him or should i just wait this out because it might still work...ahh either way i feel like im gonna get blamed for doing something bad here

[SenatorLaX30]

Well i have a problem too lol. Well theres this girl and shes into juniors and i'm into her and we're friends but not close friends or as close as i would lyk to be with her. Has anyonre had this problem lyk u want to get the girl but don't kno what would happen, i dont know if this helps but ones of her friends said i was cute but i don't belive her

[zak]

and i have another problem...i think i talked about this ealier...but my friend really likes this girl and she liked him back...but now shes starting to not like him...but he still likes her a lot and doesnt know about her little "dilema". She told me and me only, and i guess i cant tell my friend...what should i do...should i still tell him or should i just wait this out because it might still work...ahh either way i feel like im gonna get blamed for doing something bad here
Telll her that she needs to talk to him, before things start to suck. That way, we wont have a post two months form now saying "My friend loves this girl and is going to propose but she doesnt actually like him."

Well i have a problem too lol. Well theres this girl and shes into juniors and i'm into her and we're friends but not close friends or as close as i would lyk to be with her. Has anyonre had this problem lyk u want to get the girl but don't kno what would happen, i dont know if this helps but ones of her friends said i was cute but i don't belive her

Read the rest of this thread. Its full of this stuff. Basically, it involves a couple steps.
1)Flirting
2)Drunk Hookup
3)Go out with her

Thats the three step program.

[devillax57]

Telll her that she needs to talk to him, before things start to suck. That way, we wont have a post two months form now saying "My friend loves this girl and is going to propose but she doesnt actually like him.".

HAHA now he is really upset because she did not hang out w/ him tonight and claims that it is "over" between them...it definitely isnt so there is going to be a lot more drama and what not later...i hate drama...anybody else?

[SDPirate]

second that.
u should be like "dude she told me she likes u but u didnt hear it from me"

then all will be solved.

a few other step programs look like

1-flirt
2-hangout
3-
4- profit

[ljlax]

I"M NOT GOING TO HOOK UP WITH ANYONE.

AND I only talk about it here, not to like my friends or something lame like that.

Anyway, that same guy friend. Wait I don't know if I mentioned him yet? But not the Mormon this other guy. Big butt one? Maybe i haven't told you abuot him. It doesn't erally matter. He told me that people were coming over because his parents are out of town. Not like a party just a couple people, but basically the world is gay and they didn't come..so it was just me and him. We didn't like do anything, watch movies/tv, ate, and went in his jacuzzi. We actually watched Next on MTV until 2 in the morning..which was sort of funny. But I think doing anything with another guy would only make it worse since they gross me out..remember?

[zak]

AAAHHHHHHH

"Yeah theres gonna be people at my house you should come."
LJ Shows up: "Theres no one here...."
"Riiighttt.... lets go in my jacuzzi."

Come on. Do you not see what just happened?

[LaxLover546]

I kinda asked this to the dance like 3 weeks ago and someone said I asked one of my firends I haven't seen in 3 years. anywho, I guess a couple a people told her I asked her for the hell of it because my friens rejected me. That is funny cause I haven't talked to her in like 3 years. So now I guess she is going with my bestfriend who must have asked her a couple days ago when he knew I was goig with her and that makes both of them backstabbers

[devillax57]

yeah dont you see what happened...he wants to catch you down on the rebound...so yeah definitely get on that kid...COME ON YOU NEED SOMETHING...but no we'll play it your way...how about you go out on a date w/ another kid...come on its just a date and make sure you go get some ice cream at the place your ex works...show him your w/ another guy and make him jealous..........then hook up w/ him in front of his face!!!

[ljlax]

AAAHHHHHHH

"Yeah theres gonna be people at my house you should come."
LJ Shows up: "Theres no one here...."
"Riiighttt.... lets go in my jacuzzi."

Come on. Do you not see what just happened?
hahaha I KNOW it was soo funny.

Well this girl neither of us like kept calling and my other friend was going to come but her brother is in town (back from college for the weekend..) so she didn't have a ride and I was already almost there..the guy lives like 10-20 min away..depending on traffic and if you speed etc..ANYWAY..
you know what's funnier..
we were like in his bed watching tv.
ew he's gross though.

HOW COME EVERYONE KEEPS SAYING HE'S "Making a move"
the girl that was supposed to come said that like a couple nights ago too when he kept texting me...

OH MY

Why doesn't a hot, smart, lacrosse player "have people over"....

yeah dont you see what happened...he wants to catch you down on the rebound...so yeah definitely get on that kid...COME ON YOU NEED SOMETHING...but no we'll play it your way...how about you go out on a date w/ another kid...come on its just a date and make sure you go get some ice cream at the place your ex works...show him your w/ another guy and make him jealous..........then hook up w/ him in front of his face!!!
umm
NO
That just sounds so unpleasant.

[Diesel4958]

I would have "ppl over" LJ but I'm a sophomore, and have no time..

[ljlax]

I would have "ppl over" LJ but I'm a sophomore, and have no time..
On a Saturday? During break?

Yea last night was sort of weird?

Oh you know what's better. I went in my jacuzzi earlier and I told him because he asked what I was doing and I had just gotten out..anywayy I said something about how I'm pretty lame for going alone and he said he did too. and before I left I was like hmm I should bring a bathing suit..which is still in my car because when he said he wanted to go in I didn't want to sound like a freak and all prepared..so I wore like one of his old t shirts and some PE shorts..haha how funny is that..
I know..I should have just gone to my car and gotten my bathing suit..but that's just weird...

[zak]

HOW COME EVERYONE KEEPS SAYING HE'S "Making a move"
the girl that was supposed to come said that like a couple nights ago too when he kept texting me...


Why doesn't a hot, smart, lacrosse player "have people over"..

Well.... I have one out of three. That aint bad.

Anyways, he is making a move, because he watches TV with you until 2am, texts you, and got you into his jacuzzi. Not that you would do anything about it....

[devillax57]

umm
NO
That just sounds so unpleasant.

unpleasant...more like the perfect comeback...he will start crying right there on the spot...haha fine...just hang out w/ a lot of people and dont show that this is upsetting you at all...go to sweet sixteens and the beach a lot...just make sure you come out of this on top and that guy will wish he never did it... :loser:

[ljlax]

Well.... I have one out of three. That aint bad.

Anyways, he is making a move, because he watches TV with you until 2am, texts you, and got you into his jacuzzi. Not that you would do anything about it....
pretty crappy move..?
If he ever like made a move move..I would laugh so hard.
Wow I'm so mean.

Wait this is what you guys are always talking abuot like
"wahh I like this girl but she has a bf" *one week later* "her boyfriend dumped her! What do I do" .."hang out with her, be there for her, etc" ...."how soon should i wait to ask her out"
OH CRAP..
he's my friend...EWWWW

haha I bet that's how all the girls feel about you kids

[ljlax]

unpleasant...more like the perfect comeback...he will start crying right there on the spot...haha fine...just hang out w/ a lot of people and dont show that this is upsetting you at all...go to sweet sixteens and the beach a lot...just make sure you come out of this on top and that guy will wish he never did it... :loser:
unpleasant
I bet I would get made fun of...like everything I do
like "ewww you hooked up with ROB?"
but then he would be like eww rob...why would she hook up with HIM and feel like Rob's better than him... hahaha no.

Yeah..I'll just not be a loser and try to be social.

Plus I'm fine now...execept I have to see him at school tomorrow..which is weird

CRAP I didn't mean to double post..I meant to edit my last one
sorry.. :(
Don't hate me!

[SDPirate]

well guys my friend got super drunk on friday without me. and i wasnt there to take care of her i feel bad for some reason tho i did nothing wrong. just like i shoulda been there.

[ljlax]

well guys my friend got super drunk on friday without me. and i wasnt there to take care of her i feel bad for some reason tho i did nothing wrong. just like i shoulda been there.
koook?
That doesn't make ANY sense

BACK on topic..
Stefi's problems
Come on...seriously..
Ok
so I texted that guy..because there's this website for out football team..and there's a section that just makes fun of basically our best player..because he's weird..and I wanted to know waht it was. but now he's like talking to me..when all I wanted to do was laugh at this annoying kid that used to always talk to me and freak me out..but he's moved onto different "worlds"..or so he calls girls.
It's pretty hilarious... you may actually want to check it out
maybe you think I'm weird, or my school, or him, or my other friends
but scroll down..
http://www.ljstarchamber.com/Active%20members%20files/Chris%20Jones/chris_jones1.htm

[devillax57]

well guys my friend got super drunk on friday without me. and i wasnt there to take care of her i feel bad for some reason tho i did nothing wrong. just like i shoulda been there.

been there...last night my friend got SO super drunk and i was somewhere else. she was foaming from the mouth..and she almost had to go to the hospital...I also heard blood came out too...but im not sure how much of this is true because girls can exaggerate a lot...but still she was passed out pretty much all night...but now i am kind of laughing at her...because she is a moron for getting that drunk :dummy:

[ljlax]

OK question
to make this boy understand that he's not and will not make a move would it be bad to say something along the lines of..
"Help me find a hot guy to hook up with to piss alex off"
or
something abuot wanting to be single?
I DONT KNOW
help mee..

[zak]

"Help me find a hot guy to hook up with to piss alex off"

Dont say that. It will backfire 100%.

Try:
"You know i really think of you like a brother/dad/gay friend."
"Who is (his best friend) going to the winter formal with?"
"You should workout more, you arent very attractive."
"I heard of this thing called Proactiv, you should try it."
"So i got this rash ... you know... down there."
"Crap...... where does your mom keep her tampons?"
"So Ive got this gay friend and he was wondering what youre doing this (wait for look on his face).... uhoh.... you are gay, arent you?"

[ljlax]

Dont say that. It will backfire 100%.

Try:
"You know i really think of you like a brother/dad/gay friend."
"Who is (his best friend) going to the winter formal with?"
"You should workout more, you arent very attractive."
"I heard of this thing called Proactiv, you should try it."
"So i got this rash ... you know... down there."
"Crap...... where does your mom keep her tampons?"
"So Ive got this gay friend and he was wondering what youre doing this (wait for look on his face).... uhoh.... you are gay, arent you?"
hahaha
or i'll just avoid it altogether.
I've known this kid since I was like 11..
I tell him he's ugly...and make fun of him because he has a big butt...does taht count

[zak]

Not really. Its playful. Just make an off hand comment about his best friend, thatll do it. Its worked for me.

[devillax57]

tell him that he is like a brother...nothing crushes a guy like that one...and tell him that you will help him w/ the girl that he wants to get w/...if he says that he wants you after you tell him these things...hes got some balls thats for sure...but im pretty sure it will work for you

[ljlax]

Not really. Its playful. Just make an off hand comment about his best friend, thatll do it. Its worked for me.
Yeah I was thinking that he might think I'm "flirting" or something when I make fun of his pictures frm football freshman year and the fact that he has a huge butt...but I'm not flirting..and I'm not joking. I mean yea I'm joking..but a huge butt is def not cute.

tell him that he is like a brother...nothing crushes a guy like that one...and tell him that you will help him w/ the girl that he wants to get w/...if he says that he wants you after you tell him these things...hes got some balls thats for sure...but im pretty sure it will work for you
I don't know what "girl he wants to get with" gosh

anyway.. if he gets creepy I'll say something about him being like a brother or that I want one of his friends..

But I was tlaking to him..stillll
and I said I was going to the beach and I think he took it as an invitation..because I said I was going alone. But I didn't mean it like that. Anyway, he's not coming so that;s good. but it was funny.

gosh he probably thinks I wanted to hang out with him again today.

[Diesel4958]

No forget what these guys are saying about "Ithink of you as a brother" instead say "I think of you as a big sister" That is the official crusher.

[ljlax]

No forget what these guys are saying about "Ithink of you as a brother" instead say "I think of you as a big sister" That is the official crusher.
hahah... but no.
Still haven't talk to the ex and I have to see him at school in less than 15 hours.
What to do..
avoid eye contact at all costs

[JHULax4]

this is one juicy thread.. ahha.. crazy stuff

[SDPirate]

basically. he doesnt exist. thats my usual strategy.

[ljlax]

basically. he doesnt exist. thats my usual strategy.
works for me.
he's a loser.
I hate how he pretends to care when he talked to me the day after and then everyone I know is like yeah..basically he just said he was way over it.
LAME? Yeah..way to try and act tough around other people...

[zak]

What to do..



Ask him really loud if he "wants that dirty video he made for you back."

[ljlax]

Ask him really loud if he "wants that dirty video he made for you back."
umm
but that would also make me look kinky..

[devillax57]

uh oh hes coming out on top...but yeah how about embarassing him in front of the whole school...tell him he left his cup at your house and give him this little kids cup in front of the whole class...or depants him all the way and show how that cup actually fits!!! oh man over the internet?...i bet its a little roomy down there :nono:

w/ your friend just say that you want to take a break from guys for awhile...so then eventually he will probably give up on you...or think that he is your savior of heterosexuality...but i think its probably the first one...or i hope :thinking:

[NateA]

I know I havent posted but i read a little of it, to get him off your back tell him hes like a girlfriend to you. Yea that will work

[Diesel4958]

umm
but that would also make me look kinky..


And thats a bad thing??? I'm confused, I think kinky is well...

[CougarLax07]

"So Ive got this gay friend and he was wondering what youre doing this (wait for look on his face).... uhoh.... you are gay, arent you?"

best line to get a guy away i've ever heard

[ljlax]

I feel like I need to talk to him before I see him at school tomorrow.
WHAT DO I DO


EDIT
I made the mistake of IMing him..
It went something like this
stefi-- hey
alex-- whats up
stefi--nothing you
alex--just aobut to go to bed
stefi-- oh
stefi-- ok then
alex is away at 9:44:09 PM.
**away says... dawn patrol ******* who is with me??...

meaning he's not even going to school and going surfing. what a faggg

So...I'm going to go think abuot how dumb that was as I'm going to sleep.
SO excited for tomorrow.

[devillax57]

whats wrong w/ going surfing...but obviously he thinks that this is going to be awkward and is just prolonging the time before you two have to see each other again...then i think you guys will get back together like you always do

[nesll234]

Im on a date for tomorrow. any tips for that akward silince that happens, when you are in front of her doostep, and you want to kiss, but you are both too shy to do it?

[devillax57]

awkward silence on dates...just tell her that she looks nice...but only use this one once...otherwise it will sound like you are going to slip her a roofy. I also suggest doing a fun activity...so there is no real awkward silences...bowling always works...if you find that you are in an awkward silence...just comment on how bad you are doing...and if you do that let her win because then you can drop the cheesiest line EVER..."so i guess you beat me today in bowling...do you want your prize?"...haha works like a charm....but no seriously just go for it, worst comes to worst she says not tonight...or pulls out the pepper spray...

[Diesel4958]

Yea and the pepper spray will only burn for about a day. Trust me, it could be worst.

[laxer41]

So I have this girl I really like, and im not sure if she likes me. I mean shes uber-hot, and I just think she is my soul mate. shes about 5 foot 6 inches, about 180 lbs. I feel bad for her too because her eye brows got ripped off on accident in a freak salon incident. No one likes her that much but I just feel that we really connect. How should I approach her, I just feel really shy when it comes to the opposite gender, and I want a more intimate relationship.

[devillax57]

...freak salon incident...how can you look at this post and not laugh?...well then tell her that you cant give her your eyebrows...but you can put something else in her...thats bound to do the trick :naughty: :clap: :bartmoon:

[laxer41]

Those inappropriate comments are not welcome as responses to my delimma's.

[MinnetonkaLax]

get a haircut and superglue ur cut hair onto her forehead, then ask her out, problem solved....

[laxer41]

oh my gosh, that is seriously a good idea~ not... please take me seriously and dont laugh at my problems please.

[ljlax]

whats wrong w/ going surfing...but obviously he thinks that this is going to be awkward and is just prolonging the time before you two have to see each other again...then i think you guys will get back together like you always do
anyway. I think he just got up early and maybe ditched 1st period..because he was in 2nd..and 5th period with me..

Anyway..didn't talk to him, he didn't talk to me,..I don't think we even looked at eachother.


I was talking to my friend, and she was like wait.. aren't you going out with rob now? YEAH BIG BUTT GUY! OH my goodness! why would she think that? She didn't say who told her though. ahh

Basically both her and this lady that works at our church..super cool she's like 24 anwayyy
They think I should talk to alex
Or atleast be like So are we ever going to talk about this or just have it end..or something

what do you guys think


Boys! All these guys have the same problems..
If you're scared to talk to a girl.
Calm down, and talk to her.
Don't be creepy and don't come on too strong

Awkward silences..I feel like there's a thread on that..otherwise just talk about something you have in common...school? lacrosse? what she did for thanksgiving? christmas break plans? hobbies? if you don't know her well ask abuot her family etc..

[devillax57]

ok his butt is meant for comfort...not speed...leave it as it be...so you have already tried talking to him several times and obviously...he doesnt want to speak w/ you...so trying again seems to be useless...so i suggest waiting awhile...then maybe...maybe you can talk about it...but thats like in at least 3 months...so just take your friends w/ benefits action from your big butted friend and be happy w/ it :thumbsup:

[ljlax]

ok his butt is meant for comfort...not speed...leave it as it be...so you have already tried talking to him several times and obviously...he doesnt want to speak w/ you...so trying again seems to be useless...so i suggest waiting awhile...then maybe...maybe you can talk about it...but thats like in at least 3 months...so just take your friends w/ benefits action from your big butted friend and be happy w/ it :thumbsup:
I only have one thing to say... eww
I will probably wait..but not 3 months.


OH and I shouldn't tell rob that my friend thought we were going out..right? because that would be awkward..

[zak]

Id make him talk sooner rather than later, it doesnt always get easier/better with time in these type situations.

[SDPirate]

lemme tell u im pretty sure i usually get myself into some unique problems.
and lj i seriously say just stop worrying about wat to do about alex.
he died. no need to talk to him

[ljlax]

Id make him talk sooner rather than later, it doesnt always get easier/better with time in these type situations.
I like your advice best..

lemme tell u im pretty sure i usually get myself into some unique problems.
and lj i seriously say just stop worrying about wat to do about alex.
he died. no need to talk to him
You guys don't understand. I was with this kid like my ENTIRE LIFE. He was like my best friend..until things got weird.. anywayy! You can't just like forget about it, like out of everyone I know I am easily closest to him. So it's pretty sad.

What to do about that other kid...and people thinking we are going out already?
Seriously less than a week? are these people crazzy

[devillax57]

agreed he is dead and should no longer haunt you...dont make things awkward either...just dont talk to each other and everything will be fine...except you can put signs on his back saying some funny things since you sit behind him and all...hmmm

"Im a bedwetter"
"Im not as big as my I say I am"
"I rape little boys on the beach"
"I once banged a tortoise"
"I have a yeast infection"

well you get the idea...those are just a some starters for you...i could say more...but they would get a lot more inappropriate for lax forums...so you can do the rest of the imagining :thumbsup:

[ljlax]

Ok..
So another question...How do I get over a guy I have been going out with for 5 years?
and How do you guys expect me to just..stop caring?

[devillax57]

well obvioulsy he doesnt care about you anymore...and moving on to someone else is the best way to get over someone...so that is why i have been telling you all of this stuff about hooking up and what not...it will help you move on...and now hooking up w/ some random guy will also help you get your big butted friend to know that you dont have feelings like that for him...and if that rumor came up...i think your friend is contemplating asking you out...SO DO IT SOON!!

[ljlax]

well obvioulsy he doesnt care about you anymore...and moving on to someone else is the best way to get over someone...so that is why i have been telling you all of this stuff about hooking up and what not...it will help you move on...and now hooking up w/ some random guy will also help you get your big butted friend to know that you dont have feelings like that for him...and if that rumor came up...i think your friend is contemplating asking you out...SO DO IT SOON!!
He can't just NOT care..like after 5 years it can't take 2 days to decide that you don't care anymore..and if that's true..well...I'll sick my 25 year old, ex college football player brother on him! AHH now I'm mad again...
Well, it's not going to happen. I'm not oging to settle for some loser or hook up with someone gross. I'll just have to wait.


Maybe if I talked to him and he said it flat out..then I would be able to believe it and work towards accepting it..etc
Because right now I think I'm still in denial

[devillax57]

well remember how things were getting wierd?...maybe he stopped liking you a while ago...but he was in denial about it too

[ljlax]

well remember how things were getting wierd?...maybe he stopped liking you a while ago...but he was in denial about it too
soo...basically he likes to lie to me..

but the real issue is..whether or not to call him and have him admit it rather than say he still loves me and tell the rest of the world he's over it

and do I tell the kid that someone asked if we were going out and then laugh and say how gross that owuld be..

[devillax57]

no pretend like no one told you about the going out thing...and wait a little bit before you call your old bf...because he might think that you are stalking him

[ljlax]

no pretend like no one told you about the going out thing...and wait a little bit before you call your old bf...because he might think that you are stalking him
OK sooo I'll just avoid that whole thing.

I'm not sure stalk is the right word..you probably mean desperate.

[SDPirate]

seriously. im sorry. but you need to get over him. not to sound mean or anything but when someone is all hung up over an ex its pathetic. you survived before u knew him im sure u can do it again.

and for the other guy just start talking to another guy. no need to be mean or have to tell him u dont like him. he'll just figure it out that u two are just friends.

[ljlax]

seriously. im sorry. but you need to get over him. not to sound mean or anything but when someone is all hung up over an ex its pathetic. you survived before u knew him im sure u can do it again.

and for the other guy just start talking to another guy. no need to be mean or have to tell him u dont like him. he'll just figure it out that u two are just friends.
I know. I'm not all hung up. Well I guess I am, but I don't like talk abuot it or seem upset..or that's what everyone keeps telling me. It's just after 5 years, it takes more than a week to accept it and move on.
Um..I was 12 when we started going out. I didn't even know what a boy was..so that doesn't really work. Of course I survived...I was stoked to be in middle school and changing classes and having a locker.
Yeah I'm just ignoring the whole other situation with that kid. But I can't just not talk to him, because he's my friend. I don't know if this makes sense but, I feel uncomfortable talking to most of my friends. Or like I just feel dumb etc. But I know he's not going to be a jerk. So, I'm like hmm..talk to Hannah who is going to be a hmmBAD WORD or talk to Rob who's just going to be normal. Makes sense to me...

[beach2300]

You are going to care about him, and deep down he still cares about you. After 5 years there is still feelings there. He is trying to be mean for one of two reasons...1. he wants you to get over him. or 2. he wants to make himself get over you. Give it a little time and things will get better. There will always be that strange feeling when you are around him. Its normal, you were dating and now you are just friends. Just keep smiling because life is too short to be down about things. Just remember that it is what it is, and you arent going to change him or the situation, but you can change you and make your situation away from him better. Good luck with everything, and remember that relationships are something special and if you are in a mature relationship everything will work out as it should. Everything happens for a reason<---this is something that I have to tell myself everyday because I lost the love of my life, and I will never be able to be with her ever again. Hold onto the ones that you love because you never know whats going to happen.

sorry if this is a little scatter brained

[Diesel4958]

Stefi, wait I still don't understand how kinky is a bad thing. And forget him, I really liked this one girl, now I like this other girl alot, and we are getting manicures this weekend. Who cares if she has a boyfriend. And yes I realize the kind of relationship the two of us have, but a least I'm talking to her right?

[zak]

I know. I'm not all hung up. Well I guess I am, but I don't like talk abuot it or seem upset..or that's what everyone keeps telling me. It's just after 5 years, it takes more than a week to accept it and move on.
Um..I was 12 when we started going out. I didn't even know what a boy was..so that doesn't really work. Of course I survived...I was stoked to be in middle school and changing classes and having a locker.
Yeah I'm just ignoring the whole other situation with that kid. But I can't just not talk to him, because he's my friend. I don't know if this makes sense but, I feel uncomfortable talking to most of my friends. Or like I just feel dumb etc. But I know he's not going to be a jerk. So, I'm like hmm..talk to Hannah who is going to be a hmmBAD WORD or talk to Rob who's just going to be normal. Makes sense to me...

Yeah I used to have the same thing sorta. It just seemed easier/right with her, than somehow we had a falling out, and now we never talk and it sucks. I dont know, just do what feels right. If that means seeing whats good with this Rob guy, do it. If that means just flat out saying "I do not think of you as that kind of friend," do that. And get closure with the boyfriend. Not that that will make it not hurt and solve all your problems, but it will make it hurt less in the future.

[devillax57]

yeah kinky is definitely a good thing...and diesel...you may have dropped like 10 heterosexual points by just saying that...see what being born on the 5th does to you?...im the 6th, d-day, and i bite my nails...i know they rub your hands and all that stuff, but still...AND she has a boyfriend...wait let me think about this...she has a boyfriend...yet you two are going for manicures...hmmm...diesel i believe she thinks your gay...she wants a gay friend...HAHA dont worry about it but seriously...take her out for some steak or other kind of red meat afterwards to save yourself the shopping trips she might have already started planning

[Diesel4958]

Actually after the manicures were going shopping. I'm like her friend thats likes all the things girls like but is a muscular guy that is straight. Ya try and wrap your head around that one! I've tried it's not easy... No my view is it is better to do something I like with a hot girl, oppose to doing it without the hot girl, am I right? Oh yea and her boyfriend is my friend a jr and on th lacrosse team. And shes a jr. man I can pick em can't I?

[devillax57]

sorry but not too many girls go down in grades...its usually up...and if they go down they are usually pretty desperate...and its a friend whose girl you are trying to get w/...come on now...and hey gay guys can lift wieghts too you know

[Dan]

Oh man, I think I screwed this up. Crap. Date soon. Crap, double crap, triple crap. I hope I figure this out. This is ridiculous. Why am I so handicapped when it comes to girls? At least I was making her laugh all period. Quadruple crap. Things are looking down, kids. Snap.

[chslax29]

girl of my drreams goin out with a Metrosexual!!!!! NO!!!!!!

[Dan]

Hey man, leave us metros alone. Half the flipping school thinks I'm a metro when I just try to dress classy. Give me a break. We don't actually have bodies, we're just skinny. So we dress nice instead. It's all we have. Give us a break. Some people actually think I'm not metro. Which is nice. I'm not. I don't really shop that much. But it's the ignorant or athletic that mock us. Our tactics work. Give it a break, mang, and beat that kid down or give up, but don't knock the well-dressed.

[devillax57]

well there is this one HUGE metro at my school who happens to be one of the top lineman on our football team...yeah 6'3" 240...so not all metros are skinny...this kid could probably break me in half if he wanted to...but he drinks a lot of starbucks stuff

[ljlax]

OK
I don't even know what to think now.
So...since I suck at taking advice..I wrote him a longgg email (hmm we used to do that a lot..going back to our roots..) It was just like a bunch of questions and random stuff about us etc etc. Anyway I sent it last night
..He called me today. I was working on my debate with my group..damn you APUSH...
Anyway I called him back when I was going home..and we talked for almost 2 hours. I can't even think he's a jerk anymore. I mean he's just a pansy, and I already knew that. Basically, he could'nt do it to my face..becasue he would have chickened out. He was drunk..and completely messed up the enture week we had off school..which is hilarious...but then kind of a bummer that he did'nt even think about me the whole break. But then he pretty much thinks his life sucks now and our relationship was going to hell and he didn't really have any friends anymore..etcc Still a loser for doing what he did..but pretty much I messed up the relationship..which I pretty much like to deny, but it's totally true.
Key points
me: "so what happens now?"
alex : "what do you mean?"
me : "like if you could have anything. What would you want?"
alex: "to be with you. on a deserted island. with good surf.. and a ton of maids"
....
we were talking about random stuff and then I was just like random and like "wait..do you still have that homecoming picture up"
alex "yeah"
me "why"
alex "why do you think"
me "I dont know"
alex "it's just hard for me to accept"
me "why's it hard to accept if this is what you wanted?"
alex "i dont know"
silence
me "so are you going to tell me"
alex "i dont want to rush into anything"
me "i'm not rushing you anything, i just want to know"
alex "cuz i'm still ****ing in love with you"

So...good things of the conversation.
--oh yeah and he's already "over the singles crowd" meaning they are lameee and he hates it.

Bad--he "needs time to think things over" and i should think about everything too...
--nothing was changing and everything was getting wrose and he doesn't want that.. etc..

basically. I knew he wasn't completely over it. Because that's just him. He couldn't..I don't think. Basically 3 weeks until Christmas break..and then I go out of town for 2 weeks. So we'll see. I don't know if I would be ready to get back together. But it feels good to know that he cares. Like I don't feel like a complete reject. And atleast I know he has been completely flipping out..esp at school and stuff.

[chslax29]

Hey man, leave us metros alone. Half the flipping school thinks I'm a metro when I just try to dress classy. Give me a break. We don't actually have bodies, we're just skinny. So we dress nice instead. It's all we have. Give us a break. Some people actually think I'm not metro. Which is nice. I'm not. I don't really shop that much. But it's the ignorant or athletic that mock us. Our tactics work. Give it a break, mang, and beat that kid down or give up, but don't knock the well-dressed.

i dont classify a metro because a man dresses nice cause i drees preety nice abrecrombie, guess, lucky.... but this is one of them who spends 150 on a pair of jeans and has a good 20-30 pairs and she has told me he has more clothes than she does and he spends atleast 30-40 minutes on hair.... so I id not mean to offend u in any way or any othe metros

[devillax57]

well this is good news...and o he loves you...?...this might be wierder than i thought...

[zak]

OK
Blahblahblahblah
long post
blah
end


So its not as bad as youve been saying....

...but then kind of a bummer that he did'nt even think about me the whole break.
Do you actually believe this? I dont think you do, and I dont think its actually true.

Not that youre 100% going to get back together, but its gonna get better. Just dont stop talking to him and ditch him for being "lame" now. Basically he went through the same crap you did. I mean you both hate the whole scene, both cant accept it, both are freaking out about it, and both cant talk to each other.

[Diesel4958]

Hahaha, Dan I dress nicely and am not skinny. Not metro, but don't knock on them. Yea so what I like nice things, and am clean. Is there such thing as a meathead metro, maybe a "metro-meat" or "metro-head" I tried...
Devillax, yea I know, but like I said I'd rather chill with her then not do anything, and she is really hot for the record, and nice. Anyways I'm sure alot of kids think I'm metro, or gay, but half of them don't dare say it.
Oh Dan, I got some Royal Elastics shoes, and they seem your style, check out the brand, they are pretty sweet.

[ljlax]

So its not as bad as youve been saying....


Do you actually believe this? I dont think you do, and I dont think its actually true.

Not that youre 100% going to get back together, but its gonna get better. Just dont stop talking to him and ditch him for being "lame" now. Basically he went through the same crap you did. I mean you both hate the whole scene, both cant accept it, both are freaking out about it, and both cant talk to each other.
Basically.
I figure..just let it go. and go on with eveyrhting. If stuff works ok, then OK..if not..well whatever. I can't just sit and wait and pretend like I would get back with him as soon as he wants to.
So a little over 2 weeks and then break starts and I';ll be gone the whole time

[devillax57]

wait...do you want him back?

[zak]

Yes, and she cant stand being without him. Its an allconsuming, every waking moment kind of thing.

[devillax57]

oh man stefi...well they have been dating since they were fetus's so it is kind of hard to lose that "love" they have for each other

[ljlax]

wait...do you want him back?
I DON'T KNOW!!Yes, and she cant stand being without him. Its an allconsuming, every waking moment kind of thing.
I sense sarcasm?oh man stefi...well they have been dating since they were fetus's so it is kind of hard to lose that "love" they have for each other
I don't appreciate the quotes around love.

I don't know what I want. But in a way it sucks knowing that he cares, but still can't talk to me and I can't talk to him. Or he doesn't want to or whatever. and welll that means I can't talk to him. And people at school etc asking about it and how I am is getting frustrating.

[Diesel4958]

If you didn't want to know, why did you ask?

[ljlax]

If you didn't want to know, why did you ask?
ask what?

I want to know.
I don't know what to do.

It's weird. Like now it's just like I feel completely alone. I mean, I said that to one of my friends. and he were like if you keep saying that you dont have friends it just might come true. but it's like I have friends. but it's like whatever. and with alex it's like we both cared and like most people don't care that much about their friends or want to hear about their day or listen to them whine about random crap...because people don't care. and Now I have no one.

Yeah...basically I should go hang out with the emo kids.
gosh I'm pathetic no one to whine to except random people on TLF...

:(

[mikecoyle]

I like this one special lady. What should I do?
Tell her that her hair smells nice....and smile at her.

[devillax57]

hey im not random...you stalk me because you know people i hang out w/...actually a lot of people i hang out w/...and i actually think that you two should and will get back together because you guys arent like everyone at your school and only really fit in w/ each other...things will probably go back to normal and i think you will actually have a better relationship...and tell your friend w/ the big butt that you still love your ex...that'll definitely get him to go away

[ljlax]

hey im not random...you stalk me because you know people i hang out w/...actually a lot of people i hang out w/...and i actually think that you two should and will get back together because you guys arent like everyone at your school and only really fit in w/ each other...things will probably go back to normal and i think you will actually have a better relationship...and tell your friend w/ the big butt that you still love your ex...that'll definitely get him to go away
yesss I have been talking to him abuot it lately.. and he thinks we will get back together too. So that's good.
I don't stalk you. I've known those people way longer. But if you like hunt me down at the Valentine's next summer...I'll probably beat you with my lacrosse stick..

Hopefullly everything works out. If not I have big butt guy.

Should I just wait for Alex to talk to me again? And keep avoiding him at school? etc?
Should I try to get over him while I wait?

[SDPirate]

you shouldnt avoid him but you shouldnt seem desperate.
nonchalant is the operative word

[ljlax]

you shouldnt avoid him but you shouldnt seem desperate.
nonchalant is the operative word
Well. I mean I'm not avoiding him..but I'm not talking to him either. I mean if he's in my class and next to me..I'm not going to talk to him..but I am talking to like everyone else around him...like the guy he switched seats with in psych a while ago..we did math together yesterday. and obviously I talk to Marc...and usually he just sits there until he gets bored/tired and puts his head on his desk and goes to sleep. So I don't know what that means...either he can't talk to anyone I'm talking to and feels awkward and sleeps or he's just tired.

[zak]

I sense sarcasm?
:clap: :clap: For the first time ever!!! Congratulations.

[ljlax]

:clap: :clap: For the first time ever!!! Congratulations.
AND again...

OK
So. I know I'm not supposed to talk to him, and I haven't.

I don't know if this makes sense, but I'm guessing some of you guys have had this problem.
Like I get home at night or I'm sitting avoiding my hw and I want to call him. Just because..I want to tell someone about my day and hear about his...I mean I did it everyday for like who knows how long. But now there's no one that really cares and wants to hear about random, boring things that happened to me today. So, what do I do?
I mean I can't call him and just start talking about how today was my last practice coaching middle school lacrosse, or how this girl made me drive her home and there was a crapload of traffic and it took forever and then the direction I wanted to go was closed to so I had to do a U-Turn where the light was retarded and I sat for like 10 min waiting until I just did the U-Turn on red..because..it was taking too long..so I can't do that..since ..well that would be weird. SO what do I do?

[devillax57]

no i think he wants you back pretty badly...but just doesnt want to admit that he was wrong and did the wrong thing...hunt you down?...ouch i think i have more of a social life than to do that...and have 2,227 posts on here

[ljlax]

no i think he wants you back pretty badly...but just doesnt want to admit that he was wrong and did the wrong thing...hunt you down?...ouch i think i have more of a social life than to do that...and have 2,227 posts on here
Yea but I figure I can't call him. and IF we get back together it won't be in the next two weeks, soo it will be after the break. but for now I don't know what to do! What do I do?
DUH we all know I have NO life.

I don't know if he wants me back really bad. but he might but I think he thinks his life is too complicated right now or whatever...and needs to figure stuff out. So, it doesn't matter how bad he wants to get back together until he's ready and thinks it will work.
SO what do I do?1

[Dan]

This girl, the one I thought was crashing down in a plane with relationship-wise, is great. Just great. Keep in mind that it's still not going as well as I hoped, but she's just so, so amazing. Like, way too good for me but too nice to ever say something like that. Oh man. Yeah. Girls are the greatest. They're so sweet. And talented.

[Diesel4958]

Yea, and right when you think all of that they wrench out your heart and watch as it pumps one more time before it stops...

[mhscats09]

dont ever be a girls friend if u like her. VERY BAD IDEA!!!!!

[mhscats09]

How old r u?

[mhscats09]

fight the other guy show you want her back then when youre in the hospital she will come back because she will feel guilty

[Dan]

Never triple post, son. Never ever. Don't even double post. Put it all in one post, and make sense. How old is who? What question are you answering? Come on man, a little post ettiquette will take you far.

[ShermanLax607]

AND again...

OK
So. I know I'm not supposed to talk to him, and I haven't.

I don't know if this makes sense, but I'm guessing some of you guys have had this problem.
Like I get home at night or I'm sitting avoiding my hw and I want to call him. Just because..I want to tell someone about my day and hear about his...I mean I did it everyday for like who knows how long. But now there's no one that really cares and wants to hear about random, boring things that happened to me today. So, what do I do?
I mean I can't call him and just start talking about how today was my last practice coaching middle school lacrosse, or how this girl made me drive her home and there was a crapload of traffic and it took forever and then the direction I wanted to go was closed to so I had to do a U-Turn where the light was retarded and I sat for like 10 min waiting until I just did the U-Turn on red..because..it was taking too long..so I can't do that..since ..well that would be weird. SO what do I do?


LJ i can relate... very well to whatyou are saying... if you knew my story (LONG) then you would know. Long --> Short... this girl likes me, and she tore my heart out and stomped on it.. so i go and hook up with another girl (her friend) no less than 2 weeks later because i had had my eye on her, and she was always there for me when i was up and/or down. So now the former girl gets jealous as shizzz and now blames me for hooking up with another girl once i was over her. She also claims that she still wanted me and that it was just wrong to hook up with another person. ANYWAYS!!! umm basically idk what to do about her because i dont want to like her back since she treated me sooooo badly and then just stomped on me like i was nothing, but idk if i really have the choice. So idk what to do with her, i call and leave a message saying we need to talk, she doesnt call me back and avoids me in school. She now has all (or most) of her friends against me and they are pissed at me for doing something, when we were over eachother in the first place.
Note: This is a very abreviated story, if its not clear then tell me and ill clear it up

but this just goes back to LJs post saying about the awkward-ness of not knowing who to like and about talking to people on the phone when you are in indecision

post into 1 line.. i know what you are going thru, and things will get better with time, they always do

[ljlax]

LJ i can relate... very well to whatyou are saying... if you knew my story (LONG) then you would know. Long --> Short... this girl likes me, and she tore my heart out and stomped on it.. so i go and hook up with another girl (her friend) no less than 2 weeks later because i had had my eye on her, and she was always there for me when i was up and/or down. So now the former girl gets jealous as shizzz and now blames me for hooking up with another girl once i was over her. She also claims that she still wanted me and that it was just wrong to hook up with another person. ANYWAYS!!! umm basically idk what to do about her because i dont want to like her back since she treated me sooooo badly and then just stomped on me like i was nothing, but idk if i really have the choice. So idk what to do with her, i call and leave a message saying we need to talk, she doesnt call me back and avoids me in school. She now has all (or most) of her friends against me and they are pissed at me for doing something, when we were over eachother in the first place.
Note: This is a very abreviated story, if its not clear then tell me and ill clear it up

but this just goes back to LJs post saying about the awkward-ness of not knowing who to like and about talking to people on the phone when you are in indecision

post into 1 line.. i know what you are going thru, and things will get better with time, they always do
So..basically..do you think I should keep avoiding him and he's avoiding me and he said it would be awkward if I didn't and Well obviously I can figure that out.

But should I spend my time getting over him...or just like waiting. But I don't want him to think that I am just waiting for him to be ready to get back together..helllo if we do get back together I want to be wearing the pants. haha..

Ok...so What do I do? Like I don't know what to do with myself? Seriosuly I have no life..and I want to not think about it/him and usually I don't but sometimes I get pretty bored/lonely....
ughhh

[laxgod1790]

ok new topic. I am a sophmore. This girl is a freshman who is pretty cool. I met her from xc. She likes me...alot. Im not really sure if i should go out with her. I mean it would be nice to go out with somebody but im not sure if it is right

[ljlax]

ok new topic. I am a sophmore. This girl is a freshman who is pretty cool. I met her from xc. She likes me...alot. Im not really sure if i should go out with her. I mean it would be nice to go out with somebody but im not sure if it is right
OK.. no you can't be as self-absorbed as me. So No to the new topic idea...but yes I will respond to your post anyway :)

Why would it not be "right" to go out with her?
One year difference? Is that a big deal..because it's not at my school..or any other school I have ever heard of..

[laxgod1790]

OK.. no you can't be as self-absorbed as me. So No to the new topic idea...but yes I will respond to your post anyway :)

Why would it not be "right" to go out with her?
One year difference? Is that a big deal..because it's not at my school..or any other school I have ever heard of..

lol im not trying to compete with you about self-absorbtion.

sorry about the misunderstanding but like it wasnt about the age difference. It was mostly because that im not sure if i like her or not.

[MaKiMaKi13]

well laxgod i guess the easiest way to figure out if you like her or not is ask yourself what are you thinking about right now if its her THEN U LIKE HER well that and you asked us weither or not you should date her which means somewhere in your subconscience (sp?) means your thinking about her lol so im guessing your probably like her

[faceitoff]

Unta's mom keeps coming onto me. What should I do?

[MinnetonkaLax]

go for it faceitoff, make a move on her and worst comes for worst u lose a freind... o well!

[devillax57]

stefi is kind of self-absorbed isnt she?...and am i the opposite because im always the one answering her questions that she has already asked a couple times?....stefi you are going to go out w/ him again and its going to be the best it has ever been because you both saw what everyone else is like...and you werent like them...so you two are way too alike for each other...probably the only ones alike at your school...so yes it will happen

laxgod i suggest going for the freshman...i hang out w/ a lot of girls that are sophomores (im a junior) and they are a lot of fun...and i do forget that they are a whole year younger...and it is fun to have a girlfriend...and younger girls ALL want to go out w/ an older guy so i do say go for it...and she will probably give it up faster than a girl your age...something i learned through my years :thumbsup:

and faceitoff...i suggest going for unta's mom...take pictures and maybe even R Kelly-it w/ a video...then you can personally deliver them to him...that would just be perfect

[laxer41]

Back to my delimma (SP?) this girl (5'6 180 lb) is coming on to me really hard, and shes uber hot. I dont know what to do, she like cinched off her eyebrows. I mean, if they grow back, then she will be uber hot but not uber until then. What should I do?

[laxer41]

Bump Bump Bump Bump Bump

[Diesel4958]

Laxgod if you were the true "laxgod" you'd know what to do.
LJ- Yes you are right you are self absorbed, but I shouldn't talk because I'm a narcisist.
Devillax- Stop answering LJ.
Laxer- either ask her, or wait.

[HRLAXER]

ok so has anyone figured out how to get over girls yet. i need like a idiot-proof method. my dad is getting married to the aunt of this girl that i was going out with and cant stop liking her. hopefully someone can help.

[Diesel4958]

I am sorry, as of today there is no known "fool proof" way, besides time, I know it's hard but one day, it will just happen. Most likely when you like a different girl.

[slinkyspine]

What do you do when your special lday is getting stalked by creepy stoners?

[HRLAXER]

kickay and if you cant then let someone know cuz stalking is serious

[ljlax]

lol im not trying to compete with you about self-absorbtion.

sorry about the misunderstanding but like it wasnt about the age difference. It was mostly because that im not sure if i like her or not.
Yeah. I was joking..anywayyy
So..are you saying that you may only like the idea of her..like you want a girlfriend..soo figure out if you actually like her and THEN ask her out..using people is badd...stefi is kind of self-absorbed isnt she?...and am i the opposite because im always the one answering her questions that she has already asked a couple times?....stefi you are going to go out w/ him again and its going to be the best it has ever been because you both saw what everyone else is like...and you werent like them...so you two are way too alike for each other...probably the only ones alike at your school...so yes it will happen

I'm not actuallly self-absorbed..or maybe I am.
But I don't talk abuot myself nearly as much as I do here.
But. The point is. Just wait? I mean he's pissing me off? Well, he's not. But if he thinks that I will want to get back together the second he changes his mind..well that's SHADY..
It's just so weird though.
Plus side...I hung out with like these two girls that I hadn't hung out with in awhile. Or actually I do..but it was like the good old days...aka freshman year when we were all attached at the hip.. haha anywayyy basically we watched some movies and then talked about lacrosse for 2+ hours...story of my life..
Lacrosse = best way to get your mind off a guy (or a girl)

[laxgod1790]

Yeah. I was joking..anywayyy
So..are you saying that you may only like the idea of her..like you want a girlfriend..soo figure out if you actually like her and THEN ask her out..using people is badd...
I'm not actuallly self-absorbed..or maybe I am.
But I don't talk abuot myself nearly as much as I do here.
But. The point is. Just wait? I mean he's pissing me off? Well, he's not. But if he thinks that I will want to get back together the second he changes his mind..well that's SHADY..
It's just so weird though.
Plus side...I hung out with like these two girls that I hadn't hung out with in awhile. Or actually I do..but it was like the good old days...aka freshman year when we were all attached at the hip.. haha anywayyy basically we watched some movies and then talked about lacrosse for 2+ hours...story of my life..
Lacrosse = best way to get your mind off a guy (or a girl)

lol ok w/e i think im gonna ask her out to.

anyway wats the story with you lj. I have no will power to read like 5,000 posts. can you sum it up for me

[Dan1212]

ok this is how u get her, ask her to chill. beat the sh*t out of her b/f and take her for urself, who gives a **** if she dosnet like u now whaty have u got to lose ahah