Whine about girls here.

[ljlax]

agreed stefi you want to talk to him...you want to see him suffer and you be over it and dramatically turn him down when he asks you...i think you are adapting back into the social life at your school pretty well...and Dan i think you have this girl in the bag so nothin to worry about...but seriuosly stefi...dont make him cry... :crying:

EDIT:so yeah you definitely have to meet him there...and ouch he puts surfing before you...he definitely wore the pants...so if it is really cold out...how about you make it quick and easy?...then go back to your house...but i still actually think that even though you may think that you are going to say no to him...you wont be able to turn him down
Nope. I'm pretty sure he's still not "ready" to get back together...and even if he was I promised myself (and now you guys) that I will not get back together with him today. Maybe someday. But not today....hopefully I can keep my word..and not make today SUPER awkward..
wish me luck..
I'll tell you guys how it goes...and you can pretend to care.

[devillax57]

whoa...whoa...whoa...diesel im not gay...i like girls a lot more than guys...maybe i just read your sentence wrong...haha your the metro...oh man im just joking...and laxgod1790...im proud of you...i really am...you mad a prime example of what every guy on this thread should do...you grew some and did something...and see where that got him!!!!

stefi is going to take him back, i know it...maybe she will wait till midnight tonight to say yes just to keep her promise to herself...i can see her doing that

[ljlax]

No we aren't back together..
We talked..it was sort of awkward.
Basically. A crap load of stuff needs to change and it's not going to be easy. But we can't like get back together because then everything will stink again..
Um..yeah and then he kissed me
And then I got angry
And I was like OK sooo you do that but am I supposed to keep avoiding you at school etc etc...UGH he stinks.
And then I was freaking out...like always.
But I don't know what's going to happen now. Basically he was like well we can talk (like talk talk) after first period tomorrow. And I was like NO way that's too weird. But tomorrow's a minimum day so we will "talk" more after school...whatever that means.

Seriously. How did I like make out with him...but we still aren't going out or getting back together...
IT WAS ALL HIM. He definitely initiated any physical contact.
BUT seriuosly..
How bad did I mess up?

[devillax57]

YOU KISSED HIM!!!!!!...oh man...you know you kissed him back, it was just natural probably...you guys will get back together...this is just the build-up stage to that...till then you can probably just fantasize about kissing him again

[ljlax]

YOU KISSED HIM!!!!!!...oh man...you know you kissed him back, it was just natural probably...you guys will get back together...this is just the build-up stage to that...till then you can probably just fantasize about kissing him again
Ok. So I'll elaborate. It was more than one kiss.
DARN IT..
Tell me how bad I screwed up..
Like we still aren't getting back together. Atleast not right away. And I feel like that was stupid. But I mean..what else was I supposed to do? Duh.. I missed him!

AHHH
Now what do I do?
I mean we are talking toomorrow.
But is that going to be awkward all over again?

[enjoi]

Does anyone want to make a new thread? This one is HUGE.

[ljlax]

Does anyone want to make a new thread? This one is HUGE.
noooooooooope
I like it.

:)

[MinnetonkaLax]

id say make a new one, this one has gotten BEASTLY

[devillax57]

we might need to...but its going to be hard to see the memories deleted pretty quickly...the thread tells the story of stefi's boyfriend thing which was pretty hardcore...i like it too...can we have this thread framed or something...and just a question...is this the largest thread in the history of TLF...it definitely has to be up there...and stefi...yes you did kind of mess up if you dont want the relationship

EDIT:or maybe just make this its own forum?...just a thought because i bet in 4 months the new thread (if made) will be just as big as this one

[ljlax]

we might need to...but its going to be hard to see the memories deleted pretty quickly...the thread tells the story of stefi's boyfriend thing which was pretty hardcore...i like it too...can we have this thread framed or something...and just a question...is this the largest thread in the history of TLF...it definitely has to be up there...and stefi...yes you did kind of mess up if you dont want the relationship

EDIT:or maybe just make this its own forum?...just a thought because i bet in 4 months the new thread (if made) will be just as big as this one
But maybe I do want to get back together? It's just like IMPOSSIBLE there's SO much that would need to change..and he like doesn't get that like it's going to be crazy hard. Like EVERYTHING...
Ahh
:(

Maybe I do want to get back together.. I miss him...
AHH Why can't I just get over that kid...my life would be so much easier

[SDPirate]

dan.
shenanigans on your life.

[enjoi]

Hmm the people have spoken, although Ljlax's relationship drama is a good Soap opera.

Anyone want to make a new thread about her drama (more importantly WILL SHE LET US??? [seriousley])?

[ljlax]

Hmm the people have spoken, although Ljlax's relationship drama is a good Soap opera.

Anyone want to make a new thread about her drama (more importantly WILL SHE LET US??? [seriousley])?
Can my name be in the title?
If it is...when then I approve...

actually I only approve if I get a special user title!
:)

jk..
sorta

[SDPirate]

i dont wanna sound pestimistic but that kinds sounds like wat happend to me and my ex stefi.

we broke up she liked me. i kissed her. we stopped talking.
hopefully things will go different for u

[devillax57]

but that will probably mean the end of this thread considering lj would not allow us to discuss our own problems...because she is self-absorbed i guess...she said so

[devillax57]

wow and i thought stefi was a rare name...yeah stefi i know you want him back...no question about it!!!...admit it you liked it when he kissed you

[ljlax]

i dont wanna sound pestimistic but that kinds sounds like wat happend to me and my ex stefi.

we broke up she liked me. i kissed her. we stopped talking.
hopefully things will go different for u
but when you kissed her..did you say that you wanted to figure everything out and fix it etc? I sort of doubt it..but that will probably mean the end of this thread considering lj would not allow us to discuss our own problems...because she is self-absorbed i guess...she said so
HEY...that's mean why would you call me self-absorbed
ONLY I can call MYSELF that...
:)
wow and i thought stefi was a rare name...yeah stefi i know you want him back...no question about it!!!...admit it you liked it when he kissed you
Duh I liked it. But now I'm just confused? Like what happens now? If we get back together how long will this take? ETC
AHH

[Dan]

Don't start a new thread. No way. We gotta beat the 1000 post thread that bigDman started. I say, um, shenanigans on my life? What?! Um, yeah, she was sick today, and I'm getting sick. Big day Saturday. I had better be well.

[ljlax]

Don't start a new thread. No way. We gotta beat the 1000 post thread that bigDman started. I say, um, shenanigans on my life? What?! Um, yeah, she was sick today, and I'm getting sick. Big day Saturday. I had better be well.
In the old format..it said what number post each post was in each thread..but now it doesn't..so how do we know?
edit..besides on the thing that says how many posts when you are in the open forum before you open the thread... haha oooops

ooooo Dan are you excited?
What are you doing on your date..


SO I just realized something...even if we aren't back together in two weeks...me and alex are officially in the process..I KNOW I need to get a life and get over him..anyways we are inthe process of getting back together...so should I get him anything..for his bday/christmas?

[The Chariot]

SO I just realized something...even if we aren't back together in two weeks...me and alex are officially in the process..I KNOW I need to get a life and get over him..anyways we are inthe process of getting back together...so should I get him anything..for his bday/christmas?
*sigh* He dropped you over AIM, not even the phone! Buttt, the heart wants what it wants, so I can't blame ya. Definatly get him something for xmas. Nothing big, don't wanna give away too much too early, just enough that he knows you still care, that type of thing.

[ljlax]

*sigh* He dropped you over AIM, not even the phone! Buttt, the heart wants what it wants, so I can't blame ya. Definatly get him something for xmas. Nothing big, don't wanna give away too much too early, just enough that he knows you still care, that type of thing.
Yeah.. I'm pretty much over being mad abuot that AIM crap. There was other stuff going on he was overwhelmed etc..I already got super angry and yelled at him multiple times..there's nothing to do now besides accept it.
He's the one who wants to get back together more now....
Like what...
I mean a card?

for my bday he gave me like some random stuff from the body shop and a gift card to the Gap for $75...I really like gap...
What should I get him?

I'm out of town for both his bday and Christmas so I could always give it when I get back..

[enjoi]

http://www.lacrosseforums.com/showthread.php?postid=473771 new thread :)