Whine about girls here.

[enjoi]

Thank you.

Keep your girl problems in here, we don't want to hear or see em.

[unta8]

I like this one special lady. What should I do?

[fitzy_nb_11]

Well I like this girl,but we're like all competitive and stuff in sports and, I think she likes me too. It's hard to tell though.. and there's a dance coming up what should I do?

[ShermanLax607]

wow, just learn by TRIAL AND ERROR!!! just get to know them as friends and learn what they like and what girls want, works every time, especially if they r a friend of a girl u like


edit, thanks for the thread...finally

[Mavido]

Ok heres the deal, if you like a girl.. Talk to her and be honest and up front with her... Thats all it takes.

[Thrillhouse]

There is this girl I've been spending a lot of time with for about three years now. We get along really well, we have a lot in common, and I think about her all the time. Our parents have met quite a few times and they get along as well. I asked her to marry me and she said yes and the wedding is scheduled for November.

So what's everyones advice? Do you think she likes me?

[Mavido]

There is this girl I've been spending a lot of time with for about three years now. We get along really well, we have a lot in common, and I think about her all the time. Our parents have met quite a few times and they get along as well. I asked her to marry me and she said yes and the wedding is scheduled for November.

So what's everyones advice? Do you think she likes me?
Nope, your hopeless... go jump off a bridge she hates you....


Oh and Congrats!

[zak]

There is this girl I've been spending a lot of time with for about three years now. We get along really well, we have a lot in common, and I think about her all the time. Our parents have met quite a few times and they get along as well. I asked her to marry me and she said yes and the wedding is scheduled for November.

So what's everyones advice? Do you think she likes me?

I dont know man. Ill hook you up with some advice though. A good test is tell her "I'm afraid that you are going to look like your mother when you're older." If she freaks out tell her "its ok, youre not as skinny." If shes still crying, PM me with her number and let me talk to her and I'll .......... work things out.... :naughty: :naughty: :naughty:

[unta8]

There is this girl I've been spending a lot of time with for about three years now. We get along really well, we have a lot in common, and I think about her all the time. Our parents have met quite a few times and they get along as well. I asked her to marry me and she said yes and the wedding is scheduled for November.

So what's everyones advice? Do you think she likes me?
congrats on teh womaaan

[mmlaxplaya17]

i know what u mean enjoi the girl threads were starting to get on my nerves just use common sense when it comes to getting girls and just be yourself if she dosnt liek who for who you are shes not worth it

[laxrat22]

I dont know man. Ill hook you up with some advice though. A good test is tell her "I'm afraid that you are going to look like your mother when you're older." If she freaks out tell her "its ok, youre not as skinny." If shes still crying, PM me with her number and let me talk to her and I'll .......... work things out.... :naughty: :naughty: :naughty:

best advice anyone has ever given about anything in the history of the world. . .ever

and congrats on that

[tkdlaxer]

alrighty so mines not about getting a girl, its about getting over one we had been going out for 2 years and she suddenly dumps me for a senior after a band trip (were both sophemores) its been like a month or so and i still cant stop thnking about her ne advise?

[Warrior]

alrighty so mines not about getting a girl, its about getting over one we had been going out for 2 years and she suddenly dumps me for a senior after a band trip (were both sophemores) its been like a month or so and i still cant stop thnking about her ne advise?

Do sumthin you need to concentrate on to take your mind off of her..i just got over my ex..we were together for about 2 yrs n she cheated on me..its not easy and it does take time..i started reading a lot more, strung more lacrosse sticks (till i ran outta nylon) then just got back in touch with my friends and went out and had fun...

[swordsman]

code of honor on buddy's gfs and exgfs?

[zak]

code of honor on buddy's gfs and exgfs?
As it is often said (when mods are watching)

Bros before females.

No exceptions.

[swordsman]

As it is often said (when mods are watching)

Bros before females.

No exceptions.

Any statue of limitations or spec. conditions.

[zak]

Yeah, but to understand these is often incromprehensible to the average male, a gay/old/married friend is often required.

Honestly though, take a step back and think about waht really matters, who knows you better and who you know like more. Try to keep boobies out of the decision making process and try not to go to harshly on either side. I dont know too great, ive never really been in this type of situation before.

[Mavido]

As it is often said (when mods are watching)

Bros before females.

No exceptions.
Zak... your so wrong.. Bro's before Ho's... Honestly... we wont be all up on your nutz for saying Ho's... Well Dan might, but he's a feminist so... :concerned

[swordsman]

no but post-breakup

[Warrior]

no but post-breakup

Tricky one here...

If it was a:

Mutual Decision : You can still be friends like you were before, just you shouldn't really go out of your way for her...just be a friend...

Rough Break Up {Her Fault} : Ditch her man...i've been there...nothin worse then a women who ditches ya and dont realize what shes got...wait till she comes crawlin back and tell her its her loss and youre better off without her, and walk away...lol {A little mean but meh they usually deserve it}

Rough Break Up {Your Fault + You Want Her Back} : This one is tricky as well...just think of something corny cute to say to her, and if you guys ever talked about something cute or had a nickname for her just play to that, and the good times ya had....Flowers + Chocolate, a cute/funny card, and you're set..

Rough Break Up {Your Fault + You Don't Want Her Back} : Meh, just tell her you dont want nethin to do with her, you'll be alrite if she was really bad enough to make you leave in the first place...

[zak]

Zak... your so wrong.. Bro's before Females's... Honestly... we wont be all up on your nutz for saying Females's... Well Dan might, but he's a concerned citizen so... :not-concerned
Shhhhh Daine could be anywhere.

Seriously though, dont do it. If you really like your friend, you wont do it to him. If its some guy you know and dont really care about, go for it, if its a friend, youll have one less friend.

Break it down:
Bros - Good friends, not dudes, not men, but your bros
Hos - Unless shes the one, shes one falls into this category. Hos being the equivalent of dudes, just another girl.

[swordsman]

Tricky one here...

If it was a:

Mutual Decision : You can still be friends like yoen there...nothin worse then a women who ditches ya and dont realize wu were before, just you shouldn't really go out of your way for her...just be a friend...

Rough Break Up {Her Fault} : Ditch her man...i've behat shes got...wait till she comes crawlin back and tell her its her loss and youre better off without her, and walk away...lol {A little mean but meh they usually deserve it}

Rough Break Up {Your Fault + You Want Her Back} : This one is tricky as well...just think of something corny cute to say to her, and if you guys ever talked about something cute or had a nickname for her just play to that, and the good times ya had....Flowers + Chocolate, a cute/funny card, and you're set..

Rough Break Up {Your Fault + You Don't Want Her Back} : Meh, just tell her you dont want nethin to do with her, you'll be alrite if she was really bad enough to make you leave in the first place...

Ummm I meant if the Bro's before Ho's applies after they breakup.

[Warrior]

Ummm I meant if the Bro's before Ho's applies after they breakup.

That rule applies all the time...wether ur in a relationship or not...


Bro's Before Ho's

Break it down:
Bros - Good friends, not dudes, not men, but your bros
Hos - Unless shes the one, shes one falls into this category. Hos being the equivalent of dudes, just another girl.


Quoted for truth...and because it needed to be posted again under the rule so that everyone knows...lol

[OutBurst]

we were together for about 2 yrs n she cheated on me.

Cheated as in she had sex with someone else? What?

[swordsman]

That rule applies all the time...wether ur in a relationship or not...


Bro's Before Ho's




Quoted for truth...and because it needed to be posted again under the rule so that everyone knows...lol


No I mean wether or not they are still dating. If so is there a waiting period?

[spenny]

There is this girl I've been spending a lot of time with for about three years now. We get along really well, we have a lot in common, and I think about her all the time. Our parents have met quite a few times and they get along as well. I asked her to marry me and she said yes and the wedding is scheduled for November.

So what's everyones advice? Do you think she likes me?

niiiice! congrats. fwiw: being a groom at a wedding is like being in the middle of a hurricane, dont fight it and just relax.
you will have a great time, is one of the best days of my life so far

[Warrior]

Cheated as in she had sex with someone else? What?

yup...then lied about it...and tried getting with me cuz she didnt tell me the whole story...it wasnt all bad though...she came back for "great sex" i guess her new guy was horrible and couldnt compare...lol and so a few of her friends want me now lol


Wow man, congrats on getting married...she might like ya lol :chuckle:



edit:wow im slow but ya i just got what u were sayin man lmao-there is a brief waiting period...i know i wouldnt want ne of my friends goin for my ex even if i do hate her lol...just wait it out for a week or two and be her friend up for a bit

[enjoi]

There is this girl I've been spending a lot of time with for about three years now. We get along really well, we have a lot in common, and I think about her all the time. Our parents have met quite a few times and they get along as well. I asked her to marry me and she said yes and the wedding is scheduled for November.

So what's everyones advice? Do you think she likes me?
OMG DUDE I THINK SO!!! :dummy: :lol: :clap:

[lacrossedawg44]

alright i have kind of a weird problem...the girl i like right now, for some reason, i am completely obsessed with her. But, ive only had maybe...6 conversations with her (besides AIM). She doesnt go to my school...but she lives 10 minutes down the road. I met her because her brother was on my brothers hockey team last year, and we didnt really get to know eachother until this past summer...and i talked to her on aim a lot. Our families have been out to eat with eachother a couple times, and it seemed when we were eating she wouldnt really talk to me even when i tried to talk to her. A couple weeks ago her family came to watch my bros hockey game and i sat next to her, and the same thing happened with her not really talking to me much. Her mom has told my mom some stuff about what she says about me (such as "Reece really seems like a nice guy, can we go out to eat with them again?" and since our bros arent on the same team this year she told her mom she probably isnt going to go to alot of the games, even though she went to alot of them last year) I dont really know what to think, if shes being shy around me or if she just doesnt want to talk to me. I'm pretty sure shes attracted to me cuz she stares at me alot when we're with eachother. What should i do?

[MBLacrosse]

[QUOTE=Warrior]Mutual Decision : You can still be friends like you were before, just you shouldn't really go out of your way for her...just be a friend...

[MBLacrosse]

Mutual Decision : You can still be friends like you were before, just you shouldn't really go out of your way for her...just be a friend...
k has this ever actually worked for someone where theyve gone out with a friend and it didnt work, and u were still friends after it. It hasnt for me. The last girlfriend i had, that was a close friend before we started going out, her and i havent spoken for probably more than 5 minutes in total over the past year and a half.

[gitrdone]

wow, just learn by TRIAL AND ERROR!!! just get to know them as friends and learn what they like and what girls want, works every time, especially if they r a friend of a girl u like


edit, thanks for the thread...finally
Wow "TRIAL AND ERROR" thats nice. Play a little game we here in maryland like to play "watch chris get turned down"

[devillax57]

it seems like she likes u and is just shy around u. Talk to her more on aim and then ask her if she wants to hang out sometime w/ u and your friends. Tell her she can bring a friend too so its not "awkward".

[swordsman]

lacrossedawg-throw a party and invite her... or just do what devillax said.

[navylax500]

alrite i met this girl tonite nd we start talkin nd she kissed me wat should i do?

[Mavido]

alrite i met this girl tonite nd we start talkin nd she kissed me wat should i do?
HIT HER IN THE FACE WITH A BRICK TILL SHE PASSES OUT AND HAVE YOUR WAY WITH HER!!!


actually you've pretty much handled your buisness.. just call her and go chill tomorow.

[ljlax]

alrite i met this girl tonite nd we start talkin nd she kissed me wat should i do?
um her kissing you is a GOOD thing
soo ur "in"
call her
dont be a meany poopy like most boys out there.

[SDPirate]

alrite i met this girl tonite nd we start talkin nd she kissed me wat should i do?


you should probably kill her and her family. then burn the bodies and skip town.

it might sound hard to do but you have to do it. im sorr but its the best way to avoid drama

[Mavido]

Ok all of you with girl problems i have one message for you.

http://img270.imageshack.us/img270/6073/stfu3qo.gif (http://imageshack.us)

[justlaxin484]

not really a girl problem but more like a friend whos extremely (bad word)in jealous of me because i can get girls and he cant...

this kid is like my brother, i even call his parents mom and dad, but everytime i have a girlfriend, he thinks its cool, and funny to say stuff about her, its really startin to piss me off, i could be dating jessica simpson and he would be like "dude, wtf, shes the ugliest peice of trash ever" thats how jealous this kid is. anything i could do to shut him up, besides talkin to him about it, bc ive tried and thats not workin

[Warrior]

not really a girl problem but more like a friend whos extremely (bad word)in jealous of me because i can get girls and he cant...

this kid is like my brother, i even call his parents mom and dad, but everytime i have a girlfriend, he thinks its cool, and funny to say stuff about her, its really startin to piss me off, i could be dating jessica simpson and he would be like "dude, wtf, shes the ugliest peice of trash ever" thats how jealous this kid is. anything i could do to shut him up, besides talkin to him about it, bc ive tried and thats not workin


tell him when he only thinks they are ugly because he likes penis..and he should get over himself...lol

[GBaschski]

not really a girl problem but more like a friend whos extremely (bad word)in jealous of me because i can get girls and he cant...

this kid is like my brother, i even call his parents mom and dad, but everytime i have a girlfriend, he thinks its cool, and funny to say stuff about her, its really startin to piss me off, i could be dating jessica simpson and he would be like "dude, wtf, shes the ugliest peice of trash ever" thats how jealous this kid is. anything i could do to shut him up, besides talkin to him about it, bc ive tried and thats not workin

Well, first of all, beat the guy down with a stick. He'll listen to you then.

PS: Do you realize that your avatar is of women's lacrosse? :imparied:

[navylax500]

alrite have a nother problem i was at the mall wit my friend nd her friend that i met before broke up wit her boyfriend nd like now she thinks i m hot but i like the girl who i was talken about

now all the girls i talk to say i m cute nd i m so sweet nd nice

[Warrior]

If you like the other girl...just tell this girl that you have feelings for someone else but you think she is cool too...no big deal

[Warrior]

Im down with o.p.p r u??

Theres a girl whos got a guy and she sees him every weekend...but everyday in school she is always sayin how she wants me, and ive been getting out during study hall, and she will get outta her study hall, and we umm "Walk the halls" :naughty: :naughty: :naughty: then every weekend he comes around and ill see her again monday and she will tell me she wants me...shes a very confusing person...she only ever tells me she loves me when we are having sex, or about to...and then after that she will only say she likes me...I mean im down for the whole "walking the halls" thing but well idk this situation isjust confusing...

[justlaxin484]

Well, first of all, beat the guy down with a stick. He'll listen to you then.

PS: Do you realize that your avatar is of women's lacrosse? :imparied:


haha holy crap, i didnt even notice

[GBaschski]

Im down with o.p.p r u??

Theres a girl whos got a guy and she sees him every weekend...but everyday in school she is always sayin how she wants me, and ive been getting out during study hall, and she will get outta her study hall, and we umm "Walk the halls" :naughty: :naughty: :naughty: then every weekend he comes around and ill see her again monday and she will tell me she wants me...shes a very confusing person...she only ever tells me she loves me when we are having sex, or about to...and then after that she will only say she likes me...I mean im down for the whole "walking the halls" thing but well idk this situation isjust confusing...

Well if I was the guy she sees every weekend and I found out what you guys were doing...
I'd find you. And I would destroy you.

But its a good thing thats not me...

[Warrior]

Well if I was the guy she sees every weekend and I found out what you guys were doing...
I'd find you. And I would destroy you.

But its a good thing thats not me...


I can beat him if he tries so im not worried about him...he came after me before when he *thought* she was with me...and hes got a glass jaw...so he dont bother me any...

What do you think about opp though...good? bad?

[GBaschski]

What do you think about opp though...good? bad?

opp? not sure what that means...

[Warrior]

gettin with another dudes girl...

[ljlax]

opp means getting with another guys girl friend?
huhh

[laxbabe42]

lol. i read some of this thread. You make girls seem like a completely new subject, like we're aliens. WE'RE NOT THAT COMPLICATED! lol. Talk to the girl, chances are, she feels the same. unless shes a total whore, she'll hear you out and not make fun of you or dog on you infront of everyone else even if she doesn't feel the same. either way, you have nothing to lose.

[ljlax]

lol. i read some of this thread. You make girls seem like a completely new subject, like we're aliens. WE'RE NOT THAT COMPLICATED! lol. Talk to the girl, chances are, she feels the same. unless shes a total whore, she'll hear you out and not make fun of you or dog on you infront of everyone else even if she doesn't feel the same. either way, you have nothing to lose.
SERIOUSLY
its not that complicated
it GETS complicated when u get into a real relationship with the girl..
but just getting the girl. isnt that weird or hard or like anything...

[zak]

it GETS complicated when u get into a real relationship with the girl..
Quoted for extreme truth.

So me and this one girl, went out a while ago. Broke up. Became best friends. ALL her friends say she never got over me and that she just wont admit it and that we would be perfect together. Somehow, she found something like an entire copy of an online convorsation or something like that, and she got really mad at her one friend. So people were apologizing to her and stuff, like the possibility of there being an us again was insulting. Ive been there for this girl for a year, through everything. Trough jerks that she deserved better than, through walking her home drunk in the rain, I gave up a 19 year old, hrony mexican girl because she needed to talk to me, rough spots in her life, EVERYTHING. So now its like, great, Im an insult to you. Thanks alot. Im done with her. I wish i wasnt, but i just feel so jaded.

So do you think im really an insult to her and all her best friends are wrong, or that she still has that some old dumb communication problem shes always had and just cant admit it.

[ljlax]

Quoted for extreme truth.

So me and this one girl, went out a while ago. Broke up. Became best friends. ALL her friends say she never got over me and that she just wont admit it and that we would be perfect together. Somehow, she found something like an entire copy of an online convorsation or something like that, and she got really mad at her one friend. So people were apologizing to her and stuff, like the possibility of there being an us again was insulting. Ive been there for this girl for a year, through everything. Trough jerks that she deserved better than, through walking her home drunk in the rain, I gave up a 19 year old, hrony mexican girl because she needed to talk to me, rough spots in her life, EVERYTHING. So now its like, great, Im an insult to you. Thanks alot. Im done with her. I wish i wasnt, but i just feel so jaded.

So do you think im really an insult to her and all her best friends are wrong, or that she still has that some old dumb communication problem shes always had and just cant admit it.
you'll never know what could have been if u dont try. even if she got pissed about it, it might have been just because her friends went behind her back and were talking to u about how she still liked you. or she might not be sure. like she might be confused. and doesnt know if she still likes you or if it would work or if u like her still. just because she got mad doesnt mean u are an insult. she might be just as confused as you are feeling.
pretty much i wasnt any help. dont dont take her reaction as an insult, unless she flat out says "thats insulting that u would ever think that i would want to be with you" or something to that effect..but people dont really talk like that so i doubt it..

edit
and umm...i think everyone has a communication problem to some extent. its hard opening up, admitting ur feelings etc etc cuz u feel vulnerable etc. so u just need to talk to her i think. and tryy to communicate...


and yes i am so very wise....things really dont get complicted until u guys get attached and what happens actually mattters...

[ladylaxer18]

if shes talking to you like that and ur hanging out, go for it, she obviously likes you a good bit already

[ljlax]

if shes talking to you like that and ur hanging out, go for it, she obviously likes you a good bit already
yeah def.
plus the dance will be funner knowing like "what u guys are" like theres the whole does he/she like me thing going on other wise. but if u guys are already "together" before then it will be less awkward. and mroe fun. she obviously likeeesss youuu

[zak]

I dont know man. She sounds like shes playing hard to get. If I were you, Id hit on her friends in front of her, give her advice on how to loose weight, and then uhh. I dont know. I dont have a good track record with these things.

[OutBurst]

I screwed up so badly tonight I don't know what to do.

Have any of you ever had someone so wonderful that whatever you write will change it all, especially for the worse?

I'm barely stable.

[ljlax]

haha ok. i'll have to like see how things go this week and then like see if she wants to go rent a movie next weekend :thumbsup:
good ideaI screwed up so badly tonight I don't know what to do.

Have any of you ever had someone so wonderful that whatever you write will change it all, especially for the worse?

I'm barely stable.
did that make any sense? or else im just really not to bright..

[mister.joshua]

I screwed up so badly tonight I don't know what to do.

Have any of you ever had someone so wonderful that whatever you write will change it all, especially for the worse?

I'm barely stable.

i got no idea what hes on about

[GBaschski]

give her advice on how to loose weight.

Post of the day.

[navylax500]

like i have changed alot over the summer nd now like i have 4 different girls who like me but like i think this 1 girl likes me but thats besides the point i dont want to hurt any of there feelins becuz i like 1 of them and not all 5 wat should i do?

[zak]

Yargh matey, ye could:

A) Go out with the lassie ye actually fancy, yaaargh that way you dont hurt none o' there feelins when they find out ye dont actually like them and youve been going out for 2 months.

B) Har! Go out with the 'ole lot of the women, and have the most pirate-o-riffic 6 days you can have, until ye cant set face in ye home port for fear of castration.

C) Yargh, stop saying like so much, ye slimy sea dog.

[schratxs20]

i got a huge problem..ok here it goes

me and this grl were together from like sept 3rd to like the 10th she was all over me and asking ppl when im gunna ask her out then the next day when im about to she starts to ignore me and tells me she cant be attached to me and be in a relationship.....so she wanted to be friends...ofcourse my heart was broken cause we both still really liked each other..ok so i gnored her in school and then we started to lk agian like a lil not alot....then saturday she tells me i dont kno how to say this but i think i like u more than a friend again and goes is this bad....i say no why would it be i just dnt want to get screwed over agian...and she goes i kno lol.......so that night there was a hugeeee party and i get there and she like says hi and we tlk for a lil...then after than she starts to ignore me and avoid me...im like wtf...so i see her like all over other guys close to kissing....and this one kid on my fb team is like a kid who has never gotten drunk and starts to freakin like feel her up im like bro bro easy....hes like i cnt im srry so i push him and tell him to stop n ****.....so he stops and says we havent tlked after u told me and goes are we ok so i say yeah i guess....ok i see her all over my other friend...so i go up to her and say i dnt understand u wtff....ur be such a hipocryte(spelling)....so she takes me away for a long tlk saying im srry im srry and says i deserve better and crying on me and saying u think this is fun for me...ok im freakin about to kill someone right now....so as im leaving the party my firend tells me she jsut h/u with the kid who was all over her in the beginning.....now im def gunna kill the kid.....deep down inside i love this grl and think were meant to be together...but on the outside i think it would be wrong to get back together with her since she broke my heart twice......ok now i have no idea wat to say to her cuase all she responds with is im srry ok or w.e......now for the other kid who is on my fb.....what should i do i mean i want to beat the piss out of him but i cnt cause i dnt want to get introuble

what do i do?

[TweeK]

i got a huge problem..ok here it goes

me and this grl were together from like sept 3rd to like the 10th she was all over me and asking ppl when im gunna ask her out then the next day when im about to she starts to ignore me and tells me she cant be attached to me and be in a relationship.....so she wanted to be friends...ofcourse my heart was broken cause we both still really liked each other..ok so i gnored her in school and then we started to lk agian like a lil not alot....then saturday she tells me i dont kno how to say this but i think i like u more than a friend again and goes is this bad....i say no why would it be i just dnt want to get screwed over agian...and she goes i kno lol.......so that night there was a hugeeee party and i get there and she like says hi and we tlk for a lil...then after than she starts to ignore me and avoid me...im like wtf...so i see her like all over other guys close to kissing....and this one kid on my fb team is like a kid who has never gotten drunk and starts to freakin like feel her up im like bro bro easy....hes like i cnt im srry so i push him and tell him to stop n ****.....so he stops and says we havent tlked after u told me and goes are we ok so i say yeah i guess....ok i see her all over my other friend...so i go up to her and say i dnt understand u wtff....ur be such a hipocryte(spelling)....so she takes me away for a long tlk saying im srry im srry and says i deserve better and crying on me and saying u think this is fun for me...ok im freakin about to kill someone right now....so as im leaving the party my firend tells me she jsut h/u with the kid who was all over her in the beginning.....now im def gunna kill the kid.....deep down inside i love this grl and think were meant to be together...but on the outside i think it would be wrong to get back together with her since she broke my heart twice......ok now i have no idea wat to say to her cuase all she responds with is im srry ok or w.e......now for the other kid who is on my fb.....what should i do i mean i want to beat the piss out of him but i cnt cause i dnt want to get introuble

what do i do?

play hard to get, thats what i do and they always come back but i never take em back, so then their left wondering what their life would of been if they were still with me while there doing heroin on a dark street corner.

[michaganlaxer]

i cant believe we need a thread about this

[OutBurst]

i cnat believe we need a thread about this

I know, girls and guys interacting, SCANDALOUS! :dummy:

[schratxs20]

yeah but lol idk how to play hard to get....i like kinda did that and then she told me she liked me agian and u see what happened

[navylax500]

i have been havin alot of girl troubles lately

[michaganlaxer]

I know, girls and guys interacting, SCANDALOUS! :dummy: i was being sarcastic so many people start threads about useless stuff like my girl friend this my girl friend that i am glad they wont start a another thread about stuff we dont care about they will just put it here

[ladylaxer18]

schratxs20, from what i actually understood of ur post, play hard to get by just ignoring her for a while and give urself space bud

[ljlax]

ewww
i hate the whole hard to get
honesty is the best policy bud.

[marflax33]

ewww
i hate the whole hard to get
honesty is the best policy bud.

lol glad to see one lady has something to go by. all the girls at my school act all misunderstood and cry all over u when u talk to them. than we try to lie and say we care and all that lol. honesty is USUALLY the best poilcy.

[schratxs20]

yeah honesty wont work for her i dnt think.....like i tell her the honest stuff and she goes im srry ok or w.e...i think ignoring her will help cause that kinda wat i did last time and she almost came back but i just hate that i have to wait to see what happens

[ljlax]

i got a huge problem..ok here it goes

me and this grl were together from like sept 3rd to like the 10th she was all over me and asking ppl when im gunna ask her out then the next day when im about to she starts to ignore me and tells me she cant be attached to me and be in a relationship.....so she wanted to be friends...ofcourse my heart was broken cause we both still really liked each other..ok so i gnored her in school and then we started to lk agian like a lil not alot....then saturday she tells me i dont kno how to say this but i think i like u more than a friend again and goes is this bad....i say no why would it be i just dnt want to get screwed over agian...and she goes i kno lol.......so that night there was a hugeeee party and i get there and she like says hi and we tlk for a lil...then after than she starts to ignore me and avoid me...im like wtf...so i see her like all over other guys close to kissing....and this one kid on my fb team is like a kid who has never gotten drunk and starts to freakin like feel her up im like bro bro easy....hes like i cnt im srry so i push him and tell him to stop n ****.....so he stops and says we havent tlked after u told me and goes are we ok so i say yeah i guess....ok i see her all over my other friend...so i go up to her and say i dnt understand u wtff....ur be such a hipocryte(spelling)....so she takes me away for a long tlk saying im srry im srry and says i deserve better and crying on me and saying u think this is fun for me...ok im freakin about to kill someone right now....so as im leaving the party my firend tells me she jsut h/u with the kid who was all over her in the beginning.....now im def gunna kill the kid.....deep down inside i love this grl and think were meant to be together...but on the outside i think it would be wrong to get back together with her since she broke my heart twice......ok now i have no idea wat to say to her cuase all she responds with is im srry ok or w.e......now for the other kid who is on my fb.....what should i do i mean i want to beat the piss out of him but i cnt cause i dnt want to get introuble

what do i do?
together for a week. and broke ur heart

hmmm
i have no sympathy
sorry.
im cold hearted

[schratxs20]

ight kinda exaggerated on the breaking of the heart but we were close friends for longer than that....jeese thanks

[zak]

Yeah, you dont "think you love her" you had 10 days of her being all over you, and then when shes not all over you, you get jealous. Its called a crush. This girl sounds a lot more trouble than shes worth. Dont beat the other kid either, it sure as hell aint his fault.

[schratxs20]

well it kinda is.....cuase i told him to stop like messin around with her and he said aight i wont tlk to her nemore or i wont be on her nemore....so an hour after that he comes to me and says are we cool and i say yeah i guess and then he goes off and does that? i mean come on man

and i obv kno what a crush is...

[zak]

Yeah that is messed up I guess. Sort of misread ur post. I just dont like it when someones gf cheats on them and its 100% the guys fault. I think this other kid is clearly not your biggest problem, beating him up wont solve anything..

[schratxs20]

well im not gunna cuase he was my friend and hes on my fb team but it is kinda funny likw he keeps staring at me in a scared look...lol i tlked to him friend and he toldme that hes like i dnt want to fight him...hes thicker than me and is a wrestler lol

[navylax500]

another girl thinks i m hott nd i like her best friend

[pumba]

You have to mkae the discision

[swordsman]

not really a girl problem but more like a friend whos extremely (bad word)in jealous of me because i can get girls and he cant...

this kid is like my brother, i even call his parents mom and dad, but everytime i have a girlfriend, he thinks its cool, and funny to say stuff about her, its really startin to piss me off, i could be dating jessica simpson and he would be like "dude, wtf, shes the ugliest peice of trash ever" thats how jealous this kid is. anything i could do to shut him up, besides talkin to him about it, bc ive tried and thats not workin

hook him up w/ one of her friends.

[geggieman]

can people learn how to spell when they're ranting on about their girl problems? i mean its bad enough just reading some of these but the bad grammer doesn't help either

[Ram-X-Man]

Well, the people ranting about girl problems actually have better GRAMMAR than you. Please, do not insult grammar until you know how to spell it.

[zak]

If you want to be a stickler, "well" is unnecessary in that sentence and should be removed, but who cares. The point is, make your posts readable.

[swordsman]

The idecision disease has been sweeping the lax world...

[ljlax]

Well, the people ranting about girl problems actually have better GRAMMAR than you. Please, do not insult grammar until you know how to spell it.
haha thats funny...

hmmm
i have a girl problem
i am a girl..
wait. i dont have a problem i understand myself, i think.
and boys arent that complicated either.

CALM urselves, girls arent that weird or mysterious. they're people just like you and me! :)

[SDPirate]

actually anytime u have a problem isnt it technically a girl problem?

[swordsman]

actually anytime u have a problem isnt it technically a girl problem?

quoted for truth.LOL

[Diesel4958]

Well (jk), There is this girl I have liked for a long time who has a boyfriend, and has gad him for about a year, last year we had oneclass together and talked alot, hung out, but this year I barely see her, and when I do shes with her boyfriend. Her bf is a bit of a tool but a nice kid, I know that is impossible for her to go out with me now, but I can't stop likeing her. It just pisses me off everytime I see her with him. I can't get her out of my head, note i've liked this girl for way too long. Diesel

[GBaschski]

You have to mkae the discision

Everybody listen to pumba. He's the man...he destroyed some guy that his girl cheated with. That was one of my favorite threads. I salute you. :thumbsup:

[navylax500]

alrite to girls from the same school like me nd there group of friends hate each other nd they both like me wat should i do.

[ljlax]

alrite to girls from the same school like me nd there group of friends hate each other nd they both like me wat should i do.
like pumba said...make a decision
pick one.
who do u like more..etc

[marflax33]

like pumba said...make a decision
pick one.
who do u like more..etc
sometimes thats hard. pick which one u like more. i just stay away from all that completely. ill get to a point in my life where i care eventually (college :chuckle: )

[ljlax]

sometimes thats hard. pick which one u like more. i just stay away from all that completely. ill get to a point in my life where i care eventually (college :chuckle: )
yeah i know its harder than i made it sound
but the girls hating eachother shouldnt really make a difference for his decision, besides he cant really hang out with both of them without pissing them off. plus from his post it made it seem like they went to a different school, so it would be easy to avoid the girls that hate eachother.

[devillax57]

yeah if anything i think it makes it easier, because if you do start going out w/ one of the girls, you can count on the other one not being there when you guys hang out. Try having too girls from the same group liking you, that's the worst

[SDPirate]

just pick one. ones gonna hate u and ones gonna be with you. its the rules. thats whats gonna happen nothing else.

jusyt man up and handle ur buisness cuz if u dont you'll end up with no one

[ljlax]

just pick one. ones gonna hate u and ones gonna be with you. its the rules. thats whats gonna happen nothing else.

jusyt man up and handle ur buisness cuz if u dont you'll end up with no one
so true.
you def cant have both. cuz then BOTH of them will hate you instead of one.
like in season 1 of the OC when seth gets no one. yeahh...you guys all remember that dont u?

[laxattck45]

attack get the girls... middies do all the hard work..and all the others get the leftovers from the attack men lol

[LongstickPimpin]

There is this girl I've been spending a lot of time with for about three years now. We get along really well, we have a lot in common, and I think about her all the time. Our parents have met quite a few times and they get along as well. I asked her to marry me and she said yes and the wedding is scheduled for November.

So what's everyones advice? Do you think she likes me?


No...she's marrying you and she doesn't like you at all...

(Congrats on the marrying thing tho)

[LongstickPimpin]

listen to this:

this girl breaks up w her bf so i go in for the rebound a day after. she says she doesnt want to go w/ me bc she hasn't gotten over her ex yet. 2 hrs later her friend comes up to me and goes do u still want to go out w her, and i was like no dude if she can change her mind that quick she ain't worth it

what do u guys think

[LongstickPimpin]

alrighty so mines not about getting a girl, its about getting over one we had been going out for 2 years and she suddenly dumps me for a senior after a band trip (were both sophemores) its been like a month or so and i still cant stop thnking about her ne advise?

go do some wall drills and shoot on a goal as hard as you can, lol

[laxattck45]

LongstickPimpin- ... i think u r defenately right..cause then if you say yes, she will b like yeaaa i've got him on a leash, plus yea if she changes her mind..it isnt worth it...

[Mavido]

Ok guys here we go, i'll lay out a few simple rules for this thread....

TYPE OUT WORDS WITH 5 or less letters!!!!

u..... IS NOT A WORD

r.... IS NOT A WORD

b.... IS NOT A WORD!!!!!!


Next....

When we use the letter i as a word meaning yourself, you capitalize it using the shift button it should look like I

When we begin sentences we use Capital letters.... Capital letters are as follows ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ we do not start sentences with lower case letters which are as follow abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz

Alas, what are these "sentences" I've been mentioning? Well a sentence is when we take a whole bunch of words, the first of which starting with a capital letter, and then use punctuation.

If you finish a basic statement and need to finish it what will you do? I will recomend using a period, which looks like .

Now if you have a question what are you to do? well they have punctuation for that too! Its called the question mark, hard to rememeber right? The question mark looks like this ?

Alright now what do you do if you have something to say and you are VERY EXCITED about it? Well instead of going out of your way and saying "I'm very excited about this" you could use an exclimation point, which looks like !

[LowRida]

Thank God for Mavido laying down the law (I am serious actually)! Not to go off topic but this forum has really lost something since it's been combined with IL.

[GBaschski]

attack get the girls... middies do all the hard work..

Dude, is that why I'm always the wingman, because I'm a middie? Darn, I might have to switch to defense now so I can have the biggest shaft...

[ljlax]

listen to this:

this girl breaks up w her bf so i go in for the rebound a day after. she says she doesnt want to go w/ me bc she hasn't gotten over her ex yet. 2 hrs later her friend comes up to me and goes do u still want to go out w her, and i was like no dude if she can change her mind that quick she ain't worth it

what do u guys think
Well, if you really like her, then you should have said yes. So, I take it you don;t like her? Maybe she was surprised when you approached her and then she had time to think about it. If she just broke up with her boyfriend then maybe she was a little shaken up, so she may not have been expecting it, then after considering it she realized she did like you...or something.
So, my point is if you like her, don't just say no just because she was unsure of herself at first... Seriously girls RARELY know what they want. You guys should know that by now...

[navylax500]

i chose the girl i am going to ask out and i am going to home coming dance with a girl in 9th and i am in 8th grade.

[rattlerg-unit27]

I guess D is screwed. My HC date decided to go out another guy (from the looks of things, she wants to prove she's not shallow) and I went out with this girl who had so much baggage, her "on again, off again" called her while she was on the can. D-men never get the girls! This sucks!

[laxpimp]

Hurrah for playing attack!

[ViennaLAX16]

she likes me as msuch as i like.....she just wont go out with me.....go figure that

[Mavido]

Ok I said this would open back up after 24 hours, its been about 26, i was busy. So you have been warned.

[navylax500]

she likes me as msuch as i like.....she just wont go out with me.....go figure that

Try Parents.

Thank god this forum is back I don't like to talk about this kind of stuff to people I know.

[slinkyspine]

What if you're like me and can't talk to girls with out stuttering and getting all nervous??

[SDPirate]

then you need to man up and handle your buisness.

or if its easier for you to talk to girls maybe u could just go gay.
not being mean or anything but maybe it be easier for you.

[ljlax]

then you need to man up and handle your buisness.

or if its easier for you to talk to girls maybe u could just go gay.
not being mean or anything but maybe it be easier for you.
Yeah, that was mean.
Since he's nervous around girls, I'm guessing he LIKES them not that he likes BOYS, silly.

So, don't be nervous, it's really not that big of a deal. Just be yourself and girls will probably like you and don't be a jerk...Yeah basically..It's not that big of a deal to talk to a girl, so don't be scared.

[navylax500]

What if you're like me and can't talk to girls with out stuttering and getting all nervous??


Think about what your going to say to a girl before you say it and like girls don't like guys who are shy so just pretend your talking to a guy.

[GBaschski]

So...I don't seem to be attracting good looking girls lately. What can I do to fix this issue?

If someone can hook me up with some sex panther, that would be great.

[zak]

So...I don't seem to be attracting good looking girls lately. What can I do to fix this issue?

If someone can hook me up with some sex panther, that would be great.

Herein lies your problem:

You arent finding any good looking girls because youre asking for panthers. Panthers are not women. Trying to hook up with panthers is most likely why you do not have any good lookin women. For example

Good Looking Woman 1: Hey whose that cute guy over there?
GLW 2: I dont know, i hear hes into panthers.
GLW1: Yeah my last boyfriend was into panthers. Lets leave him to the only moderatley atractive women.
GLW2: Yeah.... lets go make out.
GLW1: Fine, but this time your the school girl.

Uhhhhh..... yeah.

[devillax57]

yeah just think that your friends when you're talking to them. That works for me. But then also dont be too good of friends, because thats all she'll ever want to be.

[geggieman]

It's not that hard to talk to girls guys. Girls are people too. Just talk like you would to anyone else, there isn't anything secret or special about talking to girls. Just smile a lot and don't say stupid stuff.

[Formerlaxdemon]

Okay so here is the deal. There is this girl my brother wants to set me up with. She and I have spoken for a while now on IM and she is really great. We are going out tomorrow and I am just anxious about the whole thing. It turns out that although she is in great shape and all... she has a pretty plain face. Like a 4 out of 10. I hate to seem shallow, but on the positive side I really think she is cool. Its just hard to put aside 28 years of shallowness.

[lacrosse_newbie]

it's weird.. I'm only eleven, but i don't know.

THere's this girl that went to my camp, it was like, love at first siht. That happens to me a lot. Anyway, so, my heart starts thunmping really hard later, and i can't talk to her. Some idiot found out i liked her, and told her. So, for a while, she didn't like me. Then, on AIM, i told her the story, and she asked me out.

Moral: Don't let yor friends know you like someone, unless you can trust them.

And, tell the truth. :thumbsup:

[Diesel4958]

Well I decided not to go to homecoming because well, yes the girl I like has a boyfriend. And I decided It would be easier to just not even see her anymore. I just feel really bad when ever i look at her, I am truly a sad person. I have found salvation in Weights, and lacrosse, the two things that make me happy. This was more of a pity post, so don't feel the need to respond, just felt like I had to say something, If anyone has any advice would b more than happy to hear it.
Diesel

[swordsman]

gettin with another dudes girl...

opp=oppurtunity. Duh I'm not even warrior and i know his lingo. Warrior's lingo and the other Warrior's too!

[devillax57]

umm the best advice is to move on. Find someone new and then u'll forget the other girl, and maybe make her jealous while doing it!!! :thumbsup:

[lacrosse_newbie]

Argh. PROBLEM! There are a couple of girls i like at the other all girls school, next to Gilman. I can't talk to them. o.O I get allsweaty, and tongue tied. Any advice?

[GBaschski]

Herein lies your problem:

You arent finding any good looking girls because youre asking for panthers. Panthers are not women. Trying to hook up with panthers is most likely why you do not have any good lookin women. For example

Good Looking Woman 1: Hey whose that cute guy over there?
GLW 2: I dont know, i hear hes into panthers.
GLW1: Yeah my last boyfriend was into panthers. Lets leave him to the only moderatley atractive women.
GLW2: Yeah.... lets go make out.
GLW1: Fine, but this time your the school girl.

Uhhhhh..... yeah.

Uhhh...sex panther is a cologne. Haven't you ever seen anchor man? I'm not into panthers...

[GBaschski]

Argh. PROBLEM! There are a couple of girls i like at the other all girls school, next to Gilman. I can't talk to them. o.O I get allsweaty, and tongue tied. Any advice?

Uhhh...wait until high school?

[GBaschski]

Well I decided not to go to homecoming because well, yes the girl I like has a boyfriend. And I decided It would be easier to just not even see her anymore. I just feel really bad when ever i look at her, I am truly a sad person. I have found salvation in Weights, and lacrosse, the two things that make me happy. This was more of a pity post, so don't feel the need to respond, just felt like I had to say something, If anyone has any advice would b more than happy to hear it.
Diesel

I'm in basically the same exact boat as you, my man. She has a boyfriend, who is actually quite a jerk, and I get depressed everytime I see her. Lifting, Lacrosse and Running are my outlets.
My friends have told me "Get over it, there are other fish in the sea."
Pshh...its not that easy, but you know what I'm talking about.

[The Chariot]

I'm in basically the same exact boat as you, my man. She has a boyfriend, who is actually quite a jerk, and I get depressed everytime I see her. Lifting, Lacrosse and Running are my outlets.
My friends have told me "Get over it, there are other fish in the sea."
Pshh...its not that easy, but you know what I'm talking about.

eyes on the prize, fellas.

[Diesel4958]

GBashki - Ok well I just found out she broke up with her boy friend, but kind of likes someone else, should I tell her how I feel? Have you told the girl you like how you feel? It's hard Right now is homecoming and all I can think of is her dancing with another guy. I just don't know what to do.

[navylax500]

start hanging with her as friends then after try gettin closer like with like the couple thing.

[SDPirate]

what you should do is ask her to the dance and if she looks iffy then be like oh well just friends is cool to i just dont wanna go alone.

and then at the dance or after you spring it on her that you have feeling for her. then u already got her to go to the dance with you. and she'll probably might have started to have feeling for you.

and then if she is like no after the dance u've already been grinding with her all night

[lacrosse_newbie]

Uhhh...wait until high school?
Im-possible. xD Can't wait that long. :-P

[ljlax]

Okay so here is the deal. There is this girl my brother wants to set me up with. She and I have spoken for a while now on IM and she is really great. We are going out tomorrow and I am just anxious about the whole thing. It turns out that although she is in great shape and all... she has a pretty plain face. Like a 4 out of 10. I hate to seem shallow, but on the positive side I really think she is cool. Its just hard to put aside 28 years of shallowness.
ummm just don't be shallow? you like her as a person...I think that's a little more important than her being gorgeous. plus it would be pretty harsh to like her only on AIM and then meet her and never see/talk to her again.. just see how it goes, maybe she has a few characteristics that don't mesh well with you. but don't just write her off because she isnt a 10

[swordsman]

Im-possible. xD Can't wait that long. :-P

Most girls can't gon on dates till late 7-9th grade anyway depending on a few factors.

BTW, what does xD mean? It's impossible not im-possible (are youtryin to stress it or something?)

[Diesel4958]

haha, good idea, but the dance ended last night.

Is there a way to tell her with out really "telling" her.

[swordsman]

haha, good idea, but the dance ended last night.

Is there a way to tell her with out really "telling" her.

What spring sport does the bf play?

If it's anything but lax:
1. take his girl
2.get friends together to kick his ***
3. Date his girl

If it's lax:
lay off!!!!!!!!!!

[Diesel4958]

nah he only plays football, but if he did play a spring sport, I'm nearly positive he would play baseball, and if he does manage to play lax one year, he's done.

[devillax57]

this would be the third grade approach to this....ask one of her friends to put in a good word and ask her if she would ever get w/ you. then she would tell you what she said, but thats third grade. Just tell her that you want to hang out w/ her one night, then tell her how you feel. If you get turned down, then at least its off your chest. If she likes it then it works. If you dont tell her your probably going to regret it if she is going out w/ that other guy

[lacrosse_newbie]

Most girls can't gon on dates till late 7-9th grade anyway depending on a few factors.

BTW, what does xD mean? It's impossible not im-possible (are youtryin to stress it or something?)
I was trying to stress it. And sorry, I'm an anime junkie. Most anime forums, xD is like smiling with your eyes closed.

[Diesel4958]

Ok up until recently she wasn't talking to me much, but today we talked for a while, and i hinted at maybe doing something but I didn't ask her, what could we do so I could spend more time with her? but it has to be a "friend" thing.

[beach2300]

Does she like to rollerblade? cus that is a "friend" thing. Movies and dinner usually aren't good unless you know she has feelings. However almost any alone time you spend with her others can believe to be a "date". See what she is doing next weekend and plan accordingly. If she has sat off, then say, "I was thinking about doing X on sat, do you want to come with?"

I dont know how old anyone is, but just remember that you have your whole life infront of you, especially if you're still in high school. There are many many women out there, and while you may think everything is perfect, wait until you're older. You will understand.

[GBaschski]

GBashki - Ok well I just found out she broke up with her boy friend, but kind of likes someone else, should I tell her how I feel? Have you told the girl you like how you feel? It's hard Right now is homecoming and all I can think of is her dancing with another guy. I just don't know what to do.

Ahh, no I haven't. I'm not good with confronting people I don't know well and being like "Yeah, so, I have feelings for you"
good luck though :thumbsup:

[devillax57]

just get your friends and her friends and go watch a movie or go bowling, fun, and it works

[geggieman]

i watch movies and have dinner with friends who are girls. just do whatever you feel comfortable doing. even just getting together to study is good progress. just as long as you don't make it awkward, anything is great

[Diesel4958]

Thanks guys, i'll try it out, and keep everyone who wants to listen posted. The advice was appreciated.

[navylax500]

I m going on a blind date for home coming but the girl who I like is going and she just broke up with her boyfriend and now I m not see anyone but her ex-boyfriend is my best friend should and know she wants me to go to her schools home coming game on friday and my bestfriend isn't going to be there.

[geggieman]

if they just broke up, you might want to hold off for a bit, especially if her ex is your best friend. nothing would suck more than losing a best friend b/c you jumped right in where he left off.

[SDPirate]

wow did the guy skip my last post that plan was brillant.

and to navylax and geggieman: "it aint no fun if the homies cant get none"

[swordsman]

Why did this lose sticky statis?

Do pick-up lines work?

[SDPirate]

yes all the time. use as many pick up lines as you can.

/sarcasm

[Diesel4958]

Who was it that said "Ay yo female" I thought that was great but forgot who said it, was it you SD? And geggieman, no hes not my best friend, not at all.

[enjoi]

Why did this lose sticky statis?

Do pick-up lines work?
Because no one was posting in it for awhile.

[swordsman]

Because no one was posting in it for awhile.

Thank you dude. Just fixed it.

[swordsman]

Yea, Deisel I was gonna extually use that. How do you pronounce Ay?

[scruffy221]

I guess D is screwed. My HC date decided to go out another guy (from the looks of things, she wants to prove she's not shallow) and I went out with this girl who had so much baggage, her "on again, off again" called her while she was on the can. D-men never get the girls! This sucks!


not necessarily, me and my friend both play D and we get hotter girls than the attack and mids
D rocks


also i told this kid to start a conversation with a girl with an opening line of "ay yo female!" and it worked!

[devillax57]

its hey, but without the "h". AY!!!

[smooth87]

I have successfully used the "ay yo female." Even though the girl I used it on was my girlfriend, she still came over. So it really works or she just came over because I'm dating her. You decide.

[devillax57]

i think in the right environment the line might actually work. That has to be a pretty messed up environment...but its definitely possible

[SDPirate]

yea th AY YO FEMALE was from me.

im telling you women cant resist guys who are ****s to them.

[UNCdefense]

haha, hey pick up liens can eb sued to benefit u if used right or to break the ice...like if u & a friend wanna break the ice one of u do something dumb like a corny but funny pick up line then the other play it off ya know.....plus like this guy i know his girlfriend & him have been dating for 3 or 4 months now & are really serious...he's known round school as bein a hilarious guy which coulda helped but the way he met her was he saw her in the hall & said "hey your hot, im cute how's it goin"

[Diesel4958]

haha, anyways diesel's sad life update - Talked to her more, still have not asked her to do something, it's hard when all her friends are around, and one of my best friends is semi macking on her. Anyways, I'm planning on asking her to go to a movie, or down town or something of that nature, but first i'll go to one of her soccer games. Wow, life outside of lacrosse, and lifting sucks lol.

[Diesel4958]

Well if I was the guy she sees every weekend and I found out what you guys were doing...
I'd find you. And I would destroy you.

But its a good thing thats not me...

Like wise if I was the boyfriend I'd show you whats up. But you gotta do what u gotta do. She may just be playing you though.

[devillax57]

yeah going to her sports game is a good idea, but dont go to too many cause that will make you look like a stalker....and you definitely do not want to be that :whyme:

[ljlax]

yeah going to her sports game is a good idea, but dont go to too many cause that will make you look like a stalker....and you definitely do not want to be that :whyme:
Make sure you WATCH when you go. My boyfriend used to go to my lacrosse games and like play soccer (pass, juggle, etc) with his track friends during my games. That pissed me off, since he doesn't really like lacrosse (eventhough he says he does...he lies...) Seriously, don't go unless you are really there to support her.

[laxboyjt91]

ok so ive had my g/f for like a month and this weekend i dumped her cuz she could never hang out and she went to a diif school than me and she was nevr online so a day after i dumped her she was begging me to take her back and she was willing to change her hair clothers attitude. shes willing to change so much. shes ok shes not super hot and i guess i like her but imm soooo cunfused

[ljlax]

ok so ive had my g/f for like a month and this weekend i dumped her cuz she could never hang out and she went to a diif school than me and she was nevr online so a day after i dumped her she was begging me to take her back and she was willing to change her hair clothers attitude. shes willing to change so much. shes ok shes not super hot and i guess i like her but imm soooo cunfused
Wow, very mature relationship.
How old are you guys?
Can you call her?(since she's never online)

If you like her and think it's worth the effort then get back together, but if you don't really like her then it's not worth it. From your post you seem young (I am too, but maybe you're younger) Anyway, you have plenty of time. It seems like a pointless relationship that isn't going anywhere, and neither of you are willing to put the effort in.
She shouldn't need/want to change for you.

[zak]

What is there to be confused about? You break up with her... she is sad.... thats not that shocking, especially for your bs reason. It doesnt really sound like you liked her that much anyways, just find someone else to suck face with.

[nclax35]

well I am kinda in between two girls but there both freinds so im kinda screwed.

[zak]

Judging from all those details im going to be lj with a penis for a second:

Take time to weigh out which one you like the most. Theyre both your friends, and someones feelings will get hurt but you have to choose, its better than leaving them in limbo.

For real, choose one, and actually post something next time.

[slinkyspine]

Judging from all those details im going to be lj with a penis for a second:

ahah that made me laugh. But i have a problem. I really like a girl and she likes me btu i need to know how should i ask her out

[zak]

"Hi im name would you like activity with me this weekend."

Hey... i actually could be lj. This isnt too hard.

You could evendrop the "ay yo female." SD knows about that one. It gets him mad bitties all the time.

[ljlax]

Judging from all those details im going to be lj with a penis for a second:

Take time to weigh out which one you like the most. Theyre both your friends, and someones feelings will get hurt but you have to choose, its better than leaving them in limbo.

For real, choose one, and actually post something next time.
Yeah, chose one and fast. If you wait to long they may change their mind, since it could mess up their friendship. And don't say yes to both and be a jerk...you need to pick..."Hi im name would you like activity with me this weekend."

Hey... i actually could be lj. This isnt too hard.

You could evendrop the "ay yo female." SD knows about that one. It gets him mad bitties all the time.
Yeah, just ask her to hang out like zak said or go to a football game or something..not too hard..

Well you aren't as cool as me.

btw...i hate that "ay yo female" line

[devillax57]

no you love it, dont deny it...thats what all the girls say cause they dont want guys to use it out. If any of you guys wants a girl, but is too afraid of getting turned down, use the line and good things will always come.

[SDPirate]

dont worry lj just like lolitas its a south bay thing.

[cubinlobster]

do it the tom likis way dont spend no more than 40 bucks a date and if there is no somthing that you looking for say good by and if a relaition ship goes on more than 6 months when your in high school your whiped.

[ljlax]

no you love it, dont deny it...thats what all the girls say cause they dont want guys to use it out. If any of you guys wants a girl, but is too afraid of getting turned down, use the line and good things will always come.
No it's like degrading..hm that not be he word. But it's like when you call a girl "woman" it's just such a GUY thing to do(that means it's bad...)dont worry lj just like lolitas its a south bay thing.
What is it? Beat up on Stefi day?
:(
do it the tom likis way dont spend no more than 40 bucks a date and if there is no somthing that you looking for say good by and if a relaition ship goes on more than 6 months when your in high school your whiped.
I've been with my boyfriend..over 4 1/2 years..(middle school and highschool)
what does that make him? very very very very very whiped?

[ShermanLax607]

yea so basically this has been solved by master pimp sherm... *thank you*

haha thanks for the help, even tho it didnt really work, i appreciate the support

[swordsman]

well I am kinda in between two girls but there both freinds so im kinda screwed.

Are they good friends too :naughty: ? (do you all get were I'm going with this? :naughty: )

[swordsman]

How hot is the red head? Do you think you want to date your friend in the future? Is your friend hot? If your friend's friend hot? Do you want to out with your friend's friend?

[devillax57]

wow thats a weird story, did the girl seem like the kind of girl that would say that?...I mean by the "I dont want him to call me" thing. Your best friend could be making up that story so you can go out with her friend. I suggest take your chances and go for the girl...if it doesnt work, remember...she doesnt even go to your school!!! You might not ever see her again afterwords to its a you have nothing to lose

stefi, learn to take the joke, and I have a little more class than to call a girl woman!! :WTF:

[UNCdefense]

dude i'd go for it...u miss 100% of the shots you dont take(thats in my teachers room...sweet huh?lol)
walk up to her smooth & casually then do what drives girls like LJ head over heels for a guy......AY YO FEMALE
or.....
"Hi im name would you like activity with me this weekend."
^that could work also.haha....seriously though however u decide to ask i'd say go for it


anyways on to my reason for posting:
Are they good friends too ? (do you all get were I'm going with this? )
^that was hilarious then i realised thats my exact problem & it became much less humorous....basically 2 chicks, good friends...i used to like one of them(her names katie) a lot, but there were a lot of long boring reasons as to why i couldnt ask her out & she knew it too....well now i talk to the other friend(victoria) all the time & to cut to the chase thigns are going much much quicker with her, but now katie is always tryin to gimme attention, i think she's jealous or something......im nto dating victoria yet, cause i onyl get to see her like once a day & when i do she's with katie(hence the problem.lol)....i talk to her on the phone/internet btu thats a gay way to ask someone out...any other guys had a prob like this?it sucks too, cause she really wanted me to go to this party with her this weekend, but ill be in MD the entire weekend which emans another drawn out horrible week of seein katie & victoria everyday & not bein able to ask victoria out


GAH!why are girls so much more confusing.......lacrosse is life

[GBaschski]

GAH!why are girls so much more confusing.......lacrosse is life

Agreed.

You guys have it easy, I'm not even friends with the girl I like (yet).

Anyway, when you're talking to this chick outside of school (phone or IM), let her know that you would like to get to see her more without her friends around (subtle reference to the other girl). And when you get your chance...then BAM! "Ay yo female!"

[ShermanLax607]

problem is solved

[swordsman]

Dude ask out both on different days. Keep it up as much as possible. And when they get jealous worst comes to worst they both dump you or you get to watch them mudfight. If you see your act is wearing thin ask them seperately if they'd agree to a threesome or dump one. If they both agree ask them if they's like it with each other. If they sya yes your in if not find other girls to back up.

[UNCdefense]

haha
you would like to get to see her more without her friends around (subtle reference to the other girl). And when you get your chance...then BAM! "Ay yo female!"
^soungs like a plan
sorry swordsman cant go with ya on this one, i can already tell ya id get slapped by katie, victoria(the one i like, shes asian.....so ya never know there :naughty: :drool: )
thanks though, tell ya how it turns out soon hopefully

[slinkyspine]

what accent should i use when dropping an ay yo female? i jsut cant get it sound good lol were goin out so i want to say it to her nowlol

[devillax57]

a "straight-from-the-projects" accent...let her know whos boss

[fenwicklax89]

potkul you need to get outdoors

[devillax57]

hey its true though...your not going to use a british schoolboy voice to say that. You have to make it sound like if she doesnt come over, your going to powder up your hand

hey your the one w/ over 830 posts!!!!!

[zak]

ok.... now i have to type this again..... DAMN LAPTOP

*Ahem*

So basically this original girl (G1) and her friends are kirkin out because they want you to go to homecoming (HC) with G1. However, you want to go HC with this new redhead (RH). This situation calls for the honesty card.

-NOTE- The Honesty Card requires two things to work properly. (among some others but these are key) Becoming a master at playing the Honesty Card is necessary to not getting your head torn off by the end of your time in High School. Now, these two things are, A) High Drama Potential (i think you def have some HDP here, i.e. G1's friends) and B) a Back-up Bitc----- woman. (your BB is RH). -END NOTE-

That being said, here is your 12-step program to success;

1) Talk to G1's friends. Say : "Listen; I like G1, but i dont think i like her as much as you guys are trying to pressure me into liking her. If you keep doing this, all thats going to end up happening is that she will get hurt. I dont think either of us want that, so let me take care of this."
Act Like: Insulted/hurt; you want them to realize how theyve been messing things up and causing uneeded drama and hurting their own friend.
Because: You'll be screwed if you dont, G1's friends will make your life hell, you need to get them out of the picture

2)Talk to G1. Say : "Hey...so i do like you, but not as much as I think you like me. I want to deal with this now because I cant stand to see you being hurt. I would still love to go to HC with you, but I dont see it going further than that."
Act Like: Apologetic
Because: You dont want to hurt G1 too bad, otehrwise all the work with her friends will go downthe crapper and you be realizing that HDP.

3) Talk to RH Say : "So Im sorry if this comes off as me having led you on in any way; but theres this girl that really wants to go to HC with me and all her friends expect me to go with her. I cant hurt her by not going, im not that kind of guy, but I really do like you more than her. I hope you can understand. Maybe I can make it up to you by romantic activity this weekend. (dinner etc blah blah blah).
Act like: Your sorry you had to do this to her / she deserves better
Because: It will make you seem like a really good guy; this is you going in for the kill, you gotta land RH

4) Talk to your friends Say: "Dude.... RH has bigger boobs..."
Act like: You already got to third with her
Because: You have to sound really soft for steps 1-3, this will make you man-lay again. Try pounding your chest.

Note the title: HONESTY Card. You dont have to necessarily be honest about 100% of the things said above; but you damn well better come across honest on all of it. Any of the four could easily ruin this for you. Even your friends. Serious, people will dig up drama with this situation. (Hence the HDP label). The Honesty Card is designed to get you want you want and tie up loose ends.

With the three girls im thinkin of.... one of the i'm her G1, one of them im her RH, and one of them is my G1. ....sigh....


Just tryin to help a brotha out. Good luck. And remember.... use protection or you'll get burnt.

[Diesel4958]

Slinky- most def a itallian, good ol boy beef cake accent, Like Joey Tribiani from friends. Yeah GBashcki I feel ya, The girl I lke is talking to one of the most popular good looking seniors. I for lack of a better phrase am in trouble. I have no chance, but it won't kill me to try.

[SDPirate]

What is it? Beat up on Stefi day?
:(





no maybe one day ill bring u a cali burrito and canre fries. next time i go skimming

[LaXDaVe]

I've been with my boyfriend..over 4 1/2 years..(middle school and highschool)
what does that make him? very very very very very whiped?

How does he control his ****? seriously. I need to meet this guy and ask him some questions. You guys have been dating longer than you can be in highschool.....I dunno if thats pathetic or really cool...havent decided man. All I know is I couldnt be wit someone that long, lol.

[beach2300]

So this kid on our team pretended to break his finger to get a sympathy date with this girl, and then she found out that he really didnt break his finger. So the question is this, do you 1. beat the kid because he is making lacrosse players look like Sally's 2. break the kids finger so that he can actually prove to her that he did break his finger so that we dont look like Sally's or 3. Tell girl and all other girls in college that Kid has some sort of problem of peeing himself when he gets drunk (as we found out at a team party)

what to do?

[aussielax]

So this kid on our team pretended to break his finger to get a sympathy date with this girl, and then she found out that he really didnt break his finger. So the question is this, do you 1. beat the kid because he is making lacrosse players look like Sally's 2. break the kids finger so that he can actually prove to her that he did break his finger so that we dont look like Sally's or 3. Tell girl and all other girls in college that Kid has some sort of problem of peeing himself when he gets drunk (as we found out at a team party)

what to do?

Eh just break his finger that should fix the prob and hurt him.

[devillax57]

definitely break the finger...then invite the girl to one of your party's and she can see for herself him pissing himself :chuckle:

[ljlax]

no maybe one day ill bring u a cali burrito and canre fries. next time i go skimming
wow your so nice.. :)


hahaha my friend once peed her pants reallllllllly bad...it was funny. i told the story a LONG time ago btu it was funnnny...

i know ay yo female is like a joke..but i just dont like it

[GBaschski]

So this kid on our team pretended to break his finger to get a sympathy date with this girl, and then she found out that he really didnt break his finger. So the question is this, do you 1. beat the kid because he is making lacrosse players look like Sally's 2. break the kids finger so that he can actually prove to her that he did break his finger so that we dont look like Sally's or 3. Tell girl and all other girls in college that Kid has some sort of problem of peeing himself when he gets drunk (as we found out at a team party)

what to do?

Easy. Do all three.

[devillax57]

1) My friend is feeling pretty down because he believes that there is no girl for him. Hes has been asking me for advice about this all year and I feel bad because for some reason we both find each other liking the same girl, but I get the girl :naughty: . He doesnt get mad at me, but he does get a pretty low self esteem. Also he is a little pudgy, but he is a really funny kid, but every girl i know only treats him as a friend :thumbsdow . What should i say to him...if anything.

2)Another friend of mine has been liking this girl for sooo long, almost obsessing over her. They sent text messages to each other every night and she seemed like she liked him just as much. she said that shes not sure though about it...this makes her sound really shallow...but she wants to go out w/ him...w/o the hooking up part. :sad: OUCH!! he's a lineman in football, not THAT big, but a little chubby (210 i think). I just found this out today, should i tell him or should i just keep it a secret. Oh yeah im friends w/ the girl too

this is my first problem post on here...im surprised

[ljlax]

Um...shallow because she wants to go out and not hook up. wouldnt shallow be "you're hot..let's hook up..but you have a bad personality so i don't want to go out with you"
sooo atleast she likes him not his body right?

[UNCdefense]

not entirely sure if anyone cares anymore, seems yall have started new conversations but definitely hooked up w/ victoria t's goin really well...cept ill be gone the first weekend we're goin out that sucks...anyway prob now is her parents dont like her to date, but she does anyway, & this is all really tight thigns r ogin extremely well its like we've known each other forever, but like her parents dont & prob wont for quite sometime have any idea that we're dating which makes it harder to get together....but hey least we're otgether right?score....im so whipped

[UNCdefense]

sorry fo the repeat but defintley used the AY YO FEMALE line.lol......though i did wait til after we'd "officially" started dating still proved effective she found it amusing;)

[devillax57]

well she's not sure if she wants too. She would, but shes scared to hook up w/ him...thats the only thing that's holding her back. That sounded pretty shallow to me

[zak]

I guess thats shallow... being pressed over the physical part. Blower that she isnt that physically attracted to him. Tell him to ask ralph on 34th for some "happy endings." Slip those into her drink and shell be warming up to him in about 30 mins....

...jk...

Tell him to try to loose a little weight and her to quit being a shallow jerk. Shell warm up to him after about two weeks this way, but it is legal, so thats a plus.

[SDPirate]

for anyoone who tried ay yo female this one works alrite.
and you can think tom for it.


"hey i like your hair its nice"
"oh really? thank"
"no not really. i wanted to say i liked your *** but i thought it was to forward.



usually makes them smile which is always good.





and on the people being shallow. lust isnt love. and its just stupid

[ljlax]

well she's not sure if she wants too. She would, but shes scared to hook up w/ him...thats the only thing that's holding her back. That sounded pretty shallow to me
haha scared to hook up with him....
that's cute.
So how does she like him if she's not at all physically attracted to him?

[devillax57]

the way he treats her...like text messeges and just being really nice to her..and shes not scared to hook up, she doesnt want to hook up w/ him. She would if he was better looking i guess, which is the shallow

[ljlax]

the way he treats her...like text messeges and just being really nice to her..and shes not scared to hook up, she doesnt want to hook up w/ him. She would if he was better looking i guess, which is the shallow
But she's not shallow because she still likes him.
That's so weird.
My friend wants to know who you are.
Apparently there's a guy at your school getting a full ride for lacrosse?

[devillax57]

But she's not shallow because she still likes him.
That's so weird.
My friend wants to know who you are.
Apparently there's a guy at your school getting a full ride for lacrosse?

Wait, whos your friend and yeah thats beau, he posts on TLF occasionally as HCLax09. Hes a real good lsm.

[ljlax]

Oh....Hmmmmm
"real good" is probably an understatement....
Who are you so I can tell my friend?


OK...girl problems..
I have none...
but my boyfriend has been pissing me off....he's so oblivious sometimes....

[Diesel4958]

Why can't the girl that i like see that the guy she likes just wants some? I'm mad and gotta listen to some Kanye.

[beast416]

Maybe thats because she just wants some :naughty:

[GBaschski]

sorry fo the repeat but defintley used the AY YO FEMALE line.lol......though i did wait til after we'd "officially" started dating still proved effective she found it amusing;)

Congrats on scoring the chick my friend. You're a role model for those of us lacking in the girl department. :thumbsup:

[Diesel4958]

haha cute, not.

[GBaschski]

Its alright Mr. Diesel...girls are pretty ignorant, chances are she won't even realize she's making a mistake until after she's made it. You just gotta make sure you're the better man for her.





Calm down Stefi, I was joking about the girls being ignorant part. :thumbsup:

[navylax500]

Whats your guys best way to go up to girls you dont know?
mine is: bump into them and start a conversation or we do a shy routine me and my friend this works sometimes

[geggieman]

Well, if you want to talk to a girl you don't know, I find it works to just go up and start talking. Notice something about her or something that she's doing and start talking about. Like go, Hey I see you're doing (activity)! I love that! Just do something along those lines. Its not hard.

[SDPirate]

wow im pretty sure if i sad something along those ines to a girl id get laughed at. badly.

[SDPirate]

Oh....Hmmmmm
"real good" is probably an understatement....
Who are you so I can tell my friend?


OK...girl problems..
I have none...
but my boyfriend has been pissing me off....he's so oblivious sometimes....


your a girl with problems.
girl+problems= girl problems.

havent we discussed this before

[zak]

Heres my conclusion:

She = dumb slut so its not worth my time.

whatever

....so blown

[Krypt0M4g!c]

I've found that me being in a band has increased the amount of girls thrown at me by 75%... and I havent changed a bit... girls are silly, those are the ones i stay away from hahaha

[ljlax]

wow im pretty sure if i sad something along those ines to a girl id get laughed at. badly.
I would laugh

But a lot of girls would find it cute

they're the dumb ones.

but it might work


I DONT HAVE PROBLEMS :(

[Diesel4958]

I've learned that since I lift alot and have gotten recognizably bigger, I get felt up by girls alot more :naughty:, and some guys :concerned .

[ethslax12]

Ok heres the deal, if you like a girl.. Talk to her and be honest and up front with her... Thats all it takes.

well last time i did that i got shut down so now i dont want to do it again.

[Mavido]

well last time i did that i got shut down so now i dont want to do it again.
Then that wasnt the girl for you, your bad, get over it or try again. All you can do..

[hackerwilson]

First thing to do when you meet a girl, no matter how hot she is, you kick her in the crotch. If she falls to the grown in pain you saved yourself from ending up with a non woman creature, also known as a man. No reaction is a good reaction :)

[Mavido]

First thing to do when you meet a girl, no matter how hot she is, you kick her in the crotch. If she falls to the grown in pain you saved yourself from ending up with a non woman creature, also known as a man. No reaction is a good reaction :)
Actually that still hurts girls. Just so you know... kicking anyone any where... still hurts... Actually hurts girls quiet signifigantly from what i hear.

[SDPirate]

well last time i did that i got shut down so now i dont want to do it again.

well then i guess ur gonna have to go gay.

my advice dont play catcher.

[ljlax]

well last time i did that i got shut down so now i dont want to do it again.
HM
laxrat is right..if you're too scared to talk to girls, you're never going to get one. There is no other logical way to approach a girl besides talking, etc etc
I mean what are you going to do besides that?

[Diesel4958]

Hahaha, Mavido would know.

[slinkyspine]

well then i guess ur gonna have to go gay.

my advice dont play catcher.




that was harsh and disturbing. Yet funny as

[hackerwilson]

yeah speaking from experience big guy?

[SDPirate]

no. but im pretty sure having an indefinite object lodged in my *** wouldnt be much fun.
im just going by logic

[patlax22]

i just want someones advice on to if she is lying or not.. I went out with this girl on and off for about two years... shes really flirty (and im the jealous type) and anyways she would flirt with this one kid non stop like always be writing on his hand or talking to him an inch away, he would say some stupid sexual things to her and i would always get mad, but she claimed to me that she never liked him that way and she only liked me.. well a couple months after we broke up she is dating the kid she used to flirt with.. so i think she lied to me about how she had no feelings for him when we were dating .. and she didnt just start liking him after we broke up.. do u think that she lied?

[devillax57]

no it does...i did it to my friend and she hit me pretty hard. I didnt think it hurt either, but supposedly it does.....wait just ask stefi!!!!!

[Dan]

Yes. Just a guess. It's only so obvious.

I'm all set. I'm square. Life is good. My pal is gonna set me up with a sophomore I have a huge crush on. Score! I have girl problems, but nothing compared to last year. I'm still a major kook, though, and ljlax has too many PM's in her inbox, the silly girl.

[devillax57]

uh oh going for the soph's...im just joking I hang out w/ a lot of sophomore girls, because all of the good girls in my year go up w/ the seniors. I dont care, they are less dramatic anyway...especially if you are just looking for that one time thing :naughty: