View Full Version : When did you start Dating
XxlacrossexX
05-13-2006, 10:44 PM
Title says it all.. When did you start dating?
Sycamorelax
05-13-2006, 10:46 PM
6th grade?
NuKoN
05-13-2006, 10:51 PM
My first girlfriend was when I was 13 (7th grade).. it was a disaster.
XxlacrossexX
05-13-2006, 10:54 PM
Lol... I'm in 6th, almost in 7th. Looks like I should start. :thinking:
slinkyspine
05-13-2006, 10:56 PM
8th grade. Not worth it man... wait till HS. If you can't drive its useless. Mommie and Daddy suck. Especialy when you wanna get some.
laxattack1616
05-13-2006, 10:58 PM
I havent yet =(. I m not too bad around girls, but I dont know how im ever gonna get the courage to ask one out.
XxlacrossexX
05-13-2006, 10:58 PM
ROFLCOPTER LOLERSKATES, OMGWTFBBQ, Im 12 man
gigo567
05-13-2006, 10:59 PM
When I was 3 years old, I am a pimp.
MDlaxin69
05-13-2006, 10:59 PM
erm... my first "girlfriend" was in 4th grade.
If your talking about literally going on a date then 6th grade (not same girlfriend)
XxlacrossexX
05-13-2006, 11:02 PM
What do you do at my age? Go out to the movies?
LAXinJD
05-13-2006, 11:07 PM
Try just not going out at all. When you get to high school you will just regret it anyways. Just hang out with some of your friends instead.
NuKoN
05-13-2006, 11:16 PM
I havent yet =(. I m not too bad around girls, but I dont know how im ever gonna get the courage to ask one out.
Just don't think about it so much, just do it.
What do you do at my age? Go out to the movies?
Just went not too long ago.. movies are work pretty well, but you can go hang out at the mall or whatever too.
shamrock22
05-13-2006, 11:16 PM
Try just not going out at all. When you get to high school you will just regret it anyways. Just hang out with some of your friends instead.
this is so true...
laxattack1616
05-13-2006, 11:19 PM
Just don't think about it so much, just do it.
.
Thats not really my problem, its knowing what to says so I dont look stupid.
I dont really like anybody now though.
GeorgiaMiddie2
05-13-2006, 11:21 PM
seriously man... just wit till high school to date... you're just wasting your time until then. you have plenty of time in life to date.
livin4lax09
05-13-2006, 11:28 PM
what would you define as dating? I had plenty of middle school relationships. But they were just your typical middle school ones. I had one girlfriend for 3 months in hs, then another one for 3 years. And that's all.
laxattack17
05-13-2006, 11:32 PM
Lol... I'm in 6th, almost in 7th. Looks like I should start. :thinking:
From what I have heard, no you don't.
I have never been on a date and i am in 10th rising 11th grade.
FPDefense
05-13-2006, 11:37 PM
I'm with my first (and hopefully only) still, so last september. And I couldn't be happier.
XxlacrossexX
05-13-2006, 11:39 PM
Im planning already...
;)
flyersrule9733
05-13-2006, 11:42 PM
im a freshman and i just started my second one, besides the ones in middle school and all cause no one cares about them
heyromo07
05-14-2006, 01:22 AM
anything less than high school straight up just doesnt count...
4 months after I turned 16, I went on my first date. I was an idiot and nervous and uptight and all this crap. Eh, it's hard to learn without experience, so I'm not unhappy. Anyway. Dating young is stupid and lame. Go on dates when you're older, you're smarter and you have more fun. Seriously.
marflax33
05-14-2006, 01:43 AM
Ill start dating when i feel like it. At the moment, i dont really like anyone, so whats the point???
It depends on what you call dating. Either 6th or 8th grade.
Wubbie
05-14-2006, 08:32 AM
I'm also a fellow 6th grade pimp...
Straight up... I'm filled with prestige.
MidiLine1
05-14-2006, 08:39 AM
Yeah, I'm another 6th grader and have had gone a couple dates. But i have had numerous gfs. I'm aother 6th grade pimp :)
That guy
05-14-2006, 09:00 AM
wait till hs the only thing you can do earlier is watch movies and when that can have some perks most likely it will end up with her sitting next to a big fat man at a packed theater who smells of bacon
wait till you can drive and take her cool places like beaches concerts and stuff
D Bay
05-14-2006, 09:36 AM
Thats not really my problem, its knowing what to says so I dont look stupid.
I dont really like anybody now though.
If you're set on it, just be casual about it, you don't have to be all formal or anything. Just be like hey, wanna go out to [wherever] with me some time? Odds are, they will say yes, but in middle school eh, maybe, maybe not. If they say no, just brush it off and be like alright, that's cool. If they're not totally stuck up or whatever, they won't make a big deal of it or embarrass you or whatever. But I would wait until at least high school to date, cuz if you have a car, you can go wherever and people are more mature.
syracuselax3
05-14-2006, 09:47 AM
erm... my first "girlfriend" was in 4th grade.
If your talking about literally going on a date then 6th grade (not same girlfriend)
Same here..Except my first date was 7th.
bayhawkslax216
05-14-2006, 09:47 AM
yeah man, deffinately wait until highschool. I had a girlfriend in 6th grade - I had 'liked' her ever since 3rd or 4th grade, and then in 6th i asked her out, we went out for a week, went on a group date to the movie 'What Women Want,' and then I got my friend to dump her on AIM for me.
And after that, I didn't date until first semester of Junior year, and needless to say, the experience is much better now.
CAPiTA139
05-14-2006, 09:51 AM
What do you do at my age? Go out to the movies?
yeah, just go to the movies, hang out at her place and with other friends. Ice skatings also fun but just dont let her fall alot, haha. I had my first "girlfriend" in about 4th grade and my first date in 8th grade. I think its terrible having your sister or rents driving you to dates, so im holding off until i get my license or permit. Its not to bad if your going out with your older sisters friend and your sister drives you places. :chuckle:
XxlacrossexX
05-14-2006, 10:40 AM
The younger you start, the more experience you have
ljlax
05-14-2006, 10:49 AM
Well..I had my first "boyfriend" in 6th grade...but we didn't go on our first date until 7th.. We also only went to movies until probably the beginning of ninth...and finally broke up in 11th...
Middle school was pointless...he was a jerk most of high school...
point is...most middle school relationships don't last/aren't worth it and if you make it to high school....the boy will be a jerk...
So...date in middle and high school but realize that you shoudln't take it too seirously most of the time...
Monzo
05-14-2006, 10:54 AM
I think dating is kind of pointless until at least one of you can drive.
But I do it anyway. Oh well. Only one more year...
That guy
05-14-2006, 10:54 AM
listen to her^^
also dont do any groupdates those are trash you dont get to really DO anything i hate them
carolinafreak
05-14-2006, 10:57 AM
6th grade i think
bhslax12
05-14-2006, 10:58 AM
i dated a chick in 6th grade for 8 months, now i know its not worth it. i'll be a sophomore next year and i havent had a girlfriend since. a few hook-ups here and there but i'm not into commitment now.
lax4life6
05-14-2006, 11:23 AM
i got "married" in preschool haha. but my first date was 5th grade i think and it was just to the movies
BioPro29
05-14-2006, 11:34 AM
I havent yet =(. I m not too bad around girls, but I dont know how im ever gonna get the courage to ask one out.
Tru dat man. Im sure i could get one, just not one i find attractive.
WickedDpole21
05-14-2006, 11:39 AM
for now, just go out with a bunch of your and her firends. somewhere around 5 or 6. its fun and not as awkward. besides, if it doesnt go weel, u can just hang out with some of ur guy friends.
penguinwobbler
05-14-2006, 11:39 AM
first grade, i was a tru pimp. nah like 5th, we went to the movies and probally didnt say one word to eachother.
Superman
05-14-2006, 12:06 PM
oh boy... this brings back both good and bad memories. first girl i went out with would be in about 5th we actually went to the movies and stuff and eventually i kissed her (in 5th grade). and then after i went out with this other girl in 6th who i thought was pretty good looking at the time, little did i know that 5 years later she would be one of the weirdest people you could see. so yeah, it had its ups and downs.
WickedDpole21
05-14-2006, 12:20 PM
and then after i went out with this other girl in 6th who i thought was pretty good looking at the time, little did i know that 5 years later she would be one of the weirdest people you could see. so yeah, it had its ups and downs.
exact opposite for me. i was like best friends with this girl all through elementary school cuz our moms were best friends. then last summer she came back to school and i was like "wow, :wow: when did u get so hot"
and all my friends were jealous cuz we still hung out only she was suddenly really hot :hot:
gigo567
05-14-2006, 12:25 PM
exact opposite for me. i was like best friends with this girl all through elementary school cuz our moms were best friends. then last summer she came back to school and i was like "wow, :wow: when did u get so hot"
and all my friends were jealous cuz we still hung out only she was suddenly really hot :hot:
But she is you friend so you can't go out with her, it would be akward because you and her parents are friends...
MUHAHAHA!
WickedDpole21
05-14-2006, 12:43 PM
But she is you friend so you can't go out with her, it would be akward because you and her parents are friends...
MUHAHAHA!
exactly. and i keep trying to convince my self that it could ruin our relationship but still, im not gay so i want to of course :banghead:
Warrior
05-14-2006, 12:45 PM
8th grade. Not worth it man... wait till HS. If you can't drive its useless. Mommie and Daddy suck. Especialy when you wanna get some.
Quite possibly the best quote i have ever heard in my life...lol
My first GF was the summer of 7th grade...First serious relationship was like middle of 9th grade
pole15
05-14-2006, 07:01 PM
9th grade... it was stupid but I learned from it.
AttackMan17
05-14-2006, 07:07 PM
6th grade...
But my first serious relationship was this year.
My longest relationship...13 months...
Shortest...about 13 minutes. :clap:
Foxfirebass
05-14-2006, 07:07 PM
The first time I dated anyone was in 8th grade, and we went out for 9 months and actually did stuff, hah.
The last girl lasted 6 months (I'm in 9th grade now).
Hunter
05-14-2006, 07:40 PM
I started to hang out with girls in 6-7th grade but I was smart enough to know it was completely pointless to get serious with a girl while your still in middle school. I'm in High School now(9th grade) and I'm about to get my license pretty soon so its about to get a lot better. I've had two girlfriends this year, one semi serious and the other because I needed someone to go on a date with....really bad idea. I'm about to get in another relationship but I'm still not planning on really being serious.
Longpole5435
05-14-2006, 07:48 PM
My first girlfriend, at the end of 6th grade, lasted til the beggining opf ninth grade. Dumb luck, I guess. And yeah we did stuff. But as to what slinky said about mommy and daddy interferring, its not always true, my parents are cool about it, they generally leave me and a girl alone when she is over say watching a movie. Maybe I'm just lucky.
laxfolife24
05-14-2006, 08:02 PM
My first little relationship was in 6th grade. But I started dating(actually leaving my house) my sophmore year.
BeIVdeR
05-14-2006, 08:10 PM
first gf 6th
second gf 8th
third gf ??? still in 8th
many many choices
i like finding girls that dont go to my school
its pretty sweeter but ya
U NEED A CAR
or ur pretty much hosed
BigKLaxer
05-14-2006, 08:28 PM
From what I have heard, no you don't.
I have never been on a date and i am in 10th rising 11th grade.
Yes! I'm not alone. It seems like everyone around me has a girlfriend. Fortunately, most of my friends are in the same boat, so I guess I'm not totally alone.
HdGLaxWarrior
05-14-2006, 08:34 PM
Wait for HS bro.
lildixon
05-14-2006, 09:20 PM
5th grade...the girl is still mad at me
mikecoyle
05-14-2006, 11:16 PM
Title says it all.. When did you start dating?
Well i would say serious dating started when i was 16.....thats 100 years ago.
slinkyspine
05-14-2006, 11:21 PM
Quite possibly the best quote i have ever heard in my life...lol
My first GF was the summer of 7th grade...First serious relationship was like middle of 9th grade
Glad I could be there for you fellow moderator.
I dunno, no dateing till driving. I mean, you can't do it unless you have a car. Mother and Father, cant catch you in the car.
aussielax
05-14-2006, 11:34 PM
Whats all this "you need a car" buisness ? were i live you cant drive on your own until you are 18 but that doesen't mean that people wait until they are 18 to date.
I figure it doesen't matter how old you are if u find a girl that you like and you wanna go out with her, go for it.
LTlaxfan
05-15-2006, 12:47 AM
end of freshman year, but my first real boyfriend wasn't until I was a sophomore.
b-boy_laxman
05-15-2006, 05:38 AM
I had my first relathionship this year(im 12) well i wouldent realy call it a relathionship it was kinda dumb.she broke up with me but where still good freinds.
b-boy_laxman
05-15-2006, 05:40 AM
Whats all this "you need a car" buisness ? were i live you cant drive on your own until you are 18 but that doesen't mean that people wait until they are 18 to date.
I figure it doesen't matter how old you are if u find a girl that you like and you wanna go out with her, go for it.
exactly, when i had my girlfreind we walked or took my bike(she rode on the pegs, that way when i drop of a curd or do a little swerve she holds on tighter :naughty: :naughty: )
ljlax
05-15-2006, 07:59 AM
Yeah....everyone I know started dating before they could drive.
My parents used to drop me off at the movies and I would meet him there..we live far away from eachother. Or we would just hang out at eachother's houses/the beach/other friends' houses/etcc
LaxCrazy17
05-15-2006, 08:06 AM
I had my first boyfriend at age 10, his name was Brian and we grew up together. When he found out I was moving he kissed me. But it wasn't just a little peck...He's a year older than me and a freshman in College. I miss that kid.
Our idea of a date was batting cages, football, baseball, hockey, and soccer in his front yard, so I guess we never really techincally dated.
chrisbchicken13
05-15-2006, 08:55 AM
my first gf was in 7th grade..... not a good idea.
in 8th i had about 12 gazillion 1 week relationships. although i did have one girl friend from about middle 7th grade all the way to hs, but it was like on a week off a week.
but for hs 1 girlfriend, and it was cool, but right now just content with lax and hockey and hooking up with girls, rlationships suck to much. so in short just wait till hs, and even then no gf's, just "friends"
Telfair
05-15-2006, 02:55 PM
From what I have heard, no you don't.
I have never been on a date and i am in 10th rising 11th grade.
True my sister had some "boyfriends" but she is a sophomore and is dating now.. :dummy:
P.S Dating in 7th Grade is dumb, its not a true relationship.
roycegracie47
05-15-2006, 02:58 PM
First girlfriend was 7th grade and at the time we were such good friends everyone naturally assumed we were dating, though the aftermath was several years of horridness.
It's all been pretty much downhill ever since. It's been a long drought for me since the last one which also ended on a "fun note"...
redbirds07
05-15-2006, 03:05 PM
theres a lot of hate towards relationships in this thread. . but on topic, first girlfriend which involved a kiss was in gr.4. . first date was gr.7. . as for long relationships, very few times does it end nicely and stay friends with the girl/ guy. . so unless you really like the kid keep it to going on dates or just seeing each other.
MidiLine1
05-15-2006, 03:13 PM
I went out with on of my friends that were girls...it worked great. When we broke up we didn't talk to each other for a week or so then said lets just be firends and hang out still. It is kinda ok to gog out wit some1 thats your firend. (Just not like a best friend or something)
fallingupstairs
05-15-2006, 07:25 PM
first gf(well like real one) 7th gr 4 months lasted long but it kinda sucked
now got a gf thats awesome and shes 3 years older then me so thats a plus
moondog
05-15-2006, 08:01 PM
My first girlfriend was 6th grade
My first date was to see a movie called "Wayne's World"
My first makeout was on our second date when we saw "White Men Can't Jump"
I was in 6th grade and she was in 8th grade (in my brother's class). I really didn't know what to do at first, so I just let her go to town, and I tried to learn as fast as I could.
I had no idea how to kiss, how to touch her--but she was very helpful, and we stayed together for 5 months, which is pretty good for a 6th grader.
I mean, what high school freshman girl wants to date a 7th grader?
I've had one girl friend in 7th grade...went for two weeks, I dumped her because, although she was my gf, and liked me a lot, she never wanted to hang out, too shy I guess, but I wasn't exactly a pimp. Haven't had a girl since, but oh well.
WickedDpole21
05-16-2006, 05:41 PM
I was in 6th grade and she was in 8th grade (in my brother's class). I really didn't know what to do at first, so I just let her go to town, and I tried to learn as fast as I could.
I had no idea how to kiss, how to touch her--but she was very helpful, and we stayed together for 5 months, which is pretty good for a 6th grader.
I mean, what high school freshman girl wants to date a 7th grader?
thats awesome... u lucky man
laxattack#7
05-16-2006, 08:29 PM
7th grade. It went for like 3 months, and then i dumped her cuz she was always hangin around with other guys.
WickedDpole21
05-17-2006, 04:56 PM
7th grade. It went for like 3 months, and then i dumped her cuz she was always hangin around with other guys.
ooooo cheating in 7th grade.....an early start i see. good way to end up pregnant
lax@wwu21
05-17-2006, 06:34 PM
8th grade. Not worth it man... wait till HS. If you can't drive its useless. Mommie and Daddy suck. Especialy when you wanna get some.
This is one of the most ridiculous posts. If you wanna get some...
Wait until at least 11th grade so you can drive, I could drive in 10th. You also need to complete puberty to "get some"...
ekajsk8er
05-17-2006, 06:39 PM
Tru dat man. Im sure i could get one, just not one i find attractive.
Same here. All the girls that end up liking me are either 1) really young 2)really annoying 3)not my type at all 4) Not very attractive, not very nice
why can't just one normal, not insanely good looking (but i won't argue if she is) girl like me?
GlaxR
05-17-2006, 07:08 PM
i love girls and i love their body parts how bout that one
Attackalltheway
05-17-2006, 08:15 PM
I go to a school where you don't really have relationships. Its mostly just go to the movies with the same amount of boys and girls and you just makeout or get a lappie.
faceitoff
05-18-2006, 06:01 PM
I started dating in the womb.
i live 4 lax
05-18-2006, 06:08 PM
I started dating in the womb.
:lol: nice. i started dating this girl in the beggining of 7th and we still go out and its the end of 8th.
reLAXing3
05-18-2006, 08:20 PM
My first was like 6th gradeish...waste of time and money. Don't even bother until your in highschool. But then again guys get screwed in highschool because all the girls in their class when they are freshman will go for all the older guys.
A relationship is best when you can drive
lax888
05-19-2006, 11:21 PM
it sucks i'm in 9th grade going on 10th and I haven't been on a date
Damn I really need a girlfriend
I have an excuse-I'M Asian-
Mr.Pockets19
05-20-2006, 08:15 PM
My i've olny been with one girl, and it lasted for like 3 days, and we saw each other maybe twice, becuase i was either at lax, or my cottage.
Mr.Pockets19
05-20-2006, 08:19 PM
My first was like 6th gradeish...waste of time and money. Don't even bother until your in highschool. But then again guys get screwed in highschool because all the girls in their class when they are freshman will go for all the older guys.
A relationship is best when you can drive
true, i've pretty much figured it out at my school : the gr 9 girls wanna be with the gr 10 guys, the gr 10 girls wanna be with the gr 11 guys, the gr 11 girls wanna be with the gr 12 guys, here's where it gets a little weird, the gr12 girls wanna be with the guy teachers, ok, now it's really weird........the girl teachers wanna be with the gr 9 guys.
its true, as unbelievable as it is, my friend's hot english teacher was always hitting on me, and still is
Attackalltheway
05-20-2006, 08:28 PM
I go to a school where you don't really have relationships. Its mostly just go to the movies with the same amount of boys and girls and you just makeout or get a lappie.
Man, I love my school
whslax1990
05-20-2006, 08:32 PM
first was 5th grade, you know where technically your going out but not really. well it lasted the entire summer, i called her like once, never hung out, saw her at walmart once, I just laugh about it now. First date and semi-real gf was 8th grade 3rd and 4th also in 8th geade. freshman year i dated 3 or 4 and this year i went out with this girl a little bit during january-broke up and going back out now.
So all in all- first real date 8th grade (13 or 14 i think)
standenup
05-20-2006, 09:08 PM
P.S Dating in 7th Grade is dumb, its not a true relationship.
that's why i never really got into it and i guess it screwed me over. 15 years old and kissless.
BTlaxripper
06-12-2006, 01:34 PM
6th grade.
But honestly, you realize how juvenile you were.
Dating means nothing until you atleast have a lisence and a car.
Mavido
06-12-2006, 01:50 PM
I started in 7th grade... but it didnt really mean anything.
didnt really start to have fun, until i managed to get a car.. thats when the fun started.
WHEELAX2
06-12-2006, 01:51 PM
never... and I still haven't
girls are the debil
Mavido
06-12-2006, 01:59 PM
never... and I still haven't
girls are the debil
Awww! Wheel, im sure one day you'll meet a girl that doesnt scare you. (by the way, you can geta cootie shot at the doctors... for only $9)....
LoyolaMiddie878
06-12-2006, 05:30 PM
no one should start dating until junior or senior year in high school...
all that matters are the hook-ups until then. :thumbsup:
the next 'one'
06-12-2006, 06:27 PM
i had my first "girlfriend" in about 4th grade. i had a really serious relationship this year that lasted about 8 months. i am going to be a freshmen this fall.
bohveedah
06-12-2006, 06:53 PM
4 months after I turned 16, I went on my first date. I was an idiot and nervous and uptight and all this crap. Eh, it's hard to learn without experience, so I'm not unhappy. Anyway. Dating young is stupid and lame. Go on dates when you're older, you're smarter and you have more fun. Seriously.
I agree, although I don't know what age you consider "older." I had some "girlfriends" in middle school, which I consider jokes, but now I'm with a girl who I have been with for 7 months (as of tommorow) and things are going really well. I'm a junior now, and she's a sophomore.
Oside Lax
06-12-2006, 08:09 PM
Tru dat man. Im sure i could get one, just not one i find attractive.
THis might be the case for every male on the planet. sad but true :sad:
pole15
06-12-2006, 08:09 PM
all that matters are the hook-ups until then
I know people that do this and I choose not to. I'm lucky to have found someone that really means something to me in highschool. When it's real and not stupid you'll know...
Bagattaway20
06-12-2006, 08:09 PM
Not allowed dating till like grade 10 or 11.........Still had girlfriend though this year in grade 8.......totally waste of precious time that i could be playing lacrosse!!!!!!
cshlax05
06-14-2006, 12:45 PM
6th grade but i dont count any of my girlfriends i had until like the middle of 7th cause thats when i started hooking up with them and stuff
manup5183
06-14-2006, 02:47 PM
i started in 6th but nothing wasnt like going steady. im with someone right now and have been with her for 3 months maybe. i think its actually a relationship. but what can i say...... im good with the ladys :naughty: :naughty: :naughty:
CHSlax
06-14-2006, 08:52 PM
well in 5th grade i had my like first g/f who was a sixth grader i know i know im quit the pimp lol
wcwarriorlax
06-14-2006, 11:59 PM
i had mi first "girlfriend" in 4th grade and went out 4 da first time in 6th
BTlaxripper
06-15-2006, 02:15 AM
I know people that do this and I choose not to. I'm lucky to have found someone that really means something to me in highschool. When it's real and not stupid you'll know...
Here's my look on it. . . high school and college, why not have short relationships or just hook ups because you need to explore and experiment with types of girls that fit you.
Example: My cousin got engaged to her first boyfriend ever that she started going out with when she was 15. She is 23 and just broke off their engagement because she realized they were nothing alike. So there are 8 years of dating out the window. What a waste.
ByrdDpole
06-15-2006, 02:35 AM
Well, i had a girlfriend in 5th grade. one in 6th, too. None in 7th. one this year. i just recently broke up with her. She cried :nofear:.
So anyway, I'm heading into 9th and I dunno, seems like alot of girls like me. I'm gonna try to hook up with this one girl who lives like a mile away. I walk over to her house all the time.
stalls
06-15-2006, 02:38 AM
8th it only gets better boys enjoy college
Lax Star
06-18-2006, 02:39 PM
I'm 11 and I'm turning 12 this thursday, I first had a gf in 4th grade, and she wasn't a virgin either, she had done it 3 times, with other 4th graders. I didn't really get it, I was only 8 at the time. My other girlfriend was in 7th grade, meaning this past school year, it was ok, lasted 2 months, only actually kissed her 4 times, 2 making outs and the rest was hugs.
MJlax26
06-18-2006, 04:05 PM
erm... my first "girlfriend" was in 4th grade.
If your talking about literally going on a date then 6th grade (not same girlfriend)
same here,