First Fight

[laxbabe2121]

just had my first mini riff raff w/ tyler (online bf. some of you guys know what i'm talking about from the ala forum). i guess i put into question if our relationship was gonna last since i wouldn't see him until like winter break, and he got kinda upset about it. and he was like "when i first asked you out, i asked if you were gonna be ok wit this, and you said yes" and i was like umm yea, but i guess this whole online relationship's getting the best of me. and so we talked somemore on the phone, and he wasn't to happy with me. and he kept asking if i wanted to break up w/ him, and i kept saying i didn't know, cuz i didn't know! and so then he had to go, so we said our bye's in a hurry. and then i felt like i was gonna cry, so i called this one guy named sean, who's in the same boat as me, relationship wise (met his chick online) so when i was venting out to him, tyler called me, and so when i switched over, i was like ty, can i call you back in a few minutes? i'm on the phone w/ another guy. and THAT was pretty stupid of me to say! so he was like what?! another guy? and i was like no! its not like that, but i quickly said my good bye's to sean, and called ty right back. ty actaully called cuz he wanted to break up w/ me, cuz he thought that's what i wanted, and he thought that i was to scared to do it. i explained the whole thing to him, and then he was like alrite, what excatly do you want, and i told him that i loved him, and he was unlike any guy i've ever met, beucase i could just talk to him for hours and hours, and just someother stuff that i liked about him. and i was like well umm what's ur view, and he was said that he knew that he loved me, and that he felt the same. and he was like do you wanna break up w/ me? and i was like no. and then i asked what he wanted, and he was like "the only thing i want is you" i was like wow.. he knows what to say. i guess i never should have put our relationship into question, beucase its like now i know that he cares for me, and i'm kinda glad we had this "fight" beucase its like... when i'm so close to losing someone i love, i finally realized how much i really did love tyler, and what my life would be w/out him. he told me that the only thing he wanted was to make me happy... even if it ment hurting his feelings. i know NOW, finally, that he's the perfect one for me.

[Longest]

Fighting sucks but it turned out good for you, that's great to hear :-)

Dan

[Rix]

fights suck...but sometimes after a fight with your gf, things get a lil more " intense " :agree

[Longest]

Easy Rix. Wipe off the monitor.

Dan

[mwn8989]

good one, but seriously, i think fights are just tests of ones comittment to another, if your relationship can survive a fight, that will only make it stronger by reaffirming your trust in each other, and if it cant survive a fight, then it probably wasnt meant to be

[Longest]

Unless you fight all the freaking time. Other side of the coin.

Dan

[mwn8989]

well thats just dragging out an already failed realtionship if constant fighting is the norm, i'd consider that already over...

[laxbabe2121]

Originally posted by Longest
Easy Rix. Wipe off the monitor.

Dan

ahah that's great. naw, this was just our first fight

[Farley6]

Wait, I'm sorry, is this for real? Are you really dating someone in a different state? That's hard enough, but have you ever met in real life? Is this just a big joke or are you serious? What does that mean "dating someone online"? what do you do? Do you not private message other guys or something how does this work out?? I am confused.... Wait, i was just reading what you wrote again, is your online boyfriend Brew? Did you say that you love him? Have you ever held hands or anything? I'm sorry, this whole thing is a very new concept to me. Is anyone else dating someone online? I would LOVE to hear about this.....
Just so you know, i am not being sarcastic, well, maybe i am a little bit, but is this really going on and how big is it, you said your friend has an online girlfriend too, so it makes me very curious...

[laxbabe2121]

yea its for real, i know its hard to grasp. its the first time i've ever "dated" someone online. he lives in NC while i live in VA. 270 miles from each other. no, we haven't met each other. he gets his lisence in oct. and i've offered for me to just drive down there, but he always declines it cuz he says "no, you're the girl, you shouldn't have to drive down here, i'll drive up there to see you when i get my lisence. i don't want you driving for this long of a distance." the next time i'm positive i'll meet him is winter break. MAYBE sept 5th. we basically just talk online,on the phone, and over e-mail constantly. mostly on the phone though. we've sent pics to each other and stuff. haha, i still respond to all those PMs from you guys pretty well huh? his name's tyler, on the brine forum he goes by burtonlax10. yes i said i loved him. no we've never held hands. and my friend that has an online gf, he's the only other person i know that has one of these things. well on the brine forum, it turns out a few other ppl have tried it out. off-topic-online relationships. my friends say i'm stupid, and retarded, and that i should just date a laxer here in NoVa, but i've met them, dated them, and hated them. lol, actaully to our V boys lacrosse team, most of them think of me as a little sister, beucase i dated the guy on the team that everyone liked (you know.. the funny one, that no one can hate cuz he's to nice?) so of course you can't date an older brother!! hahah yea trust me, i think its kinda wierd too dating online and such... but maybe after i meet him things will be a little bit better?

[Fentruck]

Meh... I wouldnt want to do that much of a long-distance relationship. My friend has one going now where she lives about an hour and a half away and his parents are none-too happy... he doesnt know if he'll ever see her again


Me... I'm stickin to local :)

[btkid08]

i want to get a long distance going wid a girl from camp, but she aint willing.