Girl Problems

[laerdude04]

For some reason the search bar isn't working for me right now, so if a mod could move this into the megathread or make this the new megathread.


So this girl calls my best friend to specifically ask about me and talks to him for like an hour for about me. Basically she sees me with friends and wants to get to know "that me". She ended the conversation with "he'd be so much cuter if he talked more around me and to me". Does this mean she likes me and wants a relationship or just wants get to know me better? Cause it seems that if she just wanted to be my friend she wouldn't talk to my friend specifically about me for an hour. But when I approached her today and started talking to her she just kinda looked at me and was really quiet. But she then got on aim later today and told my friend "Guess what? (my name) finally talked to me" right when she signed on.


What does this all mean?

[SuperSully]

I completly agree with ArteEtLabore, depending on what grade you are in of course. Just take it slow and see whats there. I found it ironic that this was posted at the same time i was on the phone with my girlfriend. (oh did i mention she is amazing at lax :) ) But good luck, keep us posted.

[czechinthepipes]

^^ ya as they said, she has some interest in you (most likely more than friends), but dont rush it, becom friends and move on at a good pace see what happens.

[DRobinson1692]

dude just becuase she didn't look at you doesn't mean she's not interested
she might just be shy or something
go ahead and work with it!

[vikinglax3522]

how bout the old where to good of freinds line that girls love to pull how do you dodge that bullet



and can anyone please tell me what it means to leave them wanting more, my brother said it solved all his problems but i dont know what it means

[laerdude04]

How old/what grade are you?
11th, but this is weird for me most of the time I can tell when girls are into me, because they are responsive and look into my eyes, and they find ways to come hang out with me. For instance this one girl came to one of my games and made a sign for me, which definantly stands out because no one hear makes signs for lacrosse games.

dude just becuase she didn't look at you doesn't mean she's not interested
she might just be shy or something
go ahead and work with it!
It's much harder to talk to girls that are shy. How should I work it with a really shy girl, and she shouldn't be shy because she is HOT!!! :devil: :devil: :devil:

[RottingMind13]

She might not be shy, maybe she's just playing hard to get to make you more interested. Many times we want what we can not have more than anything else.

[MaKiMaKi13]

dood your in 11th grade and your still having trouble understanding chicks lol its not that complicated man, some girls are shy when the like a guy and some are more aggressive, but anyways since she is a shy girl just be nice to her and move slow because you don't want to freak her out friends first and then you can see where it leads you

[freestylewalkin]

dood your in 11th grade and your still having trouble understanding chicks lol its not that complicated man, some girls are shy when the like a guy and some are more aggressive, but anyways since she is a shy girl just be nice to her and move slow because you don't want to freak her out friends first and then you can see where it leads you

Women aren't ment to be figured out.

[lax9]

hmmm she definately has interest, but she is deffinately shy,so i would say she likes you but doesn't know that well and wants to get to know you a BIT better before she makes a move, so dont be too aggressive, just be slow and be friends with her

[UVAlaxer432]

Women aren't ment to be figured out.

I couldn't agree more...

[laxrat22]

Women aren't ment to be figured out.

amen, you can be the oldest man in the world with the most knowledge and you still wont be able to figure them out

[lacrosse_newbie]

See my later posts, it'll show a web and list of facts.

[Mrmccoolsatool]

I guess ince that problem is solved, is it okay to add my own problem?? i'd think so, since if i start a new htread, everyone will be like "search search search" so it hink its ok. If not, i'll edit my post.

Ok, I like this girl, who likes her ex boyfriend, my friend, who dumped her for her bestfriend. She then, in order to get back at him, claims she likes his other best friend, then realizes that ryan, the person she claims o like but only likes him to get back at jack, the guy that dumped her for her best friend. Tess, the girl i like, still likes jack, and jack knows that, and asked her why she liked him, and he knew i liked her, and he told me why she liked him. Why, I don't know. Maybe to help me?? Anyway, I'm really confused. I thought she kinda liked me, but im not really sure.

Dude, I have You, Jack, Ryan, and a Tess.. But nothing in between. can you try like writing that whole thing in bullets that are easy to follow.. or draw a web of who likes who perhaps...

[lacrosse_newbie]

Dude, I have You, Jack, Ryan, and a Tess.. But nothing in between. can you try like writing that whole thing in bullets that are easy to follow.. or draw a web of who likes who perhaps...
Thesse are the facts.

-I like a girl named B.
-She still likes her ex boyfriend, A
-A is her ex because he left her for HER best friend.
-She, in trying to get back at him, claims she likes A's OTHER best friend, C who right now, is going out with some girl names D.
-A knows B still likes A. A asks why she likes him.
-A tells ME why B liked HIM.
-SHE is single and I am single, and i thought she might have liked me a bit, but i never asked her out.
-We are in a musical together, that's how i know B and D. everyone else I already knew.

[lacrosse_newbie]

Here's the web.

-A likes his new gf.
-B likes A.
-B pretends to like C.
-I like B.
-D likes C.
-C doesn't like D anymore, but they're still together anyway.

[mass_elite21]

yowza. your group of friends is very incestuous. i say just tell tess you like her, and screw the rest of them

[laxrat22]

dude your 12, i suggest you put off worrying about girls for awhile and focus on memorizing your times tables, sorry i had to take a little shot at this cuz its just seems so funny and such a cliche middle school drama. the whole pretending to like someone to get back at someone else is stupid and immature, so i suggest move on to a better chick


my problem, dinner with my girlfriends parents tonight, aaaahhhhhh this should be interesting

[lacrosse_newbie]

dude your 12, i suggest you put off worrying about girls for awhile and focus on memorizing your times tables, sorry i had to take a little shot at this cuz its just seems so funny and such a cliche middle school drama. the whole pretending to like someone to get back at someone else is stupid and immature, so i suggest move on to a better chick


my problem, dinner with my girlfriends parents tonight, aaaahhhhhh this should be interesting
I did times tables in second grade. Nowadays it's more like rationals. I'm sure that if I put off girls for a while, at an all boys school, i'll be horizontal and that would suck. I highly doubt that you took your own advice when you were in 7th grade, so if you didn't do not be a hypocrite and tell me how to live my life when you do not live yours that way.

[berger1227]

I did times tables in second grade. Nowadays it's more like rationals. I'm sure that if I put off girls for a while, at an all boys school, i'll be horizontal and that would suck. I highly doubt that you took your own advice when you were in 7th grade, so if you didn't do not be a hypocrite and tell me how to live my life when you do not live yours that way.

i have to admit laxrat, he kind of owned you with that one^

i think...in my less then expert opinion...you should assume the girl who you like (tess?) likes you

haha did anyone else think how funny this would be if any of the mentioned names just sort of found this thread?

[laxrat22]

i kinda got over getting owned by kids on the internet so it doesn't really bother me.
my whole post was just to mock middle school drama because its something we've all been through and when you get older you look back on it and realize how dumb and in many ways hilarious it all is, trust me lacrosse_newbie you'll see what i mean in a few years. just keep your head up high, your pimp hand strong and you'll be fine, and the more love triangles (in this case its more than a triangle) the easier life is

[homeskillet313]

i kinda got over getting owned by kids on the internet so it doesn't really bother me.
my whole post was just to mock middle school drama because its something we've all been through and when you get older you look back on it and realize how dumb and in many ways hilarious it all is, trust me lacrosse_newbie you'll see what i mean in a few years. just keep your head up high, your pimp hand strong and you'll be fine, and the more love triangles (in this case its more than a triangle) the easier life is

yes middle school drama looks dumb when your in high school, then high school drama looks dumb in college, and college drama looks dumb when your in the work force, and god forbid, when your married, your going to look at yourself sweating the girlfriends parents dinner party and laugh at how dumb you must have looked. then when your old and wise, you look back on everything, and realize that it was all worthwhile

[SDPirate]

to viking lax- suggest friends with benefits, including a dental plan.

to lacrosse newbie- find a new girl. that **** sounded like too much drama

[Riot]

Here's the web.

-Jack likes his new gf.
-Tess likes jack.
-Tess pretends to like Ryan.
-I like Tess.
-Nicole likes Ryan.
-Ryan doesn't like Nicole anymore, but they're still together anyway.
I think this exact same thing happened to me in 8th grade. I ended up dating "Tess" for two weeks and then she broke up with me and dated my best friend.. out of nowhere.. the day after. I didn't even know they'd talked. Hahaha, I remember she had her friend IM me to break up with me. Good times.

[lacrosse_newbie]

i have to admit laxrat, he kind of owned you with that one^

i think...in my less then expert opinion...you should assume the girl who you like (tess?) likes you

haha did anyone else think how funny this would be if any of the mentioned names just sort of found this thread?
-removed for safety reasons- is on TLF, it's possible he could...

[WickedDpole21]

:nut: ooo, my turn!

ok ill do it like lacrosse newb. and plz dont flame me. it might not sound important to u, but it is to me. and i dont want to here u say that it doenst matter.

i went to this bonfire. i am C.
this girl that i have liked was there. we'll call her A
she has a bf (B), but its fizzling out.
we made out.
she also likes this guy 2 her shcool (D)
she says she likes me, but has too much on her mind so were just friends for now.
she broke up with her bf (B) yesterday. what do i do?
and im tryin to ask her friends wuts goin on with D, but i dont know yet.
when do i move in (on A)? without seeming too..... impatient.
i really like her, i dont want to screw this up. we are really good friends. (me and A)

oh, and to make matters worse, A's best friend likes me. and A doesnt want to hurt her bestfriend's feelings.
but i dont like her bestfriend. at all. and i mean at all.


any advice? :nut:

[chsattack22]

if you want her that bad move in before the other guy (D)

[CSlax06]

:nut: ooo, my turn!

ok ill do it like lacrosse newb. and plz dont flame me. it might not sound important to u, but it is to me. and i dont want to here u say that it doenst matter.

i went to this bonfire. i am C.
this girl that i have liked was there. we'll call her A
she has a bf (B), but its fizzling out.
we made out.
she also likes this guy 2 her shcool (D)
she says she likes me, but has too much on her mind so were just friends for now.
she broke up with her bf (B) yesterday. what do i do?
and im tryin to ask her friends wuts goin on with D, but i dont know yet.
when do i move in (on A)? without seeming too..... impatient.
i really like her, i dont want to screw this up. we are really good friends. (me and A)

oh, and to make matters worse, A's best friend likes me. and A doesnt want to hurt her bestfriend's feelings.
but i dont like her bestfriend. at all. and i mean at all.


any advice? :nut:


Go for it, its not like there arent anymore chicks out there.

[berger1227]

:nut: ooo, my turn!

ok ill do it like lacrosse newb. and plz dont flame me. it might not sound important to u, but it is to me. and i dont want to here u say that it doenst matter.

i went to this bonfire. i am C.
this girl that i have liked was there. we'll call her A
she has a bf (B), but its fizzling out.
we made out.
she also likes this guy 2 her shcool (D)
she says she likes me, but has too much on her mind so were just friends for now.
she broke up with her bf (B) yesterday. what do i do?
and im tryin to ask her friends wuts goin on with D, but i dont know yet.
when do i move in (on A)? without seeming too..... impatient.
i really like her, i dont want to screw this up. we are really good friends. (me and A)

oh, and to make matters worse, A's best friend likes me. and A doesnt want to hurt her bestfriend's feelings.
but i dont like her bestfriend. at all. and i mean at all.


any advice? :nut:


GO FOR IT CONNOR haha yea i think you should try

[vikinglax3522]

alright i have another problem ill give the facts like the other guys


-we can call me A
-and i like B and C
-i dated B for about a month and then we broke up
-now B is going out with D but i thik she might still have feelings for me
-and C is a is a good freind the one i was talking about in my previous post
-C likes this complete E whos a comple a-hole
-D would kill me if i took his girlfreind but i dont know the odds of that happening
-i hang out with C alot but she cant seem to get off E and get on A
-Es got a new girlfreind F
-and C and F got in a fight at this bonfire last week
-i was there the hole time for C nothing happens
-and B is with D so i kinda got screwed over




anyone have any ideas on what i could do to get one of these girls

[laxkid891]

Everything you ever need to know about dating before you graduate highschool-

1) Women are the root of all evil, dont trust them.

2) Dont spend money on them, its a waste. Meals are OK, small gifts on birthdays or holidays are acceptable. But by no means anything expensive, and certainly by no means any jewelry.

3) Girls with preexisting problems are out of the picture. Period.

4) You are dating to have fun, not start a family. Plan accordingly.

5) No matter what you think, nobody in highschool "loves" eachother. Period. You may confuse lust or attraction with love, but make no mistake, you wont ever "love" a girl in highschool.

6) Women come second to friends, no matter the hotness. Very hot girls can get equal time, but by no means will they ever pass the men on the chain. Women who are able to interact with your friends are ideal. Being whipped is bad.

Thats pretty much the end. Keep in mind I know everything there is to know about everything, and Im never wrong.
dang LM32 u are sounding like dr. phil more and more each day....maybe u are dr. phil? :ahhno:
anyways i do agree with #3 and #4

[GRLAXSTR19]

alright i have another problem ill give the facts like the other guys


-we can call me A
-and i like B and C
-i dated B for about a month and then we broke up
-now B is going out with D but i thik she might still have feelings for me
-and C is a is a good freind the one i was talking about in my previous post
-C likes this complete E whos a comple a-hole
-D would kill me if i took his girlfreind but i dont know the odds of that happening
-i hang out with C alot but she cant seem to get off E and get on A
-Es got a new girlfreind F
-and C and F got in a fight at this bonfire last week
-i was there the hole time for C nothing happens
-and B is with D so i kinda got screwed over




anyone have any ideas on what i could do to get one of these girls



changing schools of moving to a different state is always a decent plan

[italianstalion]

ok well i got one and i am not gonna use the letters cause i hate that and whenver i see letters like that i cant comprehend anything (ask my geometry teacher LOL) so anyway i went to my friends gf's house like 2 weeks ago and he went to and like three other girls. the one girl who was going out with my other friend was there and i always had a thing for her and she had been talking about breaking up with my friend for a while. so she decides she is going to come sit with me and flirt a little bit and everything and i totally forgot that she was going out with my friend because i was "blinded by love" as they say. so we went inside and shes like "chris come sit next to me so you know we were just hanging out really we didnt do anything bad but afterwards i fekt horrible for even putting my arm around my friends girl. so now i am stuck cause she broke up with him but a lot of my ffriends tell me she likes to play people and shes probly just playin me, but you kno i dont listen and i talk to my friend that was there and he agreed it didnt look like she was stringing me along but then this morning i told him i was going to ask her out and he laughed and then i told his gf who is also like one of my best friends and the girls friend and she laughed too and told me not to so i dont kno what to do.

i did make plans with her this weekend to go to the mall and get pics with santa lol but this would be the third weekend in a row i tried and she told me i could then something came up or as she says. so should i trust this girl and ask her out or just try to forget about it?

[Live4It]

First, I would ask for your friends "ok" before going out with his recently broken up with girl friend, you don't wanna ruin your friendship, and due to the leading people on deal, I wouldn't spend money on her untill you really know her. And I think you have more important problems, like your geometry project, remember that.

[italianstalion]

First, I would ask for your friends "ok" before going out with his recently broken up with girl friend, you don't wanna ruin your friendship, and due to the leading people on deal, I wouldn't spend money on her untill you really know her. And I think you have more important problems, like your geometry project, remember that.
LOL i gave up on geometry for the night

[laxrat22]

ok rule number 1 for everyone: BROS BEFORE HOES

italianstalion, follow rule #1, talk to your friend before asking his ex out, and the girl seems a litte shady too

WickedDpole- at this bonfire was there alcohol being consumed, just curious cuz you never know with bonfires. i say you give her some space for now but not too much so that D will get her

viking- i think you're kinda screwed, cuz B is taken and C is to hung up on the a-hole to realize anything else which is never a good situation for the other guy

[WickedDpole21]

ok rule number 1 for everyone: BROS BEFORE HOES

italianstalion, follow rule #1, talk to your friend before asking his ex out, and the girl seems a litte shady too

WickedDpole- at this bonfire was there alcohol being consumed, just curious cuz you never know with bonfires. i say you give her some space for now but not too much so that D will get her

viking- i think you're kinda screwed, cuz B is taken and C is to hung up on the a-hole to realize anything else which is never a good situation for the other guy
thanks for the advice laxrat. and no, not enough to impare judjement

[VTLaxFan]

thanks for the advice laxrat. and no, not enough to impare judjement
hey dude, where do you live in Vt?

[SDPirate]

those are the new rules? pretty damn good i say.
but im confused i thought the rules were:
-go balls deep
-when it doubt pull it out

[huskielax2010]

All these problems with the ladies are fine but this is my motto, "If your single you can mingle(sp?)" Plus never date between nov. and feb. Because thats when the big$$$$ holidays are. Good luck to all the ladies men in the forum, because i know i have my own!